DOES ALL MALE WITH ASPERGER'S DESIRE SEX?

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Indeed it is.

Take no notice of it....why you call him a best friend, I do not know but a friend regrets saying things like that, like my friend showed...it's not only immature, it's so ret*d to think of the world that narrowly.

That's the case with almost everywhere...by the time they do grow up, you lose interest so it's a very awkward situation to be in....as a friend told me once (online), "Idiots breed with idiots and thus the cycle continues", I don't think like that of course but if you're feeling blue, that definately helps.

Exactly, looks alone don't make a person...

Glad to hear it, but don't be decieved...just get to know the people there first before diving in.

Nonsense, I know plenty of sexual people who don't want to reproduce. Not everybody's life is overridden by their instincts and plenty of people strive and manage to be much more than breeding material.

I think I've replied to this thread already, I'll just give a more... Up to date answer. I've never been very sexual myself. I'm only sexual at all in a relationship, and very, very rarely when I feel in the mood like once or twice in a year. Even then it's quite brief. And I'm not very sexual in a relationship, as it's usually my partner who engages in it.

I just don't feel like it otherwise. If I try to induce an orgasm, I'll likely not feel much pleasure. I have to be really in the mood to enjoy sex.

Though I don't mind if my partner is sexual. I still like making them feel good, even if I don't get anything. I'm the type of guy who likes giving more than getting.

Well I get past what he says and just continue hanging around him, he's actually pretty neat, just that one little thing that kind of annoys me :/.
I agree with you, it's very immature.

That reminds me of 'My Name is Earl' it's a show about this guy who commits all these crimes and one day gets hit by a bus after winning $100.000 and loses the lottery ticket, while he was in hospital a show about Karma was on, so he made a list of everything bad he ever did and... Anyway, he wanted to go back to school and his teachers wouldn't let him back in unless he teached one class how to behave or something. Anyway, Earl tried to explain why these kids wouldn't want to grow up doing all these silly things and one kid said to him, "The difference between you and us is... You were born a loser!". This made me laugh because in about 20/30 (Maybe even 50!) they'll realize that they've made big mistakes and try to warn other kids and they'd get a similar or same reply from those kids -face palm- lolol.

Well, my Mum's boyfriend is up there right now working and from what we've heard from him, it's actually really nice up there. But yeah, there is still immature/bad people anywhere, so of course I won't let my guard down .



I think it's also how we're brought up.



That's not a bad thing (:
You sound like the type of person who just wants love, and to make your partner happy in a relationship. As long as you're happy and she's happy then that's no problem, right? (:

I don't think we all do. I'm currently a virgin, but even though I believe I am a highly sexual person upon analyzing myself, I have so far only met a few girls I would actively pursue. Lots have been very nice girls but never really connected. A lot of the time it just doesn't happen, but no matter.

I am quite picky about what I like when comes to women I'm attracted to, not necessarily in terms of looks, but just in general when it comes to being with a woman in a relationship. I would ideally like a family quite early on, as I feel it would give me an impetus to achieve, since what I want to do in my life certainly involves any family I might have.

I've rambled but basically, I personally believe there are many men with Aspergers who do desire a sexual relationship, but there are also a significant amount who don't. It is probably only very slightly unequal.

Yeah, I think a lot of males are this way because they're raised with porn and their friends encourage them to do things that they normally wouldn't etc.

My sister and her friends do these things too, they got introduced to this stuff at a young age and get encouraged to do things they usually wouldn't (Same with most males growing up) but there are girls out there that are like this too.
It just all depends on how you're raised.

Fair enough, but he should be more sensitive to what you personally think and your values.

That show is pretty cool...it is shown in England too. It's like a cycle of Karma.

Good for you. I wish you the best success buddy.

Well,... I guess this'll sound weird but that's what most people are like here... That's why I'm getting out of here also, I think I'm going to go insane if I have to spend another minute with these people.. lol.

Yeah, that show is pretty good xD

And thank you, but lets not go off topic about this, makes it messier for the Forum Moderators to clean up.

True, porn is so readily available on the internet that it is impossible for most young men to resist if they have an inkling of an interest in sex, which I think most do.

lol Yeah.

Indeed.

Eh? I thought communicating is what it's all about, regardless of Off Topicing? As you wish...

Yeah ):
But try to keep in mind that a lot of females are like this too at a young age (Well, in my area at least, they're VERY open about their life and not very private... o_o)



Hm? Sorry, I'm just use to other forums with super strict forum moderators xD.

Oh trust me I've noticed . It is the same in my area, except that there are also females who lie about it too. There really isn't a massive amount of difference between the genders with regards to some things.

Fair enough.

As for the topic...I wonder if there are as many asexual man or can that come with age?

True, true.
-sigh-
Wish both genders were 50/50, then maybe at least 90% of the world can understand each other :/.




Are you refering to me? I'm not A-s*xual, I'm Metro-s*xual.
Though, if you weren't: I don't think it comes with age, I had one friend that was A-S*xual. She didn't like s*x at all, she didn't even have the feelings for it.
I believe you're either born gay, straight, a-s*xual etc. You can't just simply become something over time.

Why would someone's orientation change as they aged?

I mean anyone, not just you. XD

Fair enough. Although I believe some people can become asexual if they have experienced some horrible experience from it such as sexual abuse...since they will lose trust in anyone who suggests about having sex if they have been traumatised by that sort of thing.



Well...guys seem to lose interest as they get older (I have no proof to back that up though), so I thought maybe they start thinking like a woman when it comes to sex when they are in their 50's...