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Ihavetosaythat
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19 Jun 2009, 5:37 pm

Send, Nevexst!

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I also have trouble evaluating how I feel about a person while she is in my presence.

When you fall in love, IT becomes MUCH easier. Well, the rest...



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19 Jun 2009, 5:40 pm

I'd love to send a letter like this to a woman I love, but while I recently re-established contact with her after three years, she doesn't really share the same sentiments as back then...



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19 Jun 2009, 11:39 pm

But... no, don't send! (too late, huh?)

Just walk close, stand there, look at her (i mean eye contact), say nothing. If she stands, looks at you, says nothing, and you two enjoy that... mutual silence speaks for itself.



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20 Jun 2009, 1:12 pm

Sorry guys.

In the end, I didn't send it. Doubt I will.

*sigh*

It's just not worth it.



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21 Jun 2009, 2:52 pm

WHY not??? It was such a beautiful letter! "Nothing ventured, nothing gained", is what I say.


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22 Jun 2009, 8:16 am

Nevexst wrote:
Sorry guys.

In the end, I didn't send it. Doubt I will.

*sigh*

It's just not worth it.


As the Dr Pepper advert used to say, what's the worst that could happen?



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22 Jun 2009, 8:24 am

it is too heavy for me. if some girl wrote that to me, i would be worried about her momentum and want to put the brakes on.



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22 Jun 2009, 11:17 am

don't spend another year with this girl... thinking coulda, shoulda, woulda.... send it.



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24 Aug 2009, 9:24 am

Nevexst wrote:

My sister, going as far to wish that somebody would write her a similar letter


Who wouldn't? It's awesome!


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24 Aug 2009, 9:42 am

Nevexst wrote:
Sorry guys.

In the end, I didn't send it. Doubt I will.

*sigh*

It's just not worth it.


Have you ever met her face to face? or it's just about an online friendship that you're talking about in the letter? because it sounds like an e-friendship.

Meet her for real for few times first and if your feelings remain intact , then send it.