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19 Jul 2010, 8:47 pm

SaNcheNuSS wrote:
you people need to stop complaining and just go out and have sex. NT's are very easy to bed. Just pretend that you are a monkey.


Let me guess. You are married. Married aspies tend to be ignorant of the plight of unmarried aspies. Married aspies tend to be better looking than typical aspies. Good looking people in general don't have a problem with girls. But for all the other average looking aspies, finding girlfriends is a seriously difficult task.

But if you disagree, please tell us how to find a girl for a one night stand (without paying her). This should be interesting since many aspie guys can't even get girls to talk to them much less have sex with them.



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19 Jul 2010, 8:56 pm

Given my abysmal luck with love and women, I'm expecting myself to end up being part of this sorry statistic in 10 years' time. :cry:

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19 Jul 2010, 10:47 pm

n4mwd wrote:
SaNcheNuSS wrote:
you people need to stop complaining and just go out and have sex. NT's are very easy to bed. Just pretend that you are a monkey.


Let me guess. You are married. Married aspies tend to be ignorant of the plight of unmarried aspies. Married aspies tend to be better looking than typical aspies. Good looking people in general don't have a problem with girls. But for all the other average looking aspies, finding girlfriends is a seriously difficult task.

But if you disagree, please tell us how to find a girl for a one night stand (without paying her). This should be interesting since many aspie guys can't even get girls to talk to them much less have sex with them.


I second that motion. I have an (older) lady friend who used to constant tell me that I need to find a girl. She seemed oblivious to my plight. I have tioo much respect for her otherwise I would have told her what I realy think about the games that young women play.



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20 Jul 2010, 7:03 am

SaNcheNuSS wrote:
you people need to stop complaining and just go out and have sex. NT's are very easy to bed. Just pretend that you are a monkey.


Thank you!! !! I swear threads like this are a broken record, not to be rude.



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20 Jul 2010, 8:06 pm

Northeastern292 wrote:
SaNcheNuSS wrote:
you people need to stop complaining and just go out and have sex. NT's are very easy to bed. Just pretend that you are a monkey.


Thank you!! !! I swear threads like this are a broken record, not to be rude.


These threads are the same crap.

"Nobody wubsme! I'll always be a virgin. I'll only wait for twue wub!"

Your options are to dive into your interests and become a postmodern monk, practice getting good at mimicking suave NTs by studying PUA material, or start whore mongering.

Any of those options beats nonstop pity partying.



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21 Jul 2010, 12:14 am

RICKY5 wrote:
Northeastern292 wrote:
SaNcheNuSS wrote:
you people need to stop complaining and just go out and have sex. NT's are very easy to bed. Just pretend that you are a monkey.


Thank you!! !! I swear threads like this are a broken record, not to be rude.


These threads are the same crap.

"Nobody wubsme! I'll always be a virgin. I'll only wait for twue wub!"

Your options are to dive into your interests and become a postmodern monk, practice getting good at mimicking suave NTs by studying PUA material, or start whore mongering.

Any of those options beats nonstop pity partying.


I'm really curious about how true that might be or if there is something else going on here that is the real reason why there seems to be all these NT and AS/Autistic male virgins...
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I wonder how many male virgins are actually virgins because of a harmone imbalance or because a medication they take has caused them to be sexually disfunctional?
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I also wonder how many of them are aware of what the real issue is but they instead blame their lack of sexual interest or experience on something else entirely?
------------------------------------------------------------- and I wonder what different people's definition of a virgin is :?:
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Is a guy who has had sex with only men still a virgin because he has never had sex with a woman?
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Or is a virgin someone who has never had sex with anyone the true definition of a virgin?
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What do you guys think?



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21 Jul 2010, 1:40 am

Good point, it really is not clear how virgin is being defined.

SaNcheNuSS wrote:
you people need to stop complaining and just go out and have sex. NT's are very easy to bed. Just pretend that you are a monkey.

What good advice! :o Pretend that you are a monkey, brilliant! The laws of the animal kingdom and natural selection will apply, so to be the ape that mates what you must do is rape the s**t out of as many monkey b*****s as you possibly can to spread your monkey seed around. If the girl monkeys don't like being raped, tough s**t, that's natural selection for you. I like this advice. :D
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Thank you!! !! I swear threads like this are a broken record, not to be rude.

I haven't seen many threads trying to get to the truth of the matter as to how common being an 18+ virgin really is. Now, to be rude...
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These threads are the same crap.

"Nobody wubsme! I'll always be a virgin. I'll only wait for twue wub!"

Your options are to dive into your interests and become a postmodern monk, practice getting good at mimicking suave NTs by studying PUA material, or start whore mongering.

Any of those options beats nonstop pity partying.

What the f**k? Are you some sort of NT who self diagnosed as an aspie for whatever reason? You're making a lot of inferences. This thread is not a pity party, the way people talk about sex makes it sound like the 40 year old virgin is mythically rare. I found a survey that suggests otherwise and thought that it was an interesting number. Just because the thread is about virginity does not make it a pity party.

And you forgot an option, acting like a monkey. :tongue:


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21 Jul 2010, 1:55 am

Well, Mr. GoatOnFire what is your definition of a virgin? What are your answers for my other questions? And what the Hell do you have hanging from your neck? :?:

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21 Jul 2010, 2:11 am

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Well, Mr. GoatOnFire what is your definition of a virgin?

For men: never have stuck their wiener inside of another person's orifice or had someone else stick something in one of their orifices.
For women: Having anything stuck in their orifices by someone else.
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What are your answers for my other questions?

Taupey wrote:
I wonder how many male virgins are actually virgins because of a hormone imbalance or because a medication they take has caused them to be sexually disfunctional?

I don't know.
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I also wonder how many of them are aware of what the real issue is but they instead blame their lack of sexual interest or experience on something else entirely?

I don't know, that one is hard to gauge and I can't speak for everyone else.
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and I wonder what different people's definition of a virgin is

Probably something inferior to my definition.
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Is a guy who has had sex with only men still a virgin because he has never had sex with a woman?

No.
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Or is a virgin someone who has never had sex with anyone the true definition of a virgin?

That's what I would count it as.
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And what the Hell do you have hanging from your neck? :?:

'tis a fire extinguisher.


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21 Jul 2010, 2:33 am

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Could this mean that there is such a thing as an NT virgin? :o


Of course there are NT virgins. People without autism can be a victim at 40 for various reasons. One of the reasons of NTs to be virgin (as far as they are not physically handicapped) is shyness. But sometimes I think that shy NT men are slightly better of than Aspies. Maybe non-shy Aspies might have more luck than shy NTs.

And I want to make a difference between men and women generally. Sex and love is easier to find for women, than it is for men.



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21 Jul 2010, 5:31 am

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Your options are to dive into your interests and become a postmodern monk, or start whore mongering.


I like a bit of both.


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21 Jul 2010, 5:33 am

hans66 wrote:
GoatOnFire wrote:
Could this mean that there is such a thing as an NT virgin? :o


Of course there are NT virgins. People without autism can be a victim at 40 for various reasons. One of the reasons of NTs to be virgin (as far as they are not physically handicapped) is shyness. But sometimes I think that shy NT men are slightly better of than Aspies. Maybe non-shy Aspies might have more luck than shy NTs.

And I want to make a difference between men and women generally. Sex and love is easier to find for women, than it is for men.


Yes. It's probably a lot more rare to find a 40 year old female virgin than it is a male. In fact, its probably hard to find a 30 year old female virgin. With guys, I'd imagine the figure is higher. I'm 28 next month, and probably still a virgin then..



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21 Jul 2010, 10:21 am

RICKY5 wrote:
Northeastern292 wrote:
SaNcheNuSS wrote:
you people need to stop complaining and just go out and have sex. NT's are very easy to bed. Just pretend that you are a monkey.


Thank you!! !! I swear threads like this are a broken record, not to be rude.


These threads are the same crap.

"Nobody wubsme! I'll always be a virgin. I'll only wait for twue wub!"

Your options are to dive into your interests and become a postmodern monk, practice getting good at mimicking suave NTs by studying PUA material, or start whore mongering.

Any of those options beats nonstop pity partying.


I bet there are married couples who don't know their partner's past sexual histories.



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22 Jul 2010, 4:47 pm

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I bet there are married couples who don't know their partner's past sexual histories.


That info falls into the "Don't Ask - Don't tell" category. Other than yes or no to a history, I really wouldn't want to know.