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Why are you trying for fwb? did you lose your hands or something?

mine is 20/400

i'm blindddd

Because some people prefer more than the DIY version?

maybe it's also a matter of being bold.

because although she did tell me that she initially added me on myspace and started talking to me because i was cute and seemed interesting...

i guess she only decided to go and mention the FWB thing after talking for a while online. during which period, because i'm not so inhibited in my speaking online, i was more talkative and bolder. not to mention nice and complimentary but not in such an overbearing way. and it doesn't hurt to throw a subtle sexual innuendo or suggestive phrase in there if you think they might possibly take the bait and if they're talking pretty friendly already even if it's only been an inordinately small amount of time. ;D haha.

so if they're complimenting your glasses and they don't seem to be in a friend zone, try something bold. doesn't have to be big, but give an indication of interest of the sexual kind. vocally if you can manage it. people like to be hit on. the time to get to know them comes later.
getting to know them a bit first can be good. but it can also land you in a friend zone lightning fast if you're not careful to regulate the tone and direction of the conversation. imagine your approach from their point of view and try to understand from another standpoint what wrong signs you might be sending and which ones might be good to try. recognizing wrongs signs are universal and we are just as capable of that as NTs. it's making the conscious effort to realize what signs we are sending and find control over that that we have more problems with.

since then we've been happily chatting away about what we'd do to each other and contemplating places and times to meet.
so far we're thing the county fair coming up on the 26th. gonna go out in the woods with some sleeping bags and get busyyy

i hope i've been even somewhat insightful.
i hope even more that any of that made sense.
and i hope even more than that someone warns me if i gave wrong information, or information that's somewhat subjective to change and not entirely a general truth.

Mine's something like.... -2 and -1.5 for whichever eye (if it's not one, it's the other). And what's that FWB thing? =.=

No doubt, I want a woman just as much as any other guy. Women provide so many things that the DIY version can't. The emotional connection, for instance...

But if you're only wanting someone for sexual gratification, well, that's something said DIY can do... and without talking back to you either...

i think you're sorta missing the point.

DIY may have the same end. but actually being with someone there's more fun in the process.
maybe it's the factor of the unexpected that makes it so, as opposed to DIY where it's typically always basically the same and can only take you as far as your imagination can stretch.

FWB = Friends With Benefits

hey, you changed your pic. no more glasses lol

Being with someone would be nice, but not if it's just merely for the physical gratification. An FWB would also make me feel a lot more awkward... normally I thrive on awkward, but this is pushing it way too far...


That could also be a bit behind my reasoning and experience as well... my imagination tends to be quite vivid... almost to the point of projecting images into the real world...

Oh yeah. Mere coincidence. I took that pic the other day before heading out to the beach. I rarely go out without my glasses. Everything far away is rather blurry and I end up squinting too much. lol

my imagination's pretty vivid too.

can't really say it's all that original or creative though.
that's where the randomization factor of being with an actual person comes in.

oh, suuuuure .
and the fact that it's been up only today has no bearing whatsoever.
lol.

should grow your hair out a bit more maybe.

zomg

Honestly? The whole reason I changed my avatar is because my chin blends in with my neck and it looks like I'm the long lost daughter of Jay Leno and it's been bugging the crap out of me. I don't have a long chin by any means.

My hair is tied back there. That's my bangs in the pic, that I've been growing out. The rest is in a low ponytail. I had been on the beach of a few hours, then came in for a break, was online for abit, took the pic, then went back to the beach.

I saw your Zomg reference. Are you over there?

i didn't know that was a reference to anything actually. just bumping the thread i guess