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14 Mar 2010, 6:39 am
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My shyness only makes me look brooding and scary. 
Brooding guys are ALWAYS hot
Just think of Heathcliff!
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14 Mar 2010, 9:49 pm
Postures wrote:
PLA wrote:
My shyness only makes me look brooding and scary.
Brooding guys are ALWAYS hot
Just think of Heathcliff!Isn't he a cat?
14 Mar 2010, 9:59 pm
Postures wrote:
PLA wrote:
My shyness only makes me look brooding and scary.
Brooding guys are ALWAYS hot
Just think of Heathcliff!Are there women like you, except in the US?
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In my opinion shyness, awkwardness and obssesions are good Aspie traits to play up. Personally I find them adorable and I'm sure there are plenty of other women who do too.
So does that mean that a very awkward approach where the guy wants to just run away and hide the whole time could still work? because that's what id be doing the whole time i tried to approach a woman (at least for when i was trying to ask her out, otherwise i'd be fine with it)
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15 Mar 2010, 2:39 am
Postures wrote:
GoatOnFire wrote:
Postures wrote:
...I'd like to reassure those young, single and inexperienced guys that there is hope for you all 
Many girls (NT or otherwise) find AS traits attractive and you don't have to feel doomed because of them. That is all
Many girls (NT or otherwise) find AS traits attractive and you don't have to feel doomed because of them. That is all What about the old, single and inexperienced guys?
Any aspie traits in particular you were thinking about that would be a good idea to play up?
Old, single and inexperienced guys have a chance too
In my opinion shyness, awkwardness and obssesions are good Aspie traits to play up. Personally I find them adorable and I'm sure there are plenty of other women who do too.
Well that's good because I am pretty old in goat years.
But really? Shyness, awkwardness, and obsessions are the good traits? I completely would have guessed bad hygiene, bitterness, and misogyny as the traits to play up.
Are those traits sexy, too?
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15 Mar 2010, 2:49 am
Postures wrote:
PLA wrote:
My shyness only makes me look brooding and scary.
Brooding guys are ALWAYS hot
Just think of Heathcliff!Oh, ITA. The Heathcliff/Cathy love story is totally hawt.
15 Mar 2010, 1:15 pm
I'm confused.
15 Mar 2010, 2:18 pm
Postures wrote:
PLA wrote:
My shyness only makes me look brooding and scary.
Brooding guys are ALWAYS hot
Just think of Heathcliff!Heh. But not scary guys.
Heathcliff? Wuthering Heights?
The only other Heathcliff I know of is Heathcliff Flowen.
15 Mar 2010, 2:47 pm
ToadOfSteel wrote:
Do they find us attractive enough to approach us? Or at least give us signals we can actually understand that let us know that it's perfectly okay to make an approach ourselves? Because most aspie guys, myself included, are worried about what could go wrong...
This is the webcomic I link whenever I want to explain what goes through our minds, and I've used it a couple times in wrongplanet posts:
[img][650:173]http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/creepy.png[/img]
This is the webcomic I link whenever I want to explain what goes through our minds, and I've used it a couple times in wrongplanet posts:
[img][650:173]http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/creepy.png[/img]
wow that was actually not made of fail
I don't really like the idea of dating
I just, plain don't like people
I don't feel anything for them and don't care much anymore
I get annoyed when people keep telling me I'll find someone
I won't because I don't want to-so I'll force her away before she ever has a chance to talk to me
or its some stupid online situation and I would never be assed to travel anywhere for anyone
huge waste if it doesn't work out
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Heathcliff? Wuthering Heights?
The only other Heathcliff I know of is Heathcliff Flowen.
The only other Heathcliff I know of is Heathcliff Flowen.
Yep, that one. He's brooding AND scary. Though, I must say Wounded Dog's coupling simultaneously made me LOL and cringe.
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17 Mar 2010, 7:29 am
Northeastern292 wrote:
Postures wrote:
PLA wrote:
My shyness only makes me look brooding and scary.
Brooding guys are ALWAYS hot
Just think of Heathcliff!Isn't he a cat?
PLA wrote:
Heathcliff? Wuthering Heights?
The Wuthering Heights Healthcliff, not the cat
KittenWithAWhip wrote:
Oh, ITA. The Heathcliff/Cathy love story is totally hawt.
I was obsessed with it for a while
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