What love really is in most relationships

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Snowy Owl
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23 Oct 2009, 1:58 pm

What love SHOULD be is:

A source of longing, which warps to a source of boundless joy, which warps to a feeling of safety, which warps to normalcy.

A better normalcy before love.

And to be honest, even the worst married couple, who've gotten used to each-other, the comical one in comics..would be devastated to have their significant other taken away.

If you're somewhere on that track of bonding, you'll know. Even autists and aspies and cyborgs and all. It's such a basic feeling. You'll be sure.

And if you haven't had that yet, you'll either be proven wrong or die believing a misconception.

Love is stability. Symbiosis. To put it robotically.

Marriage is a ritualization and legalization of such bliss.

To actually have a certainty in the social world! Marvel! This is love!



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23 Oct 2009, 3:04 pm

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What love SHOULD be is:

A source of longing, which warps to a source of boundless joy, which warps to a feeling of safety, which warps to normalcy.

A better normalcy before love.

And to be honest, even the worst married couple, who've gotten used to each-other, the comical one in comics..would be devastated to have their significant other taken away.

If you're somewhere on that track of bonding, you'll know. Even autists and aspies and cyborgs and all. It's such a basic feeling. You'll be sure.

And if you haven't had that yet, you'll either be proven wrong or die believing a misconception.

Love is stability. Symbiosis. To put it robotically.

Marriage is a ritualization and legalization of such bliss.

To actually have a certainty in the social world! Marvel! This is love!


*applause*


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