It really could be an issue other than AS-
he finds you "do it for him" as much as vice versa,
but is hesitant because he's unsure if you feel the same,
and is waiting for you to reassure him.
The most fantastic relationship of my life was with an Aspie man-
given, I'm Aspie myself,
but I'm of the opinion they can be some of the most wonderful partners out there.
And the unexplained silence from him, though it inspires in you a very understandable need to be reassured as to his mutual feelings,
needn't necessarily be broached in a "heavy" way.
Something to the effect of "(Name), I really enjoy spending time with you, and wanna make sure our time apart isn't because you don't have a good time as well." (That's effective even if it's a case of uncertainty on his part as I highlighted, as it establishes your feelings toward him first."
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"Such is the Frailty
of the human Heart, that very few Men, who have no Property, have any Judgment of their own.
They talk and vote as they are directed by Some Man of Property, who has attached their Minds
to his Interest."
21 Jun 2011, 12:35 am
