Do you miss someone right now?

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Sorry to hear it, but if it helps I'm right there with you....got dropped last Friday, confirmed today that there will be no getting back together, feel like death, can't sleep, miss us and being a parent with her. I'm going to have to take latitude off of my phone, she put it on to track me, but now I am too tempted to see where she is. I wish I had done some of this in the moment as it just seems to be getting harder and hurt more.

I wish you weren't going through similar as I'd wish this on no one.

I've completely been where both of you are, fairly recently (last couple months). For me, the fact that there was nothing I could do to change their mind was something that was nearly impossible for me to accept... my mind just kept rejecting it all the time although I had to keep resisting the urge to check up on the internet and see if they were spending time with anyone else, as wrong as I know that is to do...the feeling was unbearable. The whole time. I would spend all my days off in bed, paralyzed in heartbreak. MikeB2of10 had it right... it felt like death, indeed. It's amazing how, before the break-up, you don't even notice yourself growing dependent on having them in your life.

I miss my bf. I haven't seen him since new years due to weather and car troubles. We're planning on trying to see each other again this weekend but I feel that his car is just going to crap out again. I wish I had a car and license so I could see him myself. I miss him so much.

Nope.

The first person that comes to my mind is my grandfather... He died of cancer two and a half years ago... I have a picture of him that is visible wherever I am in my room... He gave me my love for animals and he was always the source of never-ending happiness... When he died it even looked as if he was smiling...

Another person I miss is one of my childhood-friends... I haven't seen or spoken to him in 18 years and he was my best (and only) friend during my first year of school... I can't remember his surname though and therefor it's pretty hard to find him seeing that his first name is one of the most common boy-names in Denmark...

The last person that I want to mention is actually a person I don't want to miss but I do... She was my best and closest friend in what most Americans would think of high school... Here in Denmark the school-system works a bit different but anyway... We could talk about anything and we helped each other when things got tough... She graduated a year before me and a couple of days after her graduation she stopped responding to any messages I sent her way... I of course demanded an explanation on why the sudden change and all I got was this one line: "You just bring too much drama into my life!"... Nothing else... A lot of our mutual friends didn't wanna get involved and so I never got a proper explanation... But I do miss her... The friendship I had with her was the closest thing I have ever gotten to "something normal" if you could say that... She didn't care about my diagnosis and treated me with care and respect... Well... Until she decided I caused too much drama in her life that is... I don't think I have ever been more hurt of a friendship ending as I was when she disappeared... I have since tried to establish some contact to her again but she keeps ignoring me... And it's been four years this summer... It's just in these past few months that I've realized that she will never be in my life again... I hate what she did to me (she was the source of one of my latest depressions) but I miss the times we had... Talking about the guys at the school, laying on the floor and laugh until our stomachs hurt, making dinner together, walk around and talking about anything that came to mind... *sigh* I have never had a friendship like that before and I seriously doubt I ever will again...

Sorry about my rant but I think I just had to get it out...

Yes, some people whom are quite pleasant..

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not one iota.

My boyfriend. He is needing personal space because he is overwhelmed in other areas of his life. The downside to dating another Aspie.

Yes, a bit.

yes, wake up mr. drunkypants!

Yes.
I miss u Jon x

God yes. I didn't think I would, but there it is.

Yes, and it's hopeless.

The only person who I really care about is my son,I'll see him with God willing tomorrow..Except of him I have none..All my life I lived like a lone wolf

Yes. I wish I wasn't so busy, and didn't act like a dick.

I miss my Aspie guy too.
Didnt realize how much i liked him. Actually, I did realize, andi think he liked me too, but somehow he had already decided that it woulndt work.
I feel cheated, lonely and very sad.
He didn't seem to understand that I liked him because of who he is, not in spite of it.

The worst is the disappearance out of my life completely, overnight, with no closure.

Cheated out of any chance of reprise, explanation or closure. His needing his Aspie "space" without being able to explain it to me is the most painful part.