Is it ever okay to look at a women's breasts?

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So the answer is Yes!......No!.......

Thank you for leaving me feeling confused.

What about in the case of a woman who show a lot of cleavage, what about in that case?

If she's flopping them around in your face, it's probably okay.

Hell yea, but unless if you were The guy.

Depends on the person and the case. If they seem like they're more prudish/conservative when it comes to sexuality, it's probably best to keep your eyes away from there period. If her outfit screams 'look at me' around the chest area, then a glance won't hurt, as long as you don't stare.

Then again, I've never understood the point with obsessing about a single body part. When I'm admiring somebody, I tend to look at everything.

If it's too difficult to look someone in the eyes, you should be able to find something on their head you can focus on. If you're looking to flirt the neck and lips are a great spot. If you're just being friendly, or want to get through the conversation, the nose/forehead can work for that.

That happens too. Same thing. Just don't stare.

As a girl, I think it's a major turn off. My mom would be livid if a guy stared at me like that and I tolerated it.

I never said "stare." I was talking about glances.

Let me make it clear to everybody that this question IS not about staring.

Now if a guy glances I don't care as long as he's not over my age.

So my question is about what counts as a glance. How long is a glance?

Just a 2 second...glance just look for 2 seconds. Make sure though that she is not paying attention to you. DO NOT glance at her while you are talking to her. At least don't do that if she's a girl like me. I tend to notice everything during a conversation.

Well firstly, its not socially acceptable, and most men know this - thats why they try to look when they won't be seen doing it.

NO.

You can look anywhere except my breasts.

Seriously, you can look at my surface piercing or lower obliques instead of my face, that's okay, I don't feel violated....

But breasts...there is something very, very dehumanizing about them.

Maybe because I live in a culture where women too often get seen as just breasts. If I lived in a society where, say, noses were seen as sexy and women were fetishized for their noses, I'd probably be oversensitive about my nose instead, and get annoyed if I thought people were looking at it.

Unless she wants you to, I'm going to have to say no.

When she's flashing you

When she asks if she has a lump

When she's talking about her day

I'm pretty sure 2 of those 3 are ok but I always forget which.