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Sometimes I am so stuck inside my own head I am completely oblivious to what others are doing.

If I'm aware of it, then I don't like the over the top stuff as in blatanly groping and full on making out in public. But little touches, kisses, hugs, hand holding. Doesn't bother me to see it, as I tend to be that way myself if I'm with someone I love.

Plus, I'm just a hand holder. Can't help it. Makes me feel happy.

I generally get uncomfortable both seeing and displaying too much public affection. Holding hands doesn't bother me, though.

I dont like PDA, it mostly disgusts me. I wish people wouldnt do it, its like why do I some random person passing by have to see your intimate moment.

While I have a huge block about committing PDAs myself, I am a little more forgiving when it comes to other people's... but I know I am still pretty conservative. I don't mind people casually touching each other - that's pretty normal - and a quick peck of a kiss is okay in the appropriate moment, but when people start (and I think it has something to do with the motion) caressing each other I feel physically sick, and even if I look away it's as if I can feel them doing it. I think it's when touches have a sexual connotation that it bothers me, perhaps because of the implied intimacy between the two which they are airing in public. To me that's unnecessary and also defeats the purpose.

One massive pet peeve: men who walk along with their girlfriends while groping their butts. I have followed couples for multiple blocks and the guy's hand never stops roaming... how is that at all appropriate? I can't stand it.

Don't care about seeing them although it can make one slightly uneasy. Never received any except from my family (when i was young!) So hummm yeah, i wouldn't know better.

I don't like them because I feel jealous at the love--or at least lust--that they apparently share. XD Then again my ex-girlfriend did PDA's with me. I always felt bad about it but enjoyed it, just because I loved the kissing and holding.

I don't like them, but that's just how I feel (I know I have issues with affection). I don't expect everyone else in the world to agree or stop showing affection in public. I've always been uncomfortable if I have had a partner try to kiss, cuddle, hold hands or anything like that in front of other people, I just don't like it and I'll explain that to them. If they don't like it, they can find someone else who suits them better. Not surprisingly, I prefer being single anyway.

Most of the time I probably don't even notice PDAs, or if I do then I'll just ignore it. If it starts to bother me then I'll either move around or change seats so that it's not in my line of view, leave, or if it's someone that I know then I'll usually make a joke of it and tell them to get a room.