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13 Feb 2006, 5:05 pm

I refuse to ever have a child. I don't like them, and I couldn't bear being responsible for bringing someone else into this kind of world.

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13 Feb 2006, 5:19 pm

QuirkyCarla wrote:

I would love to be in a relationship, my problem is that I'm afraid. I'm extremely insecure which probably makes me every guy's worst nightmare. I also don't think I have the right social skills for a relationship.

Don’t sweet it, insecurity is unattractive for man more then woman it is for woman. For some woman it is rather cute. It well it is cute when SailMoon is insecure anyway.

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13 Feb 2006, 6:03 pm

I don't care what it costs, i want to share my soul with someone and they share theirs.

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14 Feb 2006, 2:12 am

^ And that is how survival happens.

TheOrangeMage wrote:

I refuse to ever have a child. I don't like them, and I couldn't bear being responsible for bringing someone else into this kind of world.

I was just thinking about this quote.. "into this kind of world".. It's truly my view. But how sad, perhaps to another mind, this kind of world might be heaven.

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14 Feb 2006, 2:42 am

Aspie_Chav wrote:

QuirkyCarla wrote:

Don’t sweet it, insecurity is unattractive for man more then woman it is for woman. For some woman it is rather cute. It well it is cute when SailMoon is insecure anyway.

heh, I don't know about that.

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15 Feb 2006, 5:05 pm

QuirkyCarla wrote:

heh, I don't know about that.

On TV I watch a movie called Kerry or Cerry she had telepathy power, and a Christian fanatic mother. She got a date at the a prom to be someone who wanted to play a prank on. She got a bucket of black stuff pored on her head. She got pissed and unleashed her power, given by Lucifer himself, and wasted many people in the building.

Any way, I found her very cute, even if she was insecure even more so then most of the other girls in that movie. Maybe I find her attractive because I can trust a woman like her, maybe because I couldn’t get a woman who is popular. Anyway if I had a woman like her, I would not look elsewhere.

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07 Mar 2006, 4:42 am

Aspie_Chav wrote:

I could dilute my Aspie genes by dating a Chav or a Yardi girl, ones who is right beggin-it and who has not intellectual interest what so ether and for extra measures I could also choose the sex of the baby as a girl.

The problem is that those Chav girls will not be interested in me. Maybe I should be a licle bit badder and denounce my logical thinking.

why would anyone want to "dilute" their aspie genes?

in aspergians, the forebrain (cerebrum) is bigger and more developed than normal. this part of the brain is the most recently evolved part of the human brain, responsible for conscious thinking. also, the cerebellum (midbrain?) is LESS developed and smaller than normal. The cerebellum is a more primitive part of the brain, involved in subconscious and instinct...

now this kinda sounds like that aspergians are superior to NTs... which i think is the case... the only reason we find it difficult is because we're living in THEIR world, THEIR planet, the WRONG PLANET..

I don't want to get rid of my aspergian genes.. i want to pass it on. but my kids will be well adjusted because i would never let the things that happened to me happen to them.

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07 Mar 2006, 7:24 am

hellznrg wrote:

why would anyone want to "dilute" their aspie genes?

Because anyone decent doesn't think of future evolement, would someone PLEASE think of the children!

I would not want ANY child to suffer some of the treatment i've had to put up with.

The question I would be asking is why wouldn't anyone want to dilute their aspie genes.

Anyway if aspies were made to win the battle of survival of the fittest, it would be easier for us to score than NTs. It isn't.

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07 Mar 2006, 7:38 am

hale_bopp wrote:

hellznrg wrote:

why would anyone want to "dilute" their aspie genes?

that's only because they're in the majority.. but the number of aspergians in the world are increasing.. soon we'll take over the world, and ship all the male NTs to mars and the female NTs to venus... when they use their body language, we aspergians here on earth will see a big colorful rainbow stretch across the sky... which will be entertaining i suppose

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07 Mar 2006, 8:03 am

Aspie_Chav wrote:

It's "Carrie", starring Sissy Spacek. Believe it or not, she was 27 when she made that movie, even though she was playing a 15 or 16-year-old. It was Stephen King's first novel. The stuff they poured on her was a bucket of pig's blood. They were making fun of her because her fanatically religious mother never taught her anything about sex or reproduction and Carrie freaked out when she had her first period in the school showers after phys-ed class.

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Any way, I found her very cute, even if she was insecure even more so then most of the other girls in that movie. Maybe I find her attractive because I can trust a woman like her, maybe because I couldn’t get a woman who is popular. Anyway if I had a woman like her, I would not look elsewhere.

Physical appearance doesn't mean anything. Cute people can be just as sick and twisted as ugly people and vice-versa.

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07 Mar 2006, 8:13 am

hale_bopp wrote:

would someone PLEASE think of the children!

haha

good one

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07 Mar 2006, 1:52 pm

There's no way in hell I ever want to get married. Sure, it's nice at first, but then the harsh reality rears its ugly head. You have to deal with the constant nagging, the complaints, having to check in with "the boss" whenever you go out with your friends, the risk of being cleaned out in a divorce, getting the silent treatment without being told what you did wrong, and the bane of every man's existance: "Honey, we need to talk". In the modern American society, men seem to lose a lot of freedom in a marriage, so I wouldn't get married even if someone paid me. A girlfriend I see three times a week at most is fine, but marrying is out of the question.

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07 Mar 2006, 5:35 pm

I don't want to get married either.

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07 Mar 2006, 7:24 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

I would not want ANY child to suffer some of the treatment i've had to put up with.

Me neither, but I would like to think the solution is to change society's attitudes rather than practicing eugenics.

I'm really torn on the issue myself. After being in a long-term relationship for 6 1/2 years I acquired a strong dislike for the lack of freedom and have enough problems dealing with my problems without having to worry about someone else. At the same time, it's comforting to be able to lean on someone else when things go wrong, and helping other people really makes you feel like you belong somewhere. Being single and childless is definitely good for the bank account, but eventually you reach an age where you start asking "what's the point of accumulating wealth if I have nobody to pass it on to?" Kids bring purpose to your life.

If I was to have kids, I would probably adopt a toddler because I don't think I could handle the baby years. Quite a few of my friends went the "instant family" route by marrying women who already had kids.

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07 Mar 2006, 11:28 pm

the whole point of life is to have kids & pass on your genes... so yeah i want to eventually get married & have kids... i don't think i'd want to rear someone else's kids... what with all the bad parenting going around, i'd prolly wind up rearing a kid who had serious issues...

plus i want to live forever... and right now the only way to be "immortal" is to pass on your genes... thus in a way making your genes immortal

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08 Mar 2006, 4:59 am

hellznrg wrote:

the whole point of life is to have kids & pass on your genes...

I must have missed the meeting where we decided that there was actually a point to life. And as for passing on my genes...no thanks, I know where they've been...

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