Does it get easier to get girls in college?

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Well, getting laid isn't necessarily my first goal but it would be nice

I've always wanted to have a nice car anyway, but I won't be driving till July. But I'm going to community college first anyway and that's hopeless in itself as far as girls go I would think since I've heard that it's essentially 13th grade. It'll give me time to get a nice car is the main point though I guess.

I had a handful of attractive girls interested in me, a couple even stunning. The problem is - AS seems transcend all things, even when your social skills aren't particularly smashed up by it , that's where incompatibility issues make up for whatever progress you've made.

I think it depends on the situation. In college, there is more pressure to date. You get a stronger desire to find that special someone. There are more clubs in high school, so it is easier to meet people. People are also more mature, so that makes it easier. People in college are also smarter.
However, people in college are busier, so that makes it hard.
To make it easier, learn how to date and find someone to guide you along. That is what will make it easier.

Not for a Jedi!

College was worse for me than high school on that side of things. I came in naively thinking "well I came close to a breakthrough a couple of times in high school, so I look forward to new experiences in college" and nope, nothing happened and I couldn't tell you if any fellow student had any interest in dating me. All I can say is don't have high expectations going in and have a wide network of friends - join a few societies and clubs and get involved, you'll meet plenty of people that way even with only tentative connections to these clubs. I expanded my social circles a little bit in my last year and a half of college and I felt like I really should have done this earlier.

Simple question, more complicated answer:

College has a lot more people, less rigid social structure, and a much better chance to meet someone who is compatible. So from that POV, it is easier to date.

HOWEVER,.....

If you don't dress well, and aren't showing that you are going places with a plan for the future, you are going to continuously lose the dating game. Get shined up, get some good female advice on clothing, and work on your image.

Now I continue -- the one problem with girls in college is that they are still under 25. This means that, in the laws of supply and demand, odds are very much in their favor, as they have a whole world of men to choose from (both older and younger), and have the market on heterosexual "initmate encounters" cornered. Men their age have very little to offer, except a promising future, a winning personality, and the ability to make them feel loved.

After college is where I think you will see your best results, so please don't give up hope or marry early. By the time women get near 30, their "purchasing power" and looks begin to fade fast, as does their fertility. The tables turn for any woman who wants to be married with kids, and their entirely unrealistic and unfair expectations fall just as quickly. If you are a guy with an eye on the future, his career, and mental well-being, you should be able to clean up pretty well. I can elaborate more, if you like -- respond here or send me a PM, and I'll get back to you (busy days at work these days, so I'm not on here as much as I used to be).

OP: Regarding your question, do not rely upon your environment to meet girls. Literally everywhere from the gas station to the super market to the library to the mall is a good place to meet cute girls.