Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

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-Jeff

Sure why not. Post a singles profile on wrongplanet?

Everybody's doing it. Why should you do that?

I'm interested in things. I'm not a real doctor. Why don't you say a little about yourself?

I'm into music, math, thinking and comedy... and I am an overall easy to get along with guy... despite my social misunderstanding. Come on, do better than that!

I'm into women who are really really extra super smart, especially if they are gooder with the words Because I can't be good on words. A sense of humor is important too. I don't care about looks, but don't look dumb. By which I mean don't wear or do things for stupid reasons, reasons like "the teevees told me so." What kind of girl are you into?

Hey now! I have lots of things to offer in a relationship. Aren't you just a lonely guy who can't get a date?

Companionship, Math Skills, Music writing skills, understandingness, a laugh ability, Listening, Dvorak typing skills, semi-cleanliness. Oh yeah, what do you have to offer your imagined intellectual goddess?

Maybe. Isn't it true you have phyisical touch issues, and get weirded out when you have to initiate contact of even a purely platonic nature?

Um... How could you possibly be romantic and sensual to a woman's needs?

That's it, Interview over! Also, isn't it true that you are emotionally very empty and doubt you even know what it means to be in love or express love? And that you fear that you'll get so attached to the first girl that shows even a modest interest in you that you'll never look at the bad things until it's too late and you can't escape? And change in your life is so difficult that you would rather endure in your usual happy go lucky, passive aggressive way then to go through a period without a relationship and someone to be close to again? And deep down you believe that all the woman who rejected you were right in their own way, that you weren't good enough for any of them... and you would just end up hurting them in the end?

Women sure have crushingly true insights about your true nature.

I should probably post my own profile on here, seeing as how I complain about the lack of women all the time...

I'm a 21 year old aspie from NJ. I'm currently working on a B.S. degree in Information Technology. I'm extremely white (some might say pale, since I tend to avoid the oppressive sun if I can), 5'11", and, yes, a bit overweight... I also have dark blond/light brown hair and bright blue eyes (the eyes being the only thing that I believe looks good on me)...

I have a few interests, mostly centered around the "nerdy" interests: computers, science, and even some of the more artsy nerd interests like singing and drama. I tend to be very laid back most of the time, and sometimes can appear seemingly unmotivated. However, as soon as my actions determine outcomes for other people, I generally step up to the plate with a fervor most other people don't have...

I am a classic through-and-through aspie. I have the social and sensory issues that many aspies have (For example, the texture of some foods bothers me to no end, making me look like a pickier eater than a 4-year-old)... However, I've gotten pretty good at dealing with unpleasant social situations, so sometimes I may pass for an NT, but underneath it all I'm still an aspie... I don't like being thrust into crowd situations if I can avoid it, though...

I can't form relationships quickly... I need at least a month to get to know a woman before I possibly become attracted. Back in high school, I subconsciously burned out my ability to be attracted to physical qualities only, in order to protect myself from unscrupulous women trying to take advantage of me... So time is a must for any relationship building I try to do...

I spend a lot of time in my church. I've found that the people there are the most accepting of me compared to the rest of the world. My personal beliefs are a moderate form of Christianity, but I'm not averse to most people holding other beliefs (except perhaps outright satanism)... so long as they respect that I have my own beliefs and don't try to change those beliefs, I can do the same for them...

I'm looking for a woman that can love me for who I am, not for any other superficial quality... Obviously, I'm not much of a looker, so any woman I might get with needs to be able to see past that. I'll endeavor to do so as well (I'm not one for being a hypocrite), so looks aren't as important for me either...

I've taken a few myers-briggs quizzes in my life, and I keep wandering between ISTP, INTP, and ISTJ... The introvert and thinker are the two qualities that are the steadiest...

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just an update

name: Paul
age: 27 but feels like 21
location: North Yorkshire, UK
looking for: any aspie or NT female between 18-35 who are nice all round, for a relationship, long term or not, resident in the UK preferably, does not have to be specifically in Yorkshire, I can drive and LOVE to travel new places and meet new people

I am kind, caring, considerate, and polite, none-pushy, respects all boundaries, accepts people for who they are, and treats people with respect at all times

I'm very good around the house, I actually don't mind housework, the odd bit of DIY, and am usually good at fixing things that are broken, just depends on what they are, lol.

I like to take an interest in the things any partner likes, I'm not bored all that easy, and I'm not easily freaked out
I also like to help out my partner when she needs it, be there for her in every way I can, never let her down


If you are interested give me a shout, either by PM or IM me

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hey i'm new here.. anyways here goes.
I'm a 20 year old male from the UK & still there now..
i don't look too pretty, or really take care of myself.. in fact i would currently categorise myself as a "mess" but it's better than being "normal" although infinitely more confusing & scary..
don't really know what else to add.. if anyone is the slightest bit interested, ask me.. i enjoy questions kinda
edit: been up for 26ish hours & apparently forgot i'm a "musician".. pity the fool <<

Hello. I have posted here before, but changed my mind because of a vow I made to never have a girlfriend or a relationship in general past friendship. Knowing now that this vow is illogical, I'll try very reluctantly to re enter.

Having set that aside, I'm a 35.7 year old single male, living in Florida; my few friends describe me as very kind, polite, compassionate, caring, a very weird, and sick sense of humor, and well, weird. Some have even said that I might be smart? My interests are mostly music then math, but I love literature (I read extremely slowly though), walking, watching sunsets/sunrises, documentaries, and especially cartoons. I also enjoy riding my bicycle.

I'm 5'5" tall, and weigh 171 pounds (yes, I am currently losing weight due to exercise and reduction of meds). If it is someone I am comfortable with, I don't have touch issues. Socially, I seem to be similar to that of an extremely polite 14 year old...i.e. one that is barely learning about dating.

I don't play games (and would only want those that don't either), and am too honest sometimes. Since I have a mild case of athsma, I please ask that no smokers respond (I'm sorry; I mean no offense). If interested, email me. If not, I hope you successfully find who you're looking for. Thank you for reading this. Take care.