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Erisad.. dear..

You over use the word whore...
You are against random sex.. you think because you still have your virginity, your not a whore..
you have called prostitutes whores...

But, you have commented about blowing your ex off...
I have never known a escort to kiss let alone 'blow off' any guy
Most prostitutes I have known would not blow off a guy or kiss them.
These two groups believe it is too affectionate - to special to just give to some random

The only prostitutes I have known that ended up using their mouths
were no longer able to use their vagina
Because either they would/could not risk it
or the guys would not because of how far gone they were..

They would cry over having to resort to 'becoming 5 dollar whores'
for their addictions..

So, can you see why comments like 'the potential to become a whore with no standards?' piss me off..
Because I know some whores, as you call them, have standards

Things are what they are and if life rushes in that fast - it is what it is. I'd say don't let the so-called 'rules' set things downhill (ie. its supposed to be a bad thing, therefore...).

This is only the second time in a week that I used it. Come on! D:

I've only done any form of intimate contact with that one guy because I loved him, even if it wasn't reciprocated. Therefore, I'm not a whore. So it wasn't random at all. I cannot risk using my vagina because if I did, I wouldn't be a virgin anymore and would be kicked out of my house. So there are some of us who could actually say, "I never will have random sex" because I'd be on the street if I did.

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You aren't going to live with your mother for the rest of your life.

I hope not! But unless I find someone else to live with, it's going to be 5-10 years until I can live on my own. I need to get a job, my driver's license (I know, I'm such a loser for not being able to drive yet. I'm sick of being told that by my family as is), a car, and enough money to move out. I'll be lucky if I'm out of the house by the time I'm 30. And even if I move out, she'll find some way to blackmail me. Christian mothers are a pain in the ass. D:

If you are asking the question, then perhaps it was too fast. If your partner is scared, then take it more slowly. If you are right for each other, then really that starts by being right towards each other.


You can't really decide upfront how things will develop between you, but you can both decide whether you are each able to have no unrealistic expectations, but will treat each other well regardless.


That is something which can only be known with hindsight.
Many couples will be begin with amorous lust, and become each other's loves.
And many will not.
Is lust more acceptable if it happens after a week or a month, than an hour or a day?
BUT ... intense immediate lust doesn't guarantee lifelong love.
Biochemistry can happen to anyone, some may resist it, some don't.
Sexual chemistry is a very powerful drug.


If you had fun and are safe, then don't worry yourself about what is already done. If you think it is too fast for you, then be more cautious, either now or in the future.
You do not know the other person, that takes time, and there are no shortcuts. It's well researched that sexual chemistry can be like having a bad case of flu which can last for months.

Attraction, lust, in love, love are things which most humans spend a lot of time dealing with.

I don't like women who want to f**k after the first date...They aren't the most loyal types.
Sex is also not really important for me...I would rather have some kind of a-sexual because the chance they will cheat is practically zero.Even if it means no sex or only twice in a month.Loyality>sex for me

Unfortunately, none of it mattered because I was getting taken advantage of the whole time. Not for the sex, but emotional replacement for the ex boyfriend. What a f****** ***t. And I'm an idiot for falling for it.

That sucks.

It's better you found out now than later. Things will get better. *nod nod*

Yeah, that's true. My first experience of relationships and now i'm not interested anymore

Well, don't let that define how relationships are. That girl was just a b***h. :/

Thanks