01 Sep 2010, 2:37 am
01 Sep 2010, 11:43 am
01 Sep 2010, 11:49 am
I get the feeling the OP will have a date very soon, chloroformed and locked in the boot of the car! It was their fault for making him hurt! 
01 Sep 2010, 12:14 pm
01 Sep 2010, 12:36 pm
01 Sep 2010, 3:02 pm
01 Sep 2010, 5:39 pm
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01 Sep 2010, 5:46 pm
hyperlexian wrote:
Brianruns10 wrote:
All joking aside, I could never pay for a woman's "services," or forcibly take a woman or do any harm. Because aside from it being wrong, they both by their nature lack what I crave: to be wanted, desired, loved. I desperately want a woman to want me, to choose me, and that has never happened. For all my trying, I never found anyone. One date was all it took. And always it was me taking the action. Never did a friend tell me "so and so likes you," and after a while I get to thinking I'm so utterly undateable, who could want me? I just don't think there is anyone out there for me, and it's killing me inside.
i agree with the first part, and i am glad you are looking for more than 'services'. but why are you fixated on the beautiful people? why not focus on the people who you could be happy with?when it comes to love, if the beautiful people were the only successful ones, 99.9999999999% of the human population would never date, marry, or have any sexual relations whatsoever. but that isn't the case - most people do eventually find love. maybe you should fixate on people who (by your definition) are closer to your own status.
it's like you are punishing yourself by focusing on some kind of unattainable ideal... what do you think those girls have that other girls don't? is it their (fleeting) good looks? (temporarily) thin body? (youthful) perky brests? because time will change all of that, so there isn't any point on fixating on those kinds of things. better to focus on the things that are more likely to endure - personality, character, morality, ethics, adventurousness etc. (whatever is important to you in terms of compatibility).
She's right...Fat girls are easy!
01 Sep 2010, 5:56 pm
RICKY5 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
Brianruns10 wrote:
All joking aside, I could never pay for a woman's "services," or forcibly take a woman or do any harm. Because aside from it being wrong, they both by their nature lack what I crave: to be wanted, desired, loved. I desperately want a woman to want me, to choose me, and that has never happened. For all my trying, I never found anyone. One date was all it took. And always it was me taking the action. Never did a friend tell me "so and so likes you," and after a while I get to thinking I'm so utterly undateable, who could want me? I just don't think there is anyone out there for me, and it's killing me inside.
i agree with the first part, and i am glad you are looking for more than 'services'. but why are you fixated on the beautiful people? why not focus on the people who you could be happy with?when it comes to love, if the beautiful people were the only successful ones, 99.9999999999% of the human population would never date, marry, or have any sexual relations whatsoever. but that isn't the case - most people do eventually find love. maybe you should fixate on people who (by your definition) are closer to your own status.
it's like you are punishing yourself by focusing on some kind of unattainable ideal... what do you think those girls have that other girls don't? is it their (fleeting) good looks? (temporarily) thin body? (youthful) perky brests? because time will change all of that, so there isn't any point on fixating on those kinds of things. better to focus on the things that are more likely to endure - personality, character, morality, ethics, adventurousness etc. (whatever is important to you in terms of compatibility).
She's right...Fat girls are easy!
well, i guess you wouldn't really know that would you?... considerig that by your own admission you have to pay for it....
01 Sep 2010, 6:04 pm
hyperlexian wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
Brianruns10 wrote:
All joking aside, I could never pay for a woman's "services," or forcibly take a woman or do any harm. Because aside from it being wrong, they both by their nature lack what I crave: to be wanted, desired, loved. I desperately want a woman to want me, to choose me, and that has never happened. For all my trying, I never found anyone. One date was all it took. And always it was me taking the action. Never did a friend tell me "so and so likes you," and after a while I get to thinking I'm so utterly undateable, who could want me? I just don't think there is anyone out there for me, and it's killing me inside.
i agree with the first part, and i am glad you are looking for more than 'services'. but why are you fixated on the beautiful people? why not focus on the people who you could be happy with?when it comes to love, if the beautiful people were the only successful ones, 99.9999999999% of the human population would never date, marry, or have any sexual relations whatsoever. but that isn't the case - most people do eventually find love. maybe you should fixate on people who (by your definition) are closer to your own status.
it's like you are punishing yourself by focusing on some kind of unattainable ideal... what do you think those girls have that other girls don't? is it their (fleeting) good looks? (temporarily) thin body? (youthful) perky brests? because time will change all of that, so there isn't any point on fixating on those kinds of things. better to focus on the things that are more likely to endure - personality, character, morality, ethics, adventurousness etc. (whatever is important to you in terms of compatibility).
She's right...Fat girls are easy!
well, i guess you wouldn't really know that would you?... considerig that by your own admission you have to pay for it....
Actually I have done a couple of chubby girls and got freebies from regulars I see.
Simply trying to help Brian realize that empty praise and the illusion of love won't do anything to make him happier.
He should ditch the vCard and decide where he wants go from there. I've had better luck after I lost my vchip to a pro than I ever did before. Truth be told though I enjoy working girls more than "real" ones. No lame tests and far better looking.
01 Sep 2010, 6:13 pm
RICKY5 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
Brianruns10 wrote:
All joking aside, I could never pay for a woman's "services," or forcibly take a woman or do any harm. Because aside from it being wrong, they both by their nature lack what I crave: to be wanted, desired, loved. I desperately want a woman to want me, to choose me, and that has never happened. For all my trying, I never found anyone. One date was all it took. And always it was me taking the action. Never did a friend tell me "so and so likes you," and after a while I get to thinking I'm so utterly undateable, who could want me? I just don't think there is anyone out there for me, and it's killing me inside.
i agree with the first part, and i am glad you are looking for more than 'services'. but why are you fixated on the beautiful people? why not focus on the people who you could be happy with?when it comes to love, if the beautiful people were the only successful ones, 99.9999999999% of the human population would never date, marry, or have any sexual relations whatsoever. but that isn't the case - most people do eventually find love. maybe you should fixate on people who (by your definition) are closer to your own status.
it's like you are punishing yourself by focusing on some kind of unattainable ideal... what do you think those girls have that other girls don't? is it their (fleeting) good looks? (temporarily) thin body? (youthful) perky brests? because time will change all of that, so there isn't any point on fixating on those kinds of things. better to focus on the things that are more likely to endure - personality, character, morality, ethics, adventurousness etc. (whatever is important to you in terms of compatibility).
She's right...Fat girls are easy!
well, i guess you wouldn't really know that would you?... considerig that by your own admission you have to pay for it....
Actually I have done a couple of chubby girls and got freebies from regulars I see.
Simply trying to help Brian realize that empty praise and the illusion of love won't do anything to make him happier.
01 Sep 2010, 6:23 pm
hyperlexian wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:
She's right...Fat girls are easy!
well, i guess you wouldn't really know that would you?... considerig that by your own admission you have to pay for it....
owned
01 Sep 2010, 6:27 pm
hyperlexian wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
Brianruns10 wrote:
All joking aside, I could never pay for a woman's "services," or forcibly take a woman or do any harm. Because aside from it being wrong, they both by their nature lack what I crave: to be wanted, desired, loved. I desperately want a woman to want me, to choose me, and that has never happened. For all my trying, I never found anyone. One date was all it took. And always it was me taking the action. Never did a friend tell me "so and so likes you," and after a while I get to thinking I'm so utterly undateable, who could want me? I just don't think there is anyone out there for me, and it's killing me inside.
i agree with the first part, and i am glad you are looking for more than 'services'. but why are you fixated on the beautiful people? why not focus on the people who you could be happy with?when it comes to love, if the beautiful people were the only successful ones, 99.9999999999% of the human population would never date, marry, or have any sexual relations whatsoever. but that isn't the case - most people do eventually find love. maybe you should fixate on people who (by your definition) are closer to your own status.
it's like you are punishing yourself by focusing on some kind of unattainable ideal... what do you think those girls have that other girls don't? is it their (fleeting) good looks? (temporarily) thin body? (youthful) perky brests? because time will change all of that, so there isn't any point on fixating on those kinds of things. better to focus on the things that are more likely to endure - personality, character, morality, ethics, adventurousness etc. (whatever is important to you in terms of compatibility).
She's right...Fat girls are easy!
well, i guess you wouldn't really know that would you?... considerig that by your own admission you have to pay for it....
Actually I have done a couple of chubby girls and got freebies from regulars I see.
Simply trying to help Brian realize that empty praise and the illusion of love won't do anything to make him happier.
As if they are not miserable?
You are right.
Oh mighty Lilith please forgive a lowly male
Like me and Take me in your hairy pitted glory!
What the heck should they do? Be nice and caring and get stepped on? Or live free from unnecessary burdens?
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01 Sep 2010, 6:29 pm
01 Sep 2010, 6:39 pm
RICKY5 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
Brianruns10 wrote:
All joking aside, I could never pay for a woman's "services," or forcibly take a woman or do any harm. Because aside from it being wrong, they both by their nature lack what I crave: to be wanted, desired, loved. I desperately want a woman to want me, to choose me, and that has never happened. For all my trying, I never found anyone. One date was all it took. And always it was me taking the action. Never did a friend tell me "so and so likes you," and after a while I get to thinking I'm so utterly undateable, who could want me? I just don't think there is anyone out there for me, and it's killing me inside.
i agree with the first part, and i am glad you are looking for more than 'services'. but why are you fixated on the beautiful people? why not focus on the people who you could be happy with?when it comes to love, if the beautiful people were the only successful ones, 99.9999999999% of the human population would never date, marry, or have any sexual relations whatsoever. but that isn't the case - most people do eventually find love. maybe you should fixate on people who (by your definition) are closer to your own status.
it's like you are punishing yourself by focusing on some kind of unattainable ideal... what do you think those girls have that other girls don't? is it their (fleeting) good looks? (temporarily) thin body? (youthful) perky brests? because time will change all of that, so there isn't any point on fixating on those kinds of things. better to focus on the things that are more likely to endure - personality, character, morality, ethics, adventurousness etc. (whatever is important to you in terms of compatibility).
She's right...Fat girls are easy!
well, i guess you wouldn't really know that would you?... considerig that by your own admission you have to pay for it....
Actually I have done a couple of chubby girls and got freebies from regulars I see.
Simply trying to help Brian realize that empty praise and the illusion of love won't do anything to make him happier.
As if they are not miserable?
You are right.
Oh mighty Lilith please forgive a lowly male
Like me and Take me in your hairy pitted glory!
What the heck should they do? Be nice and caring and get stepped on? Or live free from unnecessary burdens?
thanks for the compliment! the goddess is cool. and although i do shave my pits now, i dated more guys back when i went unshaven than for any period prior or after. those were the days!
lots of openminded men are into feminists (and some even call themselves feminist), but don't you worry your pretty little head about that. now go back in the kitchen and make me a sandwich!
