Is it a good idea to go back with your ex?

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Good idea to go back with your ex?
Yes, go for it but it's worth risking.. 22%  22%  [ 5 ]
No no no no no! Not worth getting hurt again. 78%  78%  [ 18 ]
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Salonfilosoof
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08 Jan 2010, 3:15 pm

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No no no no no no no! Never! If you broke up once, you'll break up again, no matter how unlikely that may seem at the time!


I disagree. I know a couple that broke up once. Now they're married, they have 4 children and they seem like the happiest and most stable couple I know. Maybe it's all just an illusion, but they've been together for about 10 years now I think.



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09 Jan 2010, 6:01 pm

Salonfilosoof wrote:
Asp-Z wrote:
No no no no no no no! Never! If you broke up once, you'll break up again, no matter how unlikely that may seem at the time!


I disagree. I know a couple that broke up once. Now they're married, they have 4 children and they seem like the happiest and most stable couple I know. Maybe it's all just an illusion, but they've been together for about 10 years now I think.


I guess its really depending on the person on the couple and it works both ways, if one has feelings and the other doesn't, then there's no match, maybe those two have those good feelings for each other and they both worked on their relationship, thats why it worked out.

In most case's not a wise idea unless your one of the person (like me) would take the risk but it would only end up you getting hurt even more.


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09 Jan 2010, 10:44 pm

Getting back with your ex is great if you aren't doing it at all out of desperation, know what went wrong the first time, and know what you're getting into. Really, it is that simple. The taboo against reconnecting with once-lovers with the intent of being together again is one borne or fear, however understandable.



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01 Feb 2010, 2:25 pm

Getting back with your ex can be bad or good. If you think you still like them, and they like you then it can be the right thing. But then again there was a reason you broke up in the first place. If things didn't work out the first time, how can you be for sure that they are going to work this time. Its really up to the person though, if you feel that you two can trust each other and make it work, then give it another shot.



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01 Feb 2010, 9:28 pm

I might get back together with an ex, if we ended the relationship on amicable terms and remained friendly afterwards, depending on the reason for the break-up and the specifics thereof. If she cheated on me, left me for someone else, or did something of a similar nature, I would never get back with her again, no matter what. Period.



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