What is your gender idenity?

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Physically male, but i don't feel like i have a gender, or think of myself as one...

(i don't think of myself as female either, or hate my male body... in fact, i feel total indifference towards my body, and have never understood how other people can feel either happy or unhappy about theirs... i suspect that the reason i (and a lot of other aspies) don't have a gender identity is because one of things aspies (or some aspies) lack is a mental "map" of their bodies...)

q for those who said "androgynous": by that, do you mean "neither" or "both"? cos while i'm definitely neither, i have a couple of friends (interestingly both bisexual females and both with possible ADD tendencies) who consider themselves to feel "both"...

Personally I mean a combination of the two. If I could pick any body to be in, it would be one where you couldn't tell if it was male or female unless you looked close. Short hair, small breasts, defined muscles, but a few too many curves to be quite male. I find that physical type appealing, both for myself and others. Not sure if that's sexual or aesthetic appeal though, since body type is irrelevant in fantasies.

I'm biologically male though an androgyne in regards to gender, albeit leaning towards female. I have no interest in things such as sport, nor female-associated activities such as gossiping (sorry for the generalisation). I'd like ton consider myself a somewhat sensitive person, with both a motherly nature to some degree (if I can overcome fear of people) yet also a need to be nurtured and cared for.

My ideal body? No real recognizable features, plus no genitalia (though quite how I'd be able to urinates is beyond me). Long hair, softer, slightly female looking facial features but nothing too distinct.

I am a woman. When I was very young, I did not feel feminine nor masculine. I did not feel. I have always despised dresses but I think that is because you can feel your legs brushing each other and I hate soft touch. I don't like the standard of femininity. It grosses me out. But I don't feel manly at all. I am much stronger than most women my age. I was a tomboy. (not sports, just climbing trees, getting dirty) I always thought that I looked more like a guy (my face) until I was about 29 and a friend told me I looked like a Barbie. I realized with horror that she was right! (not exactly, thank God, but similar; blonde hair, blue eyes, fine features) The most attractive women I have seen are those that look 'handsome' in some way. I guess I just don't fit the typical 'feminine' model and I don't even want to. I think feminity has gotten out of hand in our society. Just as no one really likes a 'macho man' no one really likes a 'priss' either. At least not in real life. Do they? (this is a tough question)

ok i'm going to go out on a limb here... i hope no one i know reads this..

i'm male as u can see from the picture on the left and a darn ugly one at that (if u got a problem with that too bad, cos you mistaken me for someone who gives a $hit)

anyways, so yeah when i was young, can't remember exact ages.. maybe 5-14, i secretly wished to be a girl..! but as i grew older, i got a more "normal" gender identity..

breasts would be pretty cool to have... i can't imagine how women ever get any work done... all they have to do is look down and bam..!

Lets see if you ignore my Male body I'm a very feminine female through and through!

Female.

Very androgynous, but towards the male side.

I was born a girl, and still am.
But I don't feel very girly.
I don't feel manly either though.
I do look quite girly, but that's just because... well... it's what's expected from me.
I also have quite some female behaviors, but I learnt to do things like that. It's not coming from the inside.
I do wear make-up, girly clothes, stuff like that, but again - only because it's what's expected from me.

I'm as male as any male could be

Some psychologists considers Asperger's Syndrome to be some sort of super-masculinity, because Asperger's Syndrome implies a lack of empthy and intuition (both female traits) and often superior abstract logic skills (male traits). Thus, I would expect that female Aspies feel less feminine than females NTs.

I can't say I've ever met a single female Aspie of about my age, though. If there are any single female Aspies from Belgium out here, let me know

also very masculin... would be kickass to have breast for like a day though. i could play with them al day

The fact I have male parts does not mean my identy is all based on them, they are like all my other parts of me..PARTS OF ME, not me being a part of it

Male and feel masculine.

I'm male and I'm a good mix of masculine and feminine. I'm masculine enough to actively pursue my high ambitions and to strive against adversity. Feminine enough to feel beautiful, tender emotions,