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13 Sep 2010, 11:20 am

michael23 wrote:
I really did not appreciate finding this.....let alone knowing this is about me. I am really hurt and disappointed and no one ever asked me what I was thinking or feeling when it came to the relationship I shared with this young lady. No one knows how much I struggle with my anxiety but whatever.


I only just found this thread and was about to advise the OP to talk to you about it, just so's you know. If she broke up with you before trying to sort it out, that was wrong of her IMO.



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13 Sep 2010, 7:08 pm

michael23 wrote:
I really did not appreciate finding this.....let alone knowing this is about me. I am really hurt and disappointed and no one ever asked me what I was thinking or feeling when it came to the relationship I shared with this young lady. No one knows how much I struggle with my anxiety but whatever.

If this is how you feel, then you need to let her know, not the rest of us on the forum. She was confused by your actions, so un-confuse her by talking to her if you are able to.

Best of luck to you both.



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13 Sep 2010, 7:18 pm

LDRs suck. There's just no other way to say it. I tried it, I failed at it. I don't know if it was more her fault (after all, she went out with about seven guys while we were technically still together) or the idea of a LDR in and of itself, but now she's kind of lost it. It still saddens me and I still pray for her, but I don't really know what else to say. :(



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13 Sep 2010, 7:49 pm

Why, it must be asked, did you go so far as unfriending the lady of your interest?
Retreating, okay. Quiet and unreachable for a few days? Okay.
Unfriending is a bit of an insult, no? I would certainly take it as an insult.


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