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Can shoot me before I shoot her.

A brilliant, green eyed, curvy redhead with an evil sense of humor could make me kill my own mother. Absolutely butter in her hands.

Physically I like brown or black hair that is medium to long in length. Any color eyes, but green is my favorite. average to slender build is good but I don't mind a girl who is "thick" in the right places either. I prefer a girl around my height (5'5") but I've seen some lovely ladies in the 6' range.

As the person goes I would like someone who cares about others, who doesn't get upset over trivial matters, and who like myself is laid back and doesn't stress too much about things. Someone who is intelligent and open minded about different ideas because I don't match any of the stereotypes of the groups people would put me in. A woman who has self confidence enough to not be insecure about herself or our relationship and who can stand up for what she believes in.

oh wait... this is turn on's... well...

1. cute face
2. proportionate body- no matter how tall, the proportions should match
3. long hair
4. knee high's
5. glasses
6. curvaceous
7. hispanic girls
8. nerdy girls

Interesting to see the males are more look oriented, jump straight to looks at the words "turn on"

Expected it though. :p

umm...

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I like guys to be:

open minded
interestng
good sense of humour
cute
able to have an intelligent conversation
entertain me (I get bored easily)
like art and movies and being outdoors, and indoors
tolerant of my faults
politically leaning similar to me ie liberal, interested in green issues
hate the same people as I do

Looks wise; I am really not fussy, i have dated guys ranging from 5"2 to 6'3. I havent dated a lot of different races but that is an opportunity thing more than anythng else. I have my preferences but through experience i know that generally guys dont come designed like out of a catalogue, they usually have a few of my "preference' traits though.

am I the only person who wants the person I date to be politically different from me? I'm libertarian-conservative, i'd like a woman I date to be more of a moderate...

Why would you want that?


....Also note that the topic is what turns you on, not who you'd date.

I couldn't give a crap about the political beliefs of a potential partner. Voting is a private thing.

Or religious beliefs.

If we have different beliefs they will just accept that they won't be part of my life in terms of spiritual issues, or me theirs. I would prefer someone who isn't closed minded in terms of religion, thats all.

I have pretty strong spiritual beliefs and can't see my self being attracted to a Christian to begin with for a long term relationship.. if I really like a guy though, and he turns out to be Christian, that wouldn't matter.

A pulse.


So sorry, couldn't resist.

Many studies have shown when looking for a mate males tend to be more visual based than females.

Who's that on your avatar?

All of these are to be considered bonuses, not prerequisites.

* Pale skin
* Atheism
* Feminism (not wanting to change her name after marriage, and so forth)
* Showing off knowledge or ability in some respect
* Being either very tall or very short

The rest of what immediately comes to mind is for the adult forum.

well, mine was looks first, then I got sleepy, so Im gonna add personality now. And for those who dont feel like going thru the pages, a rehash of the physical traits will be there as well.

Physical traits (eeven then I am mostly not too particular, these are just preferences anyways. Just because a Trait isnt listed doesnt mean I would not be with someone without it, especially since personality metters more to me.)

redhead or black hair (as in the jet-black)
hair style, no preference really,as long as it isnt too short, her hair has to have some length and volume to it. The only complete turn-off to me would be bald/shaved head/super-short hair.
not really particular on body structure as long as its healthy and well proportioned
green or gray eyes
I cant have a real preference on height other than they cant be too short, since that really wouldnt work since im 6'3.5". To put it bluntly, sex would get annoying XD


Personality and Other Traits

Individualistic instead of being a f*****g conformist
doesnt belong to one of the big 3 religions (Christianity/Islam(or is it Muslim, i forget)/Judaism)
Would accept me for who I am.
Intelligent
Has common sense
someone I can get into a deep political and/or philosophical conversation/debate with, and really doesnt have to follow my own beliefs, we both would just accept them as opinions.
Must accept the fact that I have aspergers

I wouldnt mind that at all. Whats funny is is the fact that I am libertarian-conservative as well (small government please XD)