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Krasher
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06 Oct 2009, 6:56 pm

When I meet someone who is gay I smell something, what is it? Brimstone

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06 Oct 2009, 7:08 pm

Krasher wrote:

When I meet someone who is gay I smell something, what is it? Brimstone

Your point?

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06 Oct 2009, 7:12 pm

DonkeyBuster wrote:

Krasher wrote:

When I meet someone who is gay I smell something, what is it? Brimstone

Your point?

Your point is pointless if you don't reason with yourself about the meaning of life, right?

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06 Oct 2009, 7:20 pm

Krasher wrote:

DonkeyBuster wrote:

Krasher wrote:

When I meet someone who is gay I smell something, what is it? Brimstone

Your point?

Your point is pointless if you don't reason with yourself about the meaning of life, right?

I'm sorry, you're not being clear or straightforward... what are you trying to say? Could you clarify the comment about smell and brimstone?

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06 Oct 2009, 9:36 pm

TS: You are what you label yourself. I would say you're bisexual though.

Vector wrote:

Female sexuality is much more fluid than male sexuality, and our language for talking about sex is biased toward male inflexibility. You may be gay now, or have been gay at a different point in your life. So long as your emotional needs are met and you treat your romantic partners well, why worry?

Many women identify as gay for part of their lives, as straight for another, perhaps as bi, too, for another portion. That a woman may find her sexuality change as she matures and and changes in other ways is common. It is, frankly, one of the advantages of being female, as far as this male is concerned.

I agree! I wish male sexuality was naturally more open and fluid. Well, I don't want to stop being gay but I want to try to see the beauty of the female gender. I think the reason women have this flexibility is because of the lack of social's pressure to be straight. Most heterosexual men can't care less about lesbians but don't like gay men.

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06 Oct 2009, 10:10 pm

DonkeyBuster wrote:

Krasher wrote:

DonkeyBuster wrote:

Krasher wrote:

When I meet someone who is gay I smell something, what is it? Brimstone

Your point?

Your point is pointless if you don't reason with yourself about the meaning of life, right?

I'm sorry, you're not being clear or straightforward... what are you trying to say? Could you clarify the comment about smell and brimstone?

I meant that my point is something not really worth discussing, because I'm practicing mysticism and illusions. Magic is fun.

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07 Oct 2009, 9:34 am

Krasher wrote:

I meant that my point is something not really worth discussing, because I'm practicing mysticism and illusions. Magic is fun.

Ah. OK.

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07 Oct 2009, 1:58 pm

TouchVanDerBoom wrote:

I think I have it all ordered in my head now. I have spoken to my boyfriend again about being with a woman, he has always been open to me doing that and not in an "only if I can watch" sort of way (not that he wouldn't watch if I said he could!) I have made arrangements to visit a friend who is gay, she might advise me and since she's hot who knows? I have also joined a free lesbian dating site and have been messaging some girls - I was shocked at how many pretty girls my size with similar interests are on there! It has been a great self-esteem booster actually! I'm being cautious though, not everyone is who they seem online so we shall see.

Glad to hear things seem a bit more positive to you today. Keep on smiling, and just remember to keep on being yourself, whatever that may turn out to be. Oh, and keep on being silly aspie you, too - we're all on this planet together, and I think this is one of those threads that prove what a great community WP is, talking about others' issues and helping them through.

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