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25 Aug 2009, 2:32 pm

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I've heard that aspies normally have stronger sexual urges, mine are certainly stronger than average.
in some i guess. was pure torture in jr. high school.


I had sex all through junior high and high school into college. Started at 11 and had bi-weekly or more until I graduated high school.



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25 Aug 2009, 2:33 pm

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6-7 yr olds just don't think that way yet,


I must agree, i began to think mature sexually when i was 10 or 11, and romantically when i was 13 :)



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25 Aug 2009, 2:38 pm

it sure is weird that some DNAs don't want to spread themselves. my only guess would be (and sorry if I offend anyone, it just seem like a logical conclusion) that it's nature's way of keeping certain genetic anomalies from spreading too widely.


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25 Aug 2009, 2:38 pm

Is this thread really just an excuse to brag about what oversexed sausage pushers some males can be?

I thought it was to talk about Asexuality... have I misunderstood something?



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25 Aug 2009, 2:58 pm

rensilaer wrote:
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I've heard that aspies normally have stronger sexual urges, mine are certainly stronger than average.
in some i guess. was pure torture in jr. high school.


I had sex all through junior high and high school into college. Started at 11 and had bi-weekly or more until I graduated high school.
lol, WTF X)?

i get the feeling you'd make an excellent wingman :salut:
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25 Aug 2009, 3:10 pm

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Is this thread really just an excuse to brag about what oversexed sausage pushers some males can be?

I thought it was to talk about Asexuality... have I misunderstood something?
well, naturally if asexuality comes up, it's polar opposite tends to do so also.

there can be no light without darkness :lol:


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25 Aug 2009, 3:19 pm

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^^ I believe I do find this very interesting. ^^ Perhaps one way of considering the way this feel to be sexual is the following. For instance, if youare only atracted to one gender, (in this example, let us say you are female and are attracted to females), then you are not attracted to males. We could say that their attraction to males is switched off. Then to be asexual is simply not to be attracted to both genders I believe. ^^ For instance, if the individual is homosexual, then their attraction to females is switched off, yet the attraction for males is switched on.

^^ Then, when asexual the attraction to both is switched off.

^^ I am very sorry if this is silly of me however.

I certainly believe there is no wrong with this at all. ^^


Makes perfect sense to me. :D

Small flaw... I'm a lesbian, so my attraction to females is switched on while my attraction to males is very definitely off. Homo's come in both flavors, don't forget. :P


^^ Oh dear indeed, I am very sorry DonkeyBuster. Oh dear, I do feel very evil. ^^ I believe I certainly wished not to forget, and attempted to state in my little message that I was just using males as an example. ^^ I believe the same certainly applies for all the various and happy permutations that are possible. Oh dear, I am very sorry indeed, how horrible of me.



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25 Aug 2009, 3:26 pm

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^^ I believe I do find this very interesting. ^^ Perhaps one way of considering the way this feel to be sexual is the following. For instance, if youare only atracted to one gender, (in this example, let us say you are female and are attracted to females), then you are not attracted to males. We could say that their attraction to males is switched off. Then to be asexual is simply not to be attracted to both genders I believe. ^^ For instance, if the individual is homosexual, then their attraction to females is switched off, yet the attraction for males is switched on.

^^ Then, when asexual the attraction to both is switched off.

^^ I am very sorry if this is silly of me however.

I certainly believe there is no wrong with this at all. ^^


Makes perfect sense to me. :D

Small flaw... I'm a lesbian, so my attraction to females is switched on while my attraction to males is very definitely off. Homo's come in both flavors, don't forget. :P


^^ Oh dear indeed, I am very sorry DonkeyBuster. Oh dear, I do feel very evil. ^^ I believe I certainly wished not to forget, and attempted to state in my little message that I was just using males as an example. ^^ I believe the same certainly applies for all the various and happy permutations that are possible. Oh dear, I am very sorry indeed, how horrible of me.
"oh yes, indeed, how quite dreadful and grievous an error" :)

i'm sorry. your manner of speaking amuses me. :P


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25 Aug 2009, 3:48 pm

Seanmw wrote:
rensilaer wrote:
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I've heard that aspies normally have stronger sexual urges, mine are certainly stronger than average.
in some i guess. was pure torture in jr. high school.


I had sex all through junior high and high school into college. Started at 11 and had bi-weekly or more until I graduated high school.
lol, WTF X)?

i get the feeling you'd make an excellent wingman :salut:
:lmao:


Haha. Well, being gay helps, honestly. Horny boys will do just about anything. I was with a kid in my class in what I suppose was a FWB interaction for 7 years from age 11 to 18. After that, in my freshman year of college, girls kept trying to tell me I just hadn't been with the right girl yet, so I experimented a bit and found that, unless a girl were willing to tape down her chest and sneeze until her clitoris blew out like a balloon animal, there was no right woman for me.

It did, however, infuriate my guy friends who were attractive and couldn't get laid to save their lives. ^__^



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25 Aug 2009, 4:20 pm

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Are asexual people subliminally persuaded by advertising the way sexual people are? Or are they free of all that BS?


I actually had no idea about sexual subliminal messaging! ;^^ I guess that means that it doesn't affect us, then! And for those who are interested, this site might be helpful in understanding asexuality: http://www.asexuality.org/home/ It's quite a cool site, and very helpful for explaining asexuality to others. :) (Plus the forum is quite fun! :D )



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25 Aug 2009, 4:35 pm

rensilaer wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
rensilaer wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
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I've heard that aspies normally have stronger sexual urges, mine are certainly stronger than average.
in some i guess. was pure torture in jr. high school.


I had sex all through junior high and high school into college. Started at 11 and had bi-weekly or more until I graduated high school.
lol, WTF X)?

i get the feeling you'd make an excellent wingman :salut:
:lmao:


Haha. Well, being gay helps, honestly. Horny boys will do just about anything. I was with a kid in my class in what I suppose was a FWB interaction for 7 years from age 11 to 18. After that, in my freshman year of college, girls kept trying to tell me I just hadn't been with the right girl yet, so I experimented a bit and found that, unless a girl were willing to tape down her chest and sneeze until her clitoris blew out like a balloon animal, there was no right woman for me.

It did, however, infuriate my guy friends who were attractive and couldn't get laid to save their lives. ^__^
well, i guess it helped your situation that they gay community is somewhat smaller. better chances of selection when you're 1 out of 2,000 for example than 1 out of 20,000 for example (if the 1:10 gay to straight ratio is remotely accurate and holds up). we heteros got a bit more competition though :P.


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26 Aug 2009, 2:56 am

By the way, the combination of being sexual and hetero is better than being gay and sexual, when it comes to school showers, because there was a guy who got a boner in it and got beaten up by da others. There's nothing wrong with being gay, but if there were aspies who took a shower with the gay, they would probably just laugh and not beat him up :P.



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26 Aug 2009, 4:57 am

I should drag Henriksson here,the bad thing is,he's not online..schOOl alreadY starteD fOr him :(

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26 Aug 2009, 6:09 am

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I should drag Henriksson here,the bad thing is,he's not online..schOOl alreadY starteD fOr him :(

I think he either lives in a different time zone (EVEN WHEN HE IS MY CLOSEST NEIGHBOUR), or that he stays up to late, 'cause he usually doesn't post until late, when it's about 2 hours from midnight where i live :(. I have to admit that one of the first things that hit me when i made this thread was; "Wonder what Henriksson is going to say about this". That guy should to come up with some stuff :P.

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26 Aug 2009, 6:24 am

bdhkhsfgk wrote:
visnofskygirl wrote:
I should drag Henriksson here,the bad thing is,he's not online..schOOl alreadY starteD fOr him :(

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Asexuality is distinct from celibacy, which is the deliberate abstention from sexual activity. Some asexuals do have sex.


I think he either lives in a different time zone (EVEN WHEN HE IS MY CLOSEST NEIGHBOUR), or that he stays up to late, 'cause he usually doesn't post until late, when it's about 2 hours from midnight where i live :(. I have to admit that one of the first things that hit me when i made this thread was; "Wonder what Henriksson is going to say about this". That guy should to come up with some stuff :P.



I sent him a link of this on MSN,well,I'll try to catch him later. He told me last time that his class already started :(


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26 Aug 2009, 7:42 am

visnofskygirl wrote:
bdhkhsfgk wrote:
visnofskygirl wrote:
I should drag Henriksson here,the bad thing is,he's not online..schOOl alreadY starteD fOr him :(

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Asexuality is distinct from celibacy, which is the deliberate abstention from sexual activity. Some asexuals do have sex.


I think he either lives in a different time zone (EVEN WHEN HE IS MY CLOSEST NEIGHBOUR), or that he stays up to late, 'cause he usually doesn't post until late, when it's about 2 hours from midnight where i live :(. I have to admit that one of the first things that hit me when i made this thread was; "Wonder what Henriksson is going to say about this". That guy should to come up with some stuff :P.



I sent him a link of this on MSN,well,I'll try to catch him later. He told me last time that his class already started :(

I heard somebody was looking for me. :lol:

According to AVEN, 1% of the population is Asexual. Testosterone levels and so on for asexuals are mostly the same as the general population, so there is a sex drive, yes, it's just not 'utilized' or how you would call it.

Me, I'm fine with it. ^^


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