I lost my virginity

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21 May 2006, 11:48 am

autisticon wrote:

Just curious, what made you choose the bathroom? Seems like a pretty unromantic place to have it happen.

Maybe it's an aspie trait. I lost "it" in a bathroom, too. :lol:

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21 May 2006, 12:22 pm

How old are you guys? Just wondering...

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22 May 2006, 5:38 pm

In the bathroom? At least its a place of hygiene I guess. I can think of much worse places and circumstances in which you can lose your virginity, this is quite tame by today's standards methinks. The bathroom ain't a bad place to do it.

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22 May 2006, 6:35 pm

Go you! I still haven't gotten to that first date stage yet

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22 May 2006, 7:39 pm

The good news is, I'm not looking to get that far with a girl at this time. lol.

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22 May 2006, 11:06 pm

btw i was 23 years 108 days old when it happen.
sad most folks lose it under 18

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25 May 2006, 11:53 pm

Ah, so there's still hope for those of us in the V Club yet!

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28 May 2006, 5:49 pm

billiscool wrote:

to my girlfriend. Both my parents were gone and I invited her over.
not to get in to to much details, it was in my bathroom. It was short ( which suck)
but Great.

LOL Good for you

You say it didn't last long -- I suggest you get lots more practise with this girl.

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30 May 2006, 10:48 pm

Do we really need to know what you do behind close doors?

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30 May 2006, 11:05 pm

Well congratulations and all, but I don't really understand all the meaning attributed to loss of virginity. And why you felt it was necessary to tell everyone about it. Personally, I think a person who loses their virginity to a person they love should rejoice that they've reached that point in their relationship, rather than how they'd 'lost' something which doesn't actually mean anything to anyone but the adolescent or adolescent-at-heart. Maybe I'm being wishy-washy... :roll:

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31 May 2006, 2:37 am

jaguars_fan wrote:

Do we really need to know what you do behind close doors?

I agree. What if I started a thread about how I like to dress up in diapers and a bonnet, and then s**t myself because it sexually gratifies me, and then ask if this is typical for people with AS?

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31 May 2006, 3:04 am

Space wrote:

jaguars_fan wrote:

Do we really need to know what you do behind close doors?

I agree. What if I started a thread about how I like to dress up in diapers and a bonnet, and then s**t myself because it sexually gratifies me, and then ask if this is typical for people with AS?

I agree with jaguars_fan and Space: losing your virginity is a personal thing and not really something you share with everyone else, ta very much.

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31 May 2006, 7:18 am

I put pineapples on my face and apples down my pants. Is this because I have AS? Or am I just a normal freak?
I have two ears and a nose. Is this an AS trait?

What's with people asking if anything is AS related.. because usually the answer is NO.

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31 May 2006, 8:59 am

The whole phrase "I lost my virginity" is stupid. It is equivalent to saying "I lost my sexual inexperience" but that is a double negative so it is clearer to say "I gained sexual experience".

And that is the point. Having sex for the first time is not a loss! Rather it is something gained.

It is only seen as a loss by people with a prehistoric, warped, and unhealthy view of sexuality; people who equate virginity with virtue; and a**holes who think that a girl is spoilt once she is no longer a virgin (a view more often held by religious fanatics).

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31 May 2006, 8:34 pm

emp wrote:

and a**holes who think that a girl is spoilt once she is no longer a virgin (a view more often held by religious fanatics).

I tend to have the opposite problem. I'm scared of even mentioning virginity to guys beucase they like a girl that is experienced.

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31 May 2006, 8:54 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

I tend to have the opposite problem. I'm scared of even mentioning virginity to guys beucase they like a girl that is experienced.

You make a good point, because I know a lot of guys like that. I don't think it's really a problem as long as you either find someone on the same level or someone who just doesn't care (they occur, I promise).

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