anybody have any crazy exs?

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I've had this ex fling spread rumors about me. I had the wrong idea on what the relationship was going to be.

I told a different ex (fling I guess) that she f**ked everyone but her husband to meet her emotional needs. In a way I'm just as bad as the ex's. But on a plus side, the 3 or so people that I could call a gf never did anything crazy (I never did anything crazy around them).

Everybody has had a crazy ex or two all women are carzy anyway if you really think about.

I love how people use the words "if you really think about it" as a way to cover up for the fact that they have no good evidence to support the sweeping generalisation that they've just made. It's the same as "everyone knows that x".

So would you date handsome, charming guys with an Asian fetish? Or do you hate all Asian fetishers? I think everyone has a fetish for something, so it's kind of unfair when Asians, especially those into "yellow pride," start slamming one fetish while ignoring the rest. I've also found that a lot of the Asian women I've dated (maybe all of them) have their own "blond white guy" fetish or "Of Scottish descent" fetish.


Btw, the boyfriend you mention sounds like a classic case of Borderline Personality Disorder.

Never really had a girlfriend, but I had an online gf that I broke off contact with because she 1: Only dated musicians (she found me on a yahoo group for bassplayers, 2: I'm only a pathetic amateur bassplayer, 3: I only wanted sex, not a real relationship, 4: She wanted me to send a "naughty" picture.

....and the problem was....?

The naughty picture part, and the "groupie" part. There's probably a "ret*ds gone wild" website somewhere that that picture would have ended up on. I found from her Yahoo profile that she for some weird reason "liked bassplayers and black men(?!)". Obviously, if this girl actually exists, she should combine her two preferences.

My ex-fiance was a trip, she considered herself pretty normal but I'm almost positive she was rapid cycling bipolar, or something. She would go completely insane with rage and toss my computers for whatever random reason came into her mind every once in a while. Once she stormed off crying after an argument and called the next day saying she was at the beach (several hours away), didn't know precisely how she got there, and that she had nearly overdosed on painkillers. Oh the stories... a mutual friend once observed that "it's not easy being [her]".

Prior to her I saw a girl for a while that was studying psychology, "to figure out why [she] was so f*ed up".

I don't have any stable exes, in fact. They are all guano-insane psychology majors.

My mom was pretty insane, intelligent, paranoid, haunted by certain things from her past. I think part of me considers that normal, or at least became acclimatized to such an extent that people whose behavior can be too easily explained seem boring. Then again, my dad mated with her, so it could perhaps be a genetic predisposition?

My HS prom date dumped me about a year after I graduated. Just dumped me, goodbye. Then about a year later she waltzed back into my life like nothing had happened. I was only 21 and wanted the sex, so I took her back. Then about six months later the same thing, don't call me. I moved on. Then, through Classmates, I got a message from her 15 years later. I wrote to her and she wrote back-six months later. I thought for a while, then wrote a generic response back. She didn't reply. After that I was not really into having girlfriends. I went on a couple dates, but nothing happened. I haven't gone on a date since 1999. I guess I'm too young for the college students and too old for the cougars. (I'm 34.) I had an online gf, but she said she couldn't handle the large distance between us (I was in San Francisco, she was in Windsor, Ontario). We were young and couldn't afford a plane ticket to see each other. So it ended. Dating online used to be really cool, now it's all Russian spammers, Nigerian scammers, and a handful of really neurotic/crazy "real" women.

Luckily the only 2 real ex's I've had were both created on good terms =P. Was actually kinda friendly with one for a few years, but probably 6 or 7 years since hearing from her.

I did have a friend once who went kinda crazy when I told her I wasnt interested in a relationship with her. I had met her at a college party, found out we were from the same area. Over the next month probably hung out with her like 3 or 4 times in group settings. She called me one day and said she had an extra ticket to a play that night. It ended up being some kind of company party thing, had a big section of the theatre reserved.
She started introducing me to everyone as her boyfriend. I was speechless and instantly thought to myself not to say anything and embarrass her, while I went over all like 4 encounters I had with her and if there was any kind of interaction or contact that would suggest anything more than an acquaintance and didnt think so.
After the night was over I asked her why she was telling people we were dating and her response was something like 'oh, it's nothing, just suppose to be a company party where you bring a date' Being the non-confrontational person I am I left it at that.
She called me 4 times the next day, making silly flirty small talk, more times the day after that then I can remember, and the third day I stopped answering. The day after that she showed up to where I work and hung around for a few hours, i came in later in the day and coworker told me someone had came in and asked if i was working and then hung around for 2 hours doing nothing (calling me the entire time, but obviously i stopped answering). The next day she was there for what i was told like half the day waiting for me, she wouldnt ask when i was coming in, just hung around lingering. Then started stopping by my house a few times a day. After like 6 or 7 days and probably 100+ missed calls I called her and told her pretty flat-out that I had no interest in anything beyond a friendship and that was no longer possible since it was clearly not what she wanted, please dont contact me or show up to my place of work anymore as nothing is possible but problems for me and pain for you.
She did stop, but it was a short term taste of stalking and it was not fun, it is an awful feeling and i feel for people who get seriously stalked cause it is bad.

It has a p.s. too, maybe a year and a half later she messaged me on AIM on one of the rare occasions i logged in, I thought it pretty harmless to chat, she just had a serious short term infatuation but apparently got over it quickly after being confronted. She started talking about the sex we had. That she missed it and thought it was great. I was like 'whoa whoa whoa, i think you might have messaged the wrong guy, this is Will, met you at that party, i work at blockbuster, went to that play with your company, remember' and she said 'ya, of course I know who this is!' and continued into some amusing detail about our sexual encounters that were much more than just casual sex according to her imagination lol. I dont think I had ever even hugged her, but she apparently was more messed up than I thought and had convinced herself of a lot more. If this were the adult forum i'd share some of the imaginary sex acts we did together =P. But I just went along completely entertained, quickly logged off and never used that screen name again lol. Though a part of me was thinking if i knew she was open to that kind of stuff i woulda been more interested in a relationship

But basically, while I dont have a crazy ex, i know someone who is crazy who thinks i'm an ex