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Redeagle
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29 Aug 2009, 3:15 pm

sinsboldly wrote:
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Just wanted to again remind the thread that the young woman might not have an agenda, might not know what she wants, might not know what she is doing and is trying to feel her way though her own thoughts and situations, too.
It just amazes me that guys think that girls are somehow programed with cookie cutter reasons and games and use them without compassion or any sense of ethics in order to torment any young man that strays into their sphere of influence and they can get their clutches on.

Yikes! :roll:

girls can be just as clueless as any guy.

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You know when I think about it that makes a lot of sense in this case. This gal does seem to me to not know what she really wants from life.



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29 Aug 2009, 4:35 pm

Sounds like she like's you, but isn't quite sure about having a relationship with you (for the time being, anyways), especially with her having a boyfriend and all. Looks like she's exploring her options...and you should do the same. You are right about women being confusing. The ones I have run into have been confusing as well. Very few will give you a direct answer about certain things...sometimes you have to pry it out of them, then they get mad at you for it. The best way to figure out what they want, is to look at their actions, and just take what they tell you with a grain of salt.


If a person is really into you (male or female), they will make appropriate changes, and take time out of their lives to be with you, no matter how busy they are, or what their situation is. If they don't, then they aren't 100% committed/interested in you. So, if she doesn't drop her new boyfriend for you soon, I would move on, because I wouldn't like sharing a girl with someone else.