MJackson wrote:
Today me and my counselor were talking about the whole mature things. and i told he how my friend said that there are mature guys in HS and young guys who are mature...but no one wants that guy. And my counselor said "yes exactly".
Why do so many young girls also date as*holes? because as*holes are immature just like they are.
There are freshman and younger girls at school who like me, but first of all im 18...and when i do try to talk to them, they play mind games.
Now idk anything about girls in their 20s, so im not gonna go there. but from my experiences so many girls at school always talk about mature guys...but there are mature guys there, but they just ignore them.
I cant have a decent conversation with any girls my age. I admit that my conversational skills arent the best, but when I talk to older girls I can talk about anything such as (why people treat people certain ways, feelings, life, politics if that comes up) but most younger girls ive met are basically airheads who think about nothing but shopping and drama.
I cant relate to most girls my age.
On my trip to spain, I didnt even talk to the girls from my group because they were too fast and on to the next subject to quick...but I made friends with some of the other teachers from the groups, and they are more mellow, and slow. I remember everytime we got on the bus to go somehwhere...i would chose to sit down by one of the teachers because they took time to understand me more.
On the plane back to the US, a girl from my class told another girl "he's weird".
But none of the teachers ever said that. I believe thats because they are more tolerant and mature than these young girls. I believe i am more mature than most young girls.
So this whole thing about girls being more mature than guys is bs...it depends on the person.
why do girls get to generalize on this forum, but if a guy halfway generalizes he gets kicked off or warned?
I dont like Hitler, but people you hate can be right at times
He said "how fortunate for leaders that men do not think"
and it's true, men do not think. that's why we make generalizations, and we go along with what society says, and how a man is suppose to ask a woman out, or how people say older men are better at sex, and so forth.
it's ridiculous
First, there's a LOT of very bad people that have very good ideas. Being an evil sadistic son of a b!tch doesn't mean you're stupid. On the contrary, if you're good at it then you're probably very intelligent, at least enough to make a name for yourself. The stupid ones tend to die pretty early.
Next, men are simply generally easier to stereotype than women because the stereotypes are more often correct. Certainly not always, but it is more likely. Second, the stereotypes that I've seen more often on this board are MUCH more slanted against women than men. Many many more posts ostracizing women in general than posts ostracizing males. Thirdly, it's always been more common for this society to take a woman's viewpoint, that's simply sociological fact.
For the maturity thing, yes, people want people around their maturity level. Mature people find immature people annoying, impatient, reckless and stupid. Immature people find mature people boring, overbearing, trepid and know-it-alls. Regardless if they say they want something else, it's because they're deluding themselves into what they think it is if their own maturity level doesn't match somewhat. Unless of course it's a purely sexual desire and the older wants the younger for stamina/looks and younger wants the older for experience and skill.
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08 Feb 2010, 4:32 pm
dont go for an aspie then!! 
