Many women raise their guard a bit if you surprise them by talking to them, even if in attractiveness terms you're not out of the question. The more guarded people are in the setting, the harder it is to make a good impression. Think about each place and whether everyone is sober, whether people really want to be there or if they are more interested in just running some errands and leaving, and whether it is a time and place where people are wary of having their wallet stolen or worse.
The best place is parties, where usually there is some connection between you and everyone else at the party (for example, if it's a birthday party, they know the person whose birthday it is). Clubs and concerts are OK at times, because people often let their guard down a bit there despite the case for keeping it up. However, I find that women often come along with their friends for support and it is difficult, though essential, to talk to them on their own.
Absolutely no place is out of the question, of course. But your chances are generally better going to parties and meeting girls there than going to random public places for said random girls.
04 Jul 2010, 10:39 am
