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LOL

Geez can this thread get any worse?.... >_<

Interestingly, Black women are actually some of the pickiest in terms of dating outside of their race.

They did a study (I'm too lazy to look for it now) about people dating outside of their race.

They actually found that black women preferred to date their own race, and that this was a reason for the high single rate (or one of them -- the other is that there's a big problem in that community right now with people getting or staying married, despite having kids). East Indian women also were very unlikely to date outside of their race, largely for cultural and religious reasons.

I think for Black Women, it's sheer physical preference - if you're somewhat masculine-looking or high testosterone, you're going to want someone more so to date in most cases. I do know exceptions, like this woman I work with who is big, black, and loves only white boys, but they are exceptions, not the norm.

Asian women are actually very likely to date outside of their race -- the link below shows some pretty interesting statistics on this:
Asian Interracial Dating Survey

Btw, I don't mind Brusilov being blunt about his preferences -- far too much political correctness in today's world. As long as he's not attacking or insulting anyone, I do like to gain psychological insight into everyone's preferences. I know for me the Asian mutual attraction thing with me has always been interesting, and a puzzle.

Yeah, I'm tired of pussyfooting political correctness.

I'm not racist.... I have color TV.

But seriously, what is so wrong with wanting to stay inside your culture? White people need to get some pride.

I have bi-racial pride. But then there are several races that I am not of. I also am proud of them, though I dont carry the genes. All races need someone to be proud of them.

Thanks Alex, but I'm figuring it out, all on my own.

No , I didn't say you were lying even if I didn't exclude this probability , reread my post again please.

I think that you are not aware what really happened to you. Girls don't usually start conversation with a mere stranger guy out there just because they were curious of what he was doing , as I said ..people usually don't really mind what others are working in public unless if they are really interested in them. When a girl is so attracted to a stranger guy then she would try to seek for a "trigger" to start a conversation with him and it was the notes writing in your case. Its not because you were doing something unusual in public that made them attracted to you but it's certainly something else, most probably your shape or looks.

As I said , there are geeks or looners who do unusual/unsocial stuff in public like reading an unusual book or playing with some unusual geeky device ,yet girls (even if they were drunk!) won't approach them like butterflies to flowers unless if these guys are drop dead sexy.

Girls don't suggest to a guy to dance naked in his place just because of what you were doing there in the bar but it's because she found you sexually attractive since the beginning (and her being drunk has nothing to do with that).

I wasn't saying that way couldn't work for you (even though,yes...I admit that I have my doubts) , but it won't 100% work for every guy. Jut put an unattractive guy in your place , let him emulate the 100% same stuff that you were doing there and he won't get the same result, most probably he won't get any result (Even if he's genuinely ignoring the girls like you were doing). This can't be a magical granted formula to get one night stands , it's impossible , but that's what you were making it sounds like.





In fact, from what I heard from foreigners , Middle-eastern people are much more known to be socially curious than Europeans , especially the Britons.

And I really hate when people assume that people in my country are so different and so alien than others. No, I assure you , girls are not that much different, if they were then I wouldn't be able to relate to 99% of threads here. I witnessed most of what mentioned in this forum and they're pretty universal, at least to here.

The problem is you haven't found out what your problems are and you need to see people who know how to fix it, if you have lack of success the common factor in everything is you.

I'd suggest looking @ http://www.charismaarts.com posting on the forums, calling up one of their counsellors, they are serious about this kind of thing.

If you're opposed to the concept of interracial dating, would that not include your desire for Latina girls? Latin culture is not "White-European".

i still do not understand. you say you did not "say" i was lying [even if] you did not exclude this "probability". that means to me that you think it is a "probability" that i was lying... but i do not think you "think" i was lying, although you only said you did not "say" i was lying.
i have almost lost track of my thought train here. you have not said you do not "think" i am lying, you have just said you did not "say" i was lying.
good grief. i could not be bothered thinking about it further as it makes me nauseous like being tipsy on a merry go round.


it was only on nights when my table was the only one with spare seats. i always go there alone, and i sit at a table for 4.

sometimes men sat at my table too. i could not really tell them "no", because it was standing room only, and i have 3 vacant spots at my table. the men also expressed interest. but they usually were trying to ridicule me. they would say things like "wow mate! ya got a nice little set of papers there all neat and tidy! whaddya do (what do you) for a crust?". i usually sensed mockery in their tone because they were looking at each other with a strange smile.
they were not all like that. i did make 3 male friends during my time going to the tavern (i do not go there any more).

2 of them gave up on me because i am too stubborn and cold for them. i did not want to meet their friends, and when i did, i could not be bothered to acknowledge them because they made me extremely tired to listen to. those 2 friends could not live a double life so they moved on. the other one has some serious bi polar problems i suspect as his mind flits like a frog jumping from lily pad to lily pad when he is "happy".

also, there were many times that girls sat at my table and ignored me entirely.
only about 6 times did any girl take an exceptional interest in what i was doing.
they usually had a far more mentally curious mind than their friends, and asked for me to explain in detail what i was doing.

one of them ("lauren") said to me that she found me to be very content looking, and also very eccentric, and she found that to be an interesting combination. she also said she liked how when i got angry, it was always in a comedic way.

you seem to think that all girls are attracted by physical attributes when i have found that not all of them are.
the girls that liked me usually were not very happy with their current "scene", because they did not like it, and they preferred to hang around with me.



i am not exceptionally good looking. i have no "striking features".
my hair is "mouse brown" and my skin is not tanned.
i do not have a "chiseled jaw" or a "sexy stubble". i shave once every 2 weeks, and if i did not, i would only have a little wispy mustache like an italian woman sometimes does.
i do not look rugged and tough and capable like real "he men".
i sweat almost never, and when i do (in extreme conditions) it is only on my forehead.
i never look shiny and sweaty like is the magazine representation of the type of man an average woman wants.
i do not have any "muskiness" about me. i am told women like "muskiness" subconsciously..
i have no scent at all. i do not waft pheromones off into the air because i do not sweat enough to broadcast them, and i also am not blessed with enough testosterone to create them.
i am not tall. i am just 5'11" (180cm). i am not muscular and defined. i do not have "6 packets" on my stomach.
there is no reason that a girl would be interested except because she is interested to know what i am thinking. i believe.


they do not approach me like butterflies approach flowers. i see no comparison between them and butterflies, and i see no comparison between me and a flower.
also, i am not "sexy" at all. i am hormonally immature and not well developed into hairy masculine manhood with a compelling sex drive. (i will never go bald).



i really have no idea. most of the girls who come to my place like to take their clothes off on hot nights. i think that they would take their clothes off and be horny if they were by themselves at their own homes as well. i do not think i have any augmentative effect on their desire to strip off.

i think they do it because they feel safe doing it with me because i am not rattled in any way by it (unless the blinds are open (there is an oval next door to me)).

i think they would know that if they did that at most guy's places, they would be very much set upon.

actually, a friend called "sonia" told me that she did not like to be provocative around normal men because they just went ape, and their sexuality quickly dominated hers because they were more "thrustingly horny" and brutish, and they make her feel frigid and dry quickly.

she said that with me, it was like being in her bedroom at her home prancing around in an auto-erotic fantasy, but with a real person in her presence.

i think they see me as very damaged in the "judgment of character" department, and they like to have a holiday into "obscenity" in my presence. i like them to do it because it makes them happy.
but they can never have me fulfill their deepest need for security of commitment, so they eventually move on. i fail to "fall in love" and they wait for a long time and give up.
oh well, "them's the breaks". (actually, i do not want to encourage a person to attach themselves to me, or my privacy and solitude would be lost, and that is not an option for me).



i was not broadcasting a recipe for getting girls. i was just stating my personal experience.
it does not apply to any one else but me.



i disagree. however i guess if he was very ugly, then girls might have problems approaching him.
by "very ugly", i mean things like "scabby" and "sallow" and "jaundiced" and "gaunt" and "abscessed" and "brown toothed (like wooden pegs)" etc.
i think any body who is healthy and alert would have the same experiences i did.



i did not mean to cast that impression. i was just talking about my own experience. i can not talk on behalf of others because i have no idea how their minds think.
also, it is not a "formula". "formula" makes it sound like a deliberate deceptive act to catch women like insects in a spider web.
it is not a "formula". it is how i really am, and i am relaxed being that way. i never behave in a way that i am not relaxed with.

i hate to "fake" because it is a major chore and i am not good at it and i look stupid because people can blow holes in what i say if i am pretending.

i only "pretend" when someone tells me someone died. (i can not sustain it and i am always revealed as a bastard in the end)



well i was making a very uneducated assumption. i am sorry.
i just imagined lebanon as a muslim country where the girls are wrapped from head to toe, and they just have little slots to see through their burkha's (sp?) (head wrapping fabrics).
you never know what they look like, and it is a bit scary to me.
also, they are modest to an extreme degree i thought.

but i am not very educated in worldly affairs, so it is well to ignore my last paragraph (the last paragraph in your quote that is).

Perfect for a guy like me who is only after black girls as I've said before. And the first girl in the vid is smokin hot.

I don't really consider dating Latina women to be interracial dating. I tend to be attracted to the lighter-skinned Latina women. I hear what you are saying though.

"Latin" culture is partly White-European. In Latin countries it is Spanish/Portugese culture mixed with Indian culture. Over time, in some countries like Argentina, elements of German, Italian, Asian, and other cultures became incorporated. Some women from Latin countries are 100% European and have blond hair/blue eyes.

As a woman and with any women, they don't liked to be pressured into sex, what they want is a man who respects them, they also like the man to be a friend as well as a partner.

Any good relationship between a husband and wife starts out as being friends, then going into boyfriend and girlfriend.
When ever you go out and look for love, you most likely won't find love, it happens when you least expect it.
Also no one likes a Negative Nancy, so stay positive.

Well here's a little story of how my parents met, (they have been married almost 24 years now) maybe it will help:
My mom went out with her friends to a bar, just to hang out. My dad went to a bar with his friends just to hang out. None of them were looking for love, just to hang out. My mom all the sudden happens to look over to the bar and sees my dad sitting at the bar and thinks he's cute so she talks to him, my dad also had lack of eye contact and still does. Later on my parents became friends and hung out like friends, my mom also liked my dad's family, as well my dad liked my mom's family. Eventfully they started to date, then fell in love and got married, then they had my brother and me.

Depends on the Latina. Remember that a lot of Latinos have significant Amerindian and African ancestry, along with European. I would definitely consider it interracial dating.

I've had brand new female friends with whom I just clicked and even though we did not start dating, that's how I imagine a good relatioship should begin - it should just fall into your hands.

You do not mean touching her do you when you first meet? If that's the case, one could get into alot of trouble for making physical contact with a girl at first meet. If I have misunderstood what you said, then I greatly apologise. I just want a bit more clarity.