can't find Mrs. Right

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I was originally looking for an Aspie who was a Christian and had all the same interests as me.

But it will be a miracle if I find any Aspie who is single, looking, and not asexual.

Im not for sure how to find ms right but i know that theres a lot more than just attracting the ladies. thats only half the battle the other half is making sure she is ms right and not ms right now. Even people who can get any girl they want still have this problem of finding the right person, so if the the person who is tring to just get a person in the first place and worry if they are the right one 2nd than start by being yourself. you dont want someone falling for someone your not that will only get you so far, let them see the real you and fall in love with that person not the fony.

I found Mrs. Right. Her name is Melissa and she is my workout bench.

My bad, you are the expert. BTW has Nowhere Man AKA Prime minister Gordon Brown been forced to call an election yet?

Live and enjoy your life as it is. Be out in the world. Be friendly to people. When you are open to life, it somehow finds you.

I got married for the first time at 36, and my sister at 42. We both realized then that there had been things we needed to do by ourselves for ourselves before we were really ready for marriage. You can't spend your life looking for someone; you have to spend your life living.

I agree. Do what you love, don't pretend to be someone your not, and when the time is right, you will find her. That is of course, if she is also doing what she loves, and isn't pretending to be someone she isn't.

I agree that good hygiene is essential, but some of the posts I have read of yours seem to imply that you are a tidy, orderly, and well-groomed person, and you expect others to be exactly like you, in which a lot of them aren't.

I think this is something that you are looking for in a partner, and maybe not what someone else might be looking for.

sucks when I can only go take a shower ever 3-4 days because of doctors orders regarding wound care from an operation, so yeah.

Least I can still sneak in a pirate bath. (FYI pirate bath = hair, armpits, and down below.)


also you got to be more open minded when looking for a relationship. Things I have really excluded are people outside the range ive chosen (Im 21, and wont even bother with women younger than 20 or older than 22, so yeah.) my mother and sister think that my limit ive put on ages is even going too far, but I dont think so. Maybe i can go 2 years younger/older, but that is about as far as I am willing to go.

honestly the other restriction is by race (I am not racist, but I also dont want to alienate my fathers side of the family, since I am really close to my grandparents, which they tend to be about as racist and conservative as you can get.) I will admit ive seen attractive members of other races, so yeah. (I would honestly love to find a japanese/japanese-american woman because I do tend to have the huge interest in japanese culture, and I love japanese food.)

Isn't Mrs. Right in the phonebook?

Women retain the title 'Mrs.' after a divorce, so you're going to be looking for married or divorced women, which is not a good approach.