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27 Jul 2010, 1:18 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
better than selling myself out...


as if you are upholding some sort of ideal...



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27 Jul 2010, 1:33 am

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As soon as I lost my virginity my attitude and mindset changed completely. I used to be a lot like toad and adam82 and far to many other aspie males. (lots of unrequited crushes).

Once I got that out of the way, I find girls more interested in me. I think once you get rid of that desperation people will be more attracted to you.


The question is, how to find that woman who will be generous enough to get you out of this position.


$200 and a few mouseclicks goes a long way....



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27 Jul 2010, 4:47 pm

RICKY5 wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
better than selling myself out...


as if you are upholding some sort of ideal...


Perhaps. Then there's the practical matter as well... Even if I was like you and only wanted sex, hookers are only going to last you as long as your wallet. Sooner or later the money will run out. Then what do you do?



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28 Jul 2010, 8:05 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
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ToadOfSteel wrote:
better than selling myself out...


as if you are upholding some sort of ideal...


Perhaps. Then there's the practical matter as well... Even if I was like you and only wanted sex, hookers are only going to last you as long as your wallet. Sooner or later the money will run out. Then what do you do?


Be disciplined in how you spend your money. As for it ending when the money runs out, how's that any different from a "real" relationship?



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30 Jul 2010, 9:56 am

RICKY5 wrote:
Be disciplined in how you spend your money. As for it ending when the money runs out, how's that any different from a "real" relationship?

dude, there is a difference between a whore and a real relationship.. a whores cheaper :lol: but anyway, for some guys, its really a matter of pride. for example i could never go for that because id hate myself for it. and for finding a girl generous enough, dont try. hide your depression, people will find you more attractive, so then you find a girl, and try if you really want to



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31 Jul 2010, 9:56 am

chaddhuddon wrote:
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Be disciplined in how you spend your money. As for it ending when the money runs out, how's that any different from a "real" relationship?

dude, there is a difference between a whore and a real relationship.. a whores cheaper :lol: but anyway, for some guys, its really a matter of pride. for example i could never go for that because id hate myself for it. and for finding a girl generous enough, dont try. hide your depression, people will find you more attractive, so then you find a girl, and try if you really want to


Lol! Pride is a weird concept that is often used to get men to do things not in their interest.

Besides why should I care what an amoral emotion-driven creature with no restraints on it's behavior thinks about me at a particular moment in time?