Anyone else want to physically harm John Mayer

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22 Oct 2010, 6:27 pm

IMO it's hard to know what's going on. Is he "throwing them away," or is he an unintentionally insufferable jerk who is impossible to live/be with? Or, are the women only getting with him because he's famous and he wants something better/authentic?

He's still pretty young, so I'd bet there is some element of him being a kid in a candy store. As he gets older and wants to settle down though, he might regret giving up something that was good, just to see what was in the next candy bin. And when that days comes, he might not be so famous anymore.



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22 Oct 2010, 7:37 pm

No I don't want to hurt him because he can get women. Jealousy gets you nowhere.

I do think he's a moron and I would never date him, but thats where it ends.



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22 Oct 2010, 8:04 pm

Some people care only for fulfillment of their own desires and steam-roll over their romantic partners - NEWS AT 11!! !

This is nothing new. Men do this. Women do this. Lots of people are selfish asses and don't care one bit if they hurt someone.

I just found out that my ex got herpes from a new guy she met. She was interested only in long term relationships and would not accept a partner who was not looking for the same. She described this new guy as a love of her life etc... He lied to her and betrayed her by concealing his condition. Worse yet, he deceived her because he obviously never had any intention of staying with her. He must have known from the start that she'd eventually get herpes and would flip out and break up with him. And he was fine with that.

Poor sweet thing. She's so naive.



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22 Oct 2010, 8:11 pm

I agree some people just don't give a sh*t about others. My advice is to stay well, well away from these evil people.



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23 Oct 2010, 2:51 am

Also in Regards to John Mayer, I think you'll find its less about talent with women, and more about being rich, dark, tall, famous and "deep" because of the songs he writes.

Some guys know how to be smooth though, I don't know enough about him to know if he's one of them, and he has a weird face in my opinion.

In case anyone doesn't know what being "smooth" means, its a man who tells woman everything she wants to hear and making a good act on making her think he believes it. Be dark and sensual, romantic.

People have pulled the moves on me and I must say, I was allured like a rat running into a trap. It never got anywhere because the guy must have ended up luring someone else. Some people are just very, VERY good at it. I know a guy who looks weird, stinks, has greasy hair and dirty clothes, goes into town and always manages to take home a woman. He's a smooth moover. I tried picking him to bits to find out how he did it and he told me to mind my own business.



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23 Oct 2010, 12:34 pm

naturalplastic wrote:
Media stars do run in the same circles. Like royality tends to hang with royalty.
Justin Timberlake (for example) is more likely to meet your idol (beyounce or taylor swift or katey Perry or whomever) than you or I am
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But I know what you mean.


Consider Ofra Haza.
If you're like me (a Gentile American) you probably dont know her name.

She was Israel's biggest pop music star in the eighties and nineties.

Was even popular in nieghboring Arab countries for her ability to turn tradtional middle eastern folk rythmns into slick modern pop ( kinda of a mideastern Gloria Estefan).

She was also dark haired exotic dish. One of my personal sex symbols.

She died in the nineties at 34 of aids.
How does a heterosexual, non american, non haitian, non african, non needle freak, Isreali woman get aids?

Well she got it from her filandering husband ( who wasnt even famous as far as I know).

Her husband had (what I consider to be) champagne at home, and he had to send out for Tab.

With tragic results.

Go figure.



I call this the Hugh Grant complex -meaning some men or women for that matter can't be monogamous even if they have a desirable mate who treat them right and loves them.

Back in 1994, Hugh Grant was dating Elizabeth Hurley - a beautiful woman who was wealthy and famous in her own right. When Hugh was in LA, he hired a skanky hooker to service him with fellatio for $50. And he got caught and arrested by the police.

Why would a man (or woman for that matter) go slumming it with a nasty hooker when he has the affection and love of a beautiful woman?

Because they can not be faithful to save their lives.

Just my two cents!



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23 Oct 2010, 12:52 pm

Brianruns10 wrote:
There was a news report about John Mayer I saw, and it showed all the women he's been linked to and then one reason for another ditched/dumped/left what have you:

Jennifer Love Hewitt
Jessica Simpson
Minka Kelly
Jennifer Aniston
Taylor Swift

To name a few. I so despise people like him. He just effortlessly gets and throws away beautiful women, women of a calibre which I, and practically all of us have no hope of ever dating. He has a gift and throws it about capriciously while the rest of us can't get any women.

And it makes me mad at women too. Why are some women so shallow and f***ing stupid that they continually go for a guy like Mayer who'll just ditch them, when there are so many quality guys out there who'd treat them right?


Hypergamy is real. John Mayers music sucks.



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23 Oct 2010, 1:10 pm

I don't begrudge John Mayer. He is making the absolute best of his situation. I'd be the same way too. :twisted:



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23 Oct 2010, 1:27 pm

RICKY5 wrote:
Brianruns10 wrote:
There was a news report about John Mayer I saw, and it showed all the women he's been linked to and then one reason for another ditched/dumped/left what have you:

Jennifer Love Hewitt
Jessica Simpson
Minka Kelly
Jennifer Aniston
Taylor Swift

To name a few. I so despise people like him. He just effortlessly gets and throws away beautiful women, women of a calibre which I, and practically all of us have no hope of ever dating. He has a gift and throws it about capriciously while the rest of us can't get any women.

And it makes me mad at women too. Why are some women so shallow and f***ing stupid that they continually go for a guy like Mayer who'll just ditch them, when there are so many quality guys out there who'd treat them right?


Hypergamy is real. John Mayers music sucks.


Well at least we can agree on one thing. :roll:


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23 Oct 2010, 8:12 pm

I don't want to physically harm him, but I'd like to give him a night he'd never forget and then never call him again. J/K :D , his dingaling is a KKK member that hates black chicks or something.

It's sad that he used women who were actually respectable. I don't know what his idea of the "ideal woman" is, because he's passed on a lot of good catches by the look of that list. Oh well, his loss...

He's hot and has a few good songs but the more that comes out about his character the more I dislike him as a person. Dude's a douchebag.



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23 Oct 2010, 9:30 pm

MissConstrue wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:
Brianruns10 wrote:
There was a news report about John Mayer I saw, and it showed all the women he's been linked to and then one reason for another ditched/dumped/left what have you:

Jennifer Love Hewitt
Jessica Simpson
Minka Kelly
Jennifer Aniston
Taylor Swift

To name a few. I so despise people like him. He just effortlessly gets and throws away beautiful women, women of a calibre which I, and practically all of us have no hope of ever dating. He has a gift and throws it about capriciously while the rest of us can't get any women.

And it makes me mad at women too. Why are some women so shallow and f***ing stupid that they continually go for a guy like Mayer who'll just ditch them, when there are so many quality guys out there who'd treat them right?


Hypergamy is real. John Mayers music sucks.


Well at least we can agree on one thing. :roll:


Mayer reminds me of this:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sf_Kk3T6ZP0[/youtube]



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23 Oct 2010, 10:14 pm

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This whole thread is TEXTBOOK hatin' ! Mind your business, people.


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23 Oct 2010, 11:55 pm

What does John Mayer have to do with you not being able to get a partner?


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24 Oct 2010, 12:12 am

Tim_Tex wrote:
What does John Mayer have to do with you not being able to get a partner?


Basically he is jealous of John Mayer taking being able to get girls for granted.



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24 Oct 2010, 12:36 am

A better time to be jealous might be when he can keep one.



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24 Oct 2010, 12:18 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Also in Regards to John Mayer, I think you'll find its less about talent with women, and more about being rich, dark, tall, famous and "deep" because of the songs he writes.

Some guys know how to be smooth though, I don't know enough about him to know if he's one of them, and he has a weird face in my opinion.

In case anyone doesn't know what being "smooth" means, its a man who tells woman everything she wants to hear and making a good act on making her think he believes it. Be dark and sensual, romantic.

People have pulled the moves on me and I must say, I was allured like a rat running into a trap. It never got anywhere because the guy must have ended up luring someone else. Some people are just very, VERY good at it. I know a guy who looks weird, stinks, has greasy hair and dirty clothes, goes into town and always manages to take home a woman. He's a smooth moover. I tried picking him to bits to find out how he did it and he told me to mind my own business.

i was taken in by a guy like that once. i was angry for a while, mostly because i felt so stupid. i was 18 years old and i assumed the guy had some integrity and he didn't. not that i had any automatic expectations, but he told me a bald-faced lie and i stupidly believed him. guys like that must count on fresh blood, because i think women eventually learn from the experience! (hopefully)


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