How do I meet girls/women outside of internet?

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Keeno
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13 Apr 2006, 2:46 am

TigerFire wrote:
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try hobbies and stuff, it gives you something to talk to girls about, also if you start off in a club you'll get to know each other and that gives you a starting point


Sure clubs? Do I look like one that has ever been in a club? Actually no I haven't been in a single club and I don't know what one does in a club. Do you think I'll go in a club alone by my self among total strangers in a crowd of people? No I think not! How about more open spaces? I'm a little you know what of closed in spaces.


When Baby suggested clubs, I think she meant societies/associations - not nightclubs. :)



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13 Apr 2006, 5:18 am

Keeno wrote:
When Baby suggested clubs, I think she meant societies/associations - not nightclubs. :)


Aspies going to night-clubs might not be a good idea in order to meet someone special. However, when does work is when you practice body language techniques and other social skills. In this case it is important that you monitor feedback and how woman react. What works for me is to review my approach and think about what I said, done and didn’t say and do.

On a flirting class that I went to the tutor recommended that I try social groups and classes. I thought to myself going I will end up going from one social group after another like a lost soul. But it can work, I woman I met in a meditation class invited me to a coffee, which I excepted, I don’t think she thinks I am the one telling my her text message. But I am very happy that she made an offer.