Lazenca_x wrote:
Hi
A few weeks ago, a friend of mine, who we shall call friend A, informed me that she loved me. A few days later she recanted that statement. Another friend, of mine( friend B) told me that Friend A didn't love me. 2 days ago I saw them kissing. I don't know how I should feel. I don't feel jealous, just .....I guess that betrayal is how I feel. How does one handle such a situation?
Basically, you have been stuffed about by typical female who has no regard for the feelings of others. More so in your case as - being an Aspie - you have a handicap. My own experience with women has taught me that women generally despise men with any form of impairment. For the record, I have another handicap apart from AS. I - and nearly every other handicapped male I have ever met - am single. Women just simply have no consideration for the feelings of guys like us.
If you feel angry and betrayed, I wouldn't blame you. I feel the same when this sort of crap happens to me. I also tend to feel pwerless as someone has gone out of their way to hurt me and there is nothing I can do about it. I know it is hard, but the best thing you can do is not to show any great response to the situation and rise above it. It also sounds like you might need to tthink more carefully about the friends you keep.
Best of luck with it.
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21 Jun 2010, 2:39 am
