Falling for a friend...

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This hasn't happened to me because I've never had any real friendships with any females before. Their are certain girls that I long for and ones I would like to be friends and eventually have but I am afraid to try anything so nothing ever happens. Girls can be so hard to read; at times they can act so nice and make it look like they like you and yet they are only just being nice to you instead. I am a very distrusting person. There's some girls I have known in the past that I've had strong feelings for but I kept my feelings inside and never told them. Most times, I don't have a shot with them anyways. Still, having strong feelings for someone who is a friend (or at least somewhat of a friend) has happened to me a few times but in the end, I just try to move on and not think about them. Nevertheless, I hope to find a girlfriend that I am friends with first because that's the only way I would probably do it. I'd never agree to have a stranger be my girlfriend.

The date went really well. We're pretty much a couple now. I'm really happy about it. It seems I made a pretty decent impression on her family, which is good. I just hope it continues to go well.

Awesome hope it keeps working out

My boyfriend and I were friends for ages. We'd often go to the pub and stuff together, often no one else wanted to come either, yet it took ages for us to actually realise we were both interested in going further. The first thing we did was go to the pub together, just like we had lots of times before really.

Back in the day when I still fell in love (before I became bitter and cynical ), I could do it to basicly strangers. I fell at first glance at my first official girl-friend. And continued to stay in love with her for seven years.

[quote="CerebralDreamer"My question is, has anyone else had this happen to them? I get along so great with her as a friend, and it seems we both want the same things out of a relationship. I just hope it works out.[/quote]

Yes, unfortunately.