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MissConstrue
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04 Jan 2010, 11:39 am

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Wow, those guys are sluts.


What's quite weird is that most men tend to look up to other men who display such behavior, whereas most women tend to look down upon other women who display such behavior.

Anyway, I don't get these women. Who wants to be sex partner #1581 of anyone?!?


Yeah I don't get it either.

I think women are more competitive in nature with eachother whereas guys get together and root for their favorite team.

Then again, sleeping around with people is quite a challenge so unless it's for personal reasons, it can be quite a competitive game.


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04 Jan 2010, 11:42 am

I don't want to sleep around, so I want to make sure I am super compatible with someone in that way.


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04 Jan 2010, 11:43 am

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I've had 13001


Hi, Soph. :P :twisted: And that is a lie!!


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04 Jan 2010, 11:49 am

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I've had 13001


Oh yeah, try 14000 for size... :tongue:


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04 Jan 2010, 11:49 am

Is that a confession? :lol:


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04 Jan 2010, 12:30 pm

Salonfilosoof wrote:
MissConstrue wrote:
Wow, those guys are sluts.


What's quite weird is that most men tend to look up to other men who display such behavior, whereas most women tend to look down upon other women who display such behavior.

Anyway, I don't get these women. Who wants to be sex partner #1581 of anyone?!?


It's just plain biology -- Men will always seek variety, because the optimal strategy to spread genes for men is numbers of partners.

For women, it's the opposite -- finding someone to mate with who has resources and will stick around to help raise the kids.

Thus, we have opposing strategies. I would say many of the women in the high count either thought they could land the guy, got an ego boost from being intimate with a high status guy like Warren Beatty , or were simply giving into the instincts of mating.



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04 Jan 2010, 12:46 pm

billsmithglendale wrote:
Salonfilosoof wrote:
MissConstrue wrote:
Wow, those guys are sluts.


What's quite weird is that most men tend to look up to other men who display such behavior, whereas most women tend to look down upon other women who display such behavior.

Anyway, I don't get these women. Who wants to be sex partner #1581 of anyone?!?


It's just plain biology -- Men will always seek variety, because the optimal strategy to spread genes for men is numbers of partners.

For women, it's the opposite -- finding someone to mate with who has resources and will stick around to help raise the kids.

Thus, we have opposing strategies. I would say many of the women in the high count either thought they could land the guy, got an ego boost from being intimate with a high status guy like Warren Beatty , or were simply giving into the instincts of mating.


While I agree to a certain extent, I tend to disagree with the second one due to cultural conditionings. I've known many women who married men poor and unemployed. My dad was one of them.

Also I think this notion about women only being attracted to wealth or stability is false but to a certain degree would make sense if a woman were to raise a family where the man is the head of the household. Sexual attraction is a bit more complicated than attraction in terms of marriage and sex. Unfortunately there is still a double standard when it comes to sex and gender. I still see a lot of random judgements being made whenever a woman sleeps around with men and yet I hardly see it the other way around. In short, I don't think genders are as conformed as we make them out to be. There are many significant roles such as upbringing, society, beliefs and so on the set most of the morales and trends. Not everyone is going to explore them through sex though.

For instance psychologists like Freud in the victorian period theorized that women were asexual like. We know now that isn't true but back then women were socialized in such a way.


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04 Jan 2010, 12:52 pm

Completley agree Miss. And the societal double standard is revolting, repulsive and wrong. (I like alliteration, sorry). This is actually one of my reasons why I would prefer a matriarchal society to the current patriarchal one, and why I tend to more easily give respect to women than men when I first meet them.


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04 Jan 2010, 1:13 pm

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I just read that Warren Beatty has slept with 13000 women.

http://www.nypost.com/p/news/national/s ... z0bZyqYALU

I'm shocked. This will stink of male chauvinism, but anybody got that beat?


If he have had sex for 60 years.
Then the average women he slept with is 217/year which is almost the workday of everyone.
That is 0.59/day.
So since 60 years ago he has to sleep with a different woman every two days.
If he sometimes feels lazy and doesn't want to do that he has to sleep with more women in one day.
I'm gonna to say, it's not a easy work to do.
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04 Jan 2010, 2:16 pm

He wasn't satisfied enough for any ongoing relationships or they weren't satisfied with him?
I think the problem must have been with him, not all 13,000 women.

“A great lover is not a man who can romance a different woman every night. A great lover is one who can romance the same woman every night.”

He must have been really bad in bed.
Good looking =/= Good lover.



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04 Jan 2010, 2:19 pm

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He wasn't satisfied enough for any ongoing relationships or they weren't satisfied with him?
I think the problem must have been with him, not all 13,000 women.

“A great lover is not a man who can romance a different woman every night. A great lover is one who can romance the same woman every night.”

He must have been really bad in bed.
Good looking =/= Good lover.


That saying was probably made by either a guy who couldn't get a lot of partners, or a woman who was bitter about her sex-addict significant other (Beatty is almost certainly a sex addict, and this is coming from a guy who also is, or close) and wanted to say something snarky.

If someone has a reputation, he is going to get other partners through word of mouth. Same goes for if he was lousy -- it would scare people away.



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04 Jan 2010, 2:25 pm

Also one more thing: notice that the link goes to the New York Post... which is a tabloid at its best...



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05 Jan 2010, 3:48 am

Well I think Warren Beatty has filed an injunction against the author. The thing that's going to go against him is the fact that they've got key witnesses - including his famous ex's. He only started in his 20's but once he starts... watch out!

Chances are, he's probably at it right now.



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05 Jan 2010, 4:21 am

One of those BS stories that is fascinating enough to ponder for a couple of minutes, but surely still BS.



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05 Jan 2010, 10:11 am

It seems someone needs their cock cut off.


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05 Jan 2010, 10:36 am

Come on, dont you guys know about the rule of 3.

What ever number a guys says he's slept with, you divide it by 3. So his number is more like 4300ish.


Seriously though, how does one keep track unless you've got a damn notepad with you and keep tally. I'm not in double digits and I have to count in my head when i'm thinking about it lol.


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