Some things that even your best friends won't tell you

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techstepgenr8tion
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04 Apr 2006, 2:46 pm

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What the hell is so great about strength and confidence? This isn't 500 B.C. when men had to protect their wife from lions, runaway chariots, the wrath of the angry gods, and collapsing pyramids. I think those are pretty shallow traits to look for. The classical definition of "maleness" is an unacceptable, narrow view of which males women will consider as a potential mate. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a man having a soft side to him. We don't have to have confidence, boldness, and assertiveness. Likewise women don't have to have a certain breast size, hairstyle, or thigh width. Get used to it folks. There is more to a relationship than these stupid things.


But, as much as times have changed genes have not. We're still monkeys, as monkeys we're still in a place were animal dynamics mean more than anything else, and unless we can somehow create some kind of new super race which isn't governed by the rules and restrictions of genetics or finite resources and a competitive need to consume them we'll always be living with one foot in the now and one foot in the stone age.


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04 Apr 2006, 7:01 pm

I understand. One day you will evolve away from your physical being, and when it happens I hope you will call me. (a being of pure energy from Futurama

Hey techstep,

What separates us from the apes is that we have the intelligence to tell instinct where to stuff it.

In any case, I've been in a relationship with a midget before and I loved her for her, not her looks. I'm also on the cusp of another relationship (not a midget this time) who likes me because I'm a nice guy.


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04 Apr 2006, 7:47 pm

Aaron_Mason wrote:
I understand. One day you will evolve away from your physical being, and when it happens I hope you will call me. (a being of pure energy from Futurama


Lol, yeah, I forgot to mention that part..... I being techstepgenr8tion am exempt from and better than all this.... :roll:


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Hey techstep,

What separates us from the apes is that we have the intelligence to tell instinct where to stuff it.

In any case, I've been in a relationship with a midget before and I loved her for her, not her looks. I'm also on the cusp of another relationship (not a midget this time) who likes me because I'm a nice guy.


Well, it effects some people more than others and I'd imagine that being through what you both have been its ensured that your both real people (then again I've known midgets who, just like a lot of people, a guy couldn't say hi to without her looking at him weird).

On the other hand yeah, people do have the capacity for intelligence to overthrow instinct and tell instinct to stuff it but the issue is most people don't and will not take that alternative and as long as that's the case it's gonna be true that outward persona, strength, status, money, those things will trump everything else. I don't like it like that, I'm not setting those rules, but at the same time I can't forceably change society - I'm just commenting on what I observe and I really don't care if some people might be offended by my being that blunt about it. Given the choice to be monkeys or human beings, in the relationship world the former dynamics usually win.


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06 Apr 2006, 6:27 am

NeantHumain wrote:
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i've decided to be a badass

Actually, I just decided to be a badass yesterday to see if it would get me laid. It didn't. :( Here's what I did: I walked up to an attractive young lady, said hello, started talking to her, and then suddenly beat her up and took her lunch money. She was none to pleased and definitely was not in the mood after that!

Good luck on your endeavors, though.


LOL :) hey your funny!

anyways, yeah the mistake you made is, you were after her lunch money and not mad swinging sex! so yeah... that's why she was so upset... cause u left her unravished... after your done talking to her about the weather and other pleasantries, u gotta throw her on the bed like a ragdoll & have your way with her... :)


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