Abraham, maybe your problem is that you make no sense when you communicate, as is evidenced by this thread.
So, let me get this straight. You're a guy, who behaves in a feminine or fey way, but is straight. Why not just use the term "metrosexual"? It's what it was designed for. Anyway, just be glad that women are indeed giving you attention, and, if you like them, reciprocate. Don't hold off just because you're scared of rejection. We only live once.
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