Do you feel unattractive?

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Hmmm i'm not sure, personally I don't think i'm particularly 'pretty boy' attractive, but i'm proud of my manliness, very broad, very muscular, its a kind of proud and happy feeling I get.

Emotionally i'm not sure, my emotional elements are f****d and they confuse me.

Mentally, well I don't know, but i'm extremely proud of my brain and how fun it is to think so much.

So overall its like 50/50

I'll give you a makeover Either way, you're beautiful to me, you know? Don't put yourself down...xx

I don't think I'm attractive in any way possible. I've never been complimented for the way I look.

This is a big insecurity of mine

Last edited by robbokris on 01 Jun 2009, 5:27 pm, edited 1 time in total.

I feel unattractive.

My family always tells me that I'm beautiful. Their friends always say that I'm gorgeous. Once, these girls at school said that I was so pretty, I could have any boy I wanted. That's when I was still new there.

I find it hard to believe, though, because nobody ever talks to me. Or even looks at me.
Then again, I usually miss romantic cues. There may have been one time. ONCE. Maybe...
Am I really that awkward with other people? Am I strange?
If I'm REALLY so pretty, than why am always ignored?

If it's even true, I guess it just doesn't matter.

guy often look but they hide it because it is rude to stare. if you are a female, chances are that men look at you i recommend taking initiative and saying hi how are you to people

I've felt unattractive in the past and sometimes I still do today. Because I've had no gf and I'm not sure if any girl has ever had a crush on me (although I was once told that one girl has a crush on me).

I don't care. I can't change what other people's perception of me is. if somebody has a problem with the way I look, it's not my problem but theirs. personally I find myself somehow generic, I guess I'd change a few things but in general I'm quite ok with the way I look.

personality is a whole different story though, but I'd rather not get into that :p

"Feel" that I look unattractive..yes, but that's the whole Body Dysmorphic Disorder thing.(Doesn't matter what you look like, gargoyle or supermodel, if you have BDD you will never be "perfect" enough) Thankfully, I can't afford the amounts of surgeries I would want, I guess that's probably a good thing.

I don't think I have a personality either...although that's not a problem in my opinion.

Deleted because no matter how I put it, it comes out wrong.

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I thought I had BDD, I probably had, but my surgeries got rid of it.

well said anna-banana. I think I'm gonna adopt your attitude from now on...

I find myself very unattractive.

I did have a couple of things done, which I don't have issues about anymore, but the focus shifts- on a weekly basis -as to what else "needs" fixing. I think because of Arts background (I was particularly good at life drawing and portraiture)I have an elevated awareness of imperfections. I can be similarly hyper aware of (sometimes minor) flaws in others, and find myself disappointed they seem unaware (particularly if they consider themselves very attractive).

Yes.



No.

I think I struck a cord with this thread. I should say that yes I do feel physically normal, but unattractive and shameful in every other respect.

I'm "ugly-pretty", more like a male Cher than a Brad Pitt, but that's what I was after anyway. I can never have a perfect face and that doesn't bother me, I just wanted slightly more exaggerated features in some ways. Most people find me attractive and eye catching but I'm definitely not perfectly symmetric. I'm fully aware of my imperfections but I accept them as a part of the overall picture. Most models are "ugly pretty" too, almost no one is perfectly symmetric.

What did you have done? I fixed my nose, made it bigger, my eyebrows and had my lips enlarged.

I had a flat and geometrical face with straight lines but a round head and convex forehead like a black person, and my inner vision of myself was always a more rich/full face even if not perfectly symmetric. I always wanted slightly more horse or monkey-like features. I can't explain why but I just always wanted this appearence, more like a dromedar or a lama but still in a "beautiful" way. I look a little like a monkey after my surgeries but I feel completely happy because it put the "energies right" and people find me attractive as well. I'm no Bride of Wildenstein that's for sure, I'm not out of touch with reality.