I don't think i have a chance...
I'm not sure what you're saying - by "privated" do you mean "deprived"?
Sexual frustration can be relieved by masturbation and sex toys - it's not as satisfactory but it's better than letting it drive you mad like that. Or, if it's legal where you live, you could see a professional escort.
Women can smell hate from a mile and are taught young to avoid such men as they can be very dangerous.
_________________
"Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live" (Oscar Wilde)
i think he means to suffer privation (be rejected). french --> english translation
LOL Hyper - I was still writing when you posted
_________________
"Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live" (Oscar Wilde)
Sexual frustration can be relieved by masturbation and sex toys - it's not as satisfactory but it's better than letting it drive you mad like that. Or, if it's legal where you live, you could see a professional escort.
Women can smell hate from a mile and are taught young to avoid such men as they can be very dangerous.
escort is illegal! Women cant's smell my insatisfaction..so i'm comdamned to finish alone with regret,loneliness and the unknow of love. Anyway i always know that
Last edited by J-P on 30 Oct 2010, 8:20 pm, edited 1 time in total.
i think he means to suffer privation (be rejected). french --> english translation
LOL Hyper - I was still writing when you posted
hahaha! tag-team translation.
_________________
on a break, so if you need assistance please contact another moderator from this list:
viewtopic.php?t=391105
Sexual frustration can be relieved by masturbation and sex toys - it's not as satisfactory but it's better than letting it drive you mad like that. Or, if it's legal where you live, you could see a professional escort.
Women can smell hate from a mile and are taught young to avoid such men as they can be very dangerous.
escort is illegal! Women cant's smell my insatisfaction..so i'm comdamned to finish alone with regret,loneliness and the unknow of love. Anyway i always know that
Do you think i should forget a love life and mourn it and go forward?
I think you should try to chill - go to a therapist to help you with your anger, find some outlets for your sexual frustration, focus on your studies and hobbies - it will help you both with your future and with feeling better about yourself.
If you sort yourself out first and become more content and balanced, others will also start appreciating you.
_________________
"Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live" (Oscar Wilde)
I remember a reason of my hate of women...i explain:
By my mother side they are more women than man. they take the decision. and it's a closed clique like in many family in Quebec.(I would be italian)Newborn baby is quasi exclusive girls. And when my older sister came to home and talk together i cant barely place a word. I'm ignored(same if i said something in link with what they talk). I have impression she prefer my younger sister. never she will do something or propose me something. never! She said me it's maternal love. I think she have a minor preference for her
Your reasons aren't the only issue here. You hate all women because some have treated you badly. You are attracted to fascism for other "reasons". What fascism has in common with sexism is this - it blames an entire group for the actions or supposed crimes of a few. But people are individuals. No matter how many Canadians I might have been mistreated by, that does not mean you are guilty for what they have done.
Once you learn to understand, to recognise that people are individuals and need to be treated as such, you will have a much better chance of finding a woman who might consider having sex with you. And, much as I sympathise with your loneliness, you have to find someone. It is unreasonable to expect just any random woman to have sex with you, just because you want it. Do you offer to grant people anything they want from you, even if it isn't something you want? If not, how can you expect that of any woman?
So you will need to seek out a woman who can appreciate you as an individual, just like we all have to do. There are women interested in computers, even if you don't know any of them. But if you treat them as generic "women" who have already rejected you, of course you never will get to know them. It all comes back to learning to see and treat people as individuals. If you aren't willing to do that, then you probably are doomed to a life of loneliness - by your own choice. Hatred, or a chance at eventual happiness. You aren't likely to be able to have both.
_________________
AQ Test = 44 Aspie Quiz = 169 Aspie 33 NT EQ / SQ-R = Extreme Systematising
===================
Not all those who wander are lost.
===================
In the country of the blind, the one eyed man - would be diagnosed with a psychological disorder
By my mother side they are more women than man. they take the decision. and it's a closed clique like in many family in Quebec.(I would be italian)Newborn baby is quasi exclusive girls. And when my older sister came to home and talk together i cant barely place a word. I'm ignored(same if i said something in link with what they talk). I have impression she prefer my younger sister. never she will do something or propose me something. never! She said me it's maternal love. I think she have a minor preference for her
so, you can clearly see that your anger and hatred is misplaced. therapy can help with that. lots and lots of therapy.
_________________
on a break, so if you need assistance please contact another moderator from this list:
viewtopic.php?t=391105
Well at least you are honest.
I'm curious how you reconcile your sexism with the fact that you simultaneously acknowledge your problems are due to your own social issues and not actually some inherent trait of women themselves?
And for the record, I might date a low income guy but I certainly wouldn't date a guy who hates me simply because I'm a woman.
Well at least you are honest.
I'm curious how you reconcile your sexism with the fact that you simultaneously acknowledge your problems are due to your own social issues and not actually some inherent trait of women themselves?
And for the record, I might date a low income guy but I certainly wouldn't date a guy who hates me simply because I'm a woman.
It's your affair but the hatred guy can be a gold heart if you let him a chance. For be attractive for women you need to be a stupid gym guy with a ton of muscle after use of steroid(small dick) with a big car and cash. My problem is caused in school period i can't sue for damage caused and interest... stupid system
By my mother side they are more women than man. they take the decision. and it's a closed clique like in many family in Quebec.(I would be italian)Newborn baby is quasi exclusive girls. And when my older sister came to home and talk together i cant barely place a word. I'm ignored(same if i said something in link with what they talk). I have impression she prefer my younger sister. never she will do something or propose me something. never! She said me it's maternal love. I think she have a minor preference for her
so, you can clearly see that your anger and hatred is misplaced. therapy can help with that. lots and lots of therapy.
decriminalized and regularized sex therapy with a psychiatrist for supervise will be better. some like me need to use they full sexual potential otherwise is cruel and unhuman but here this the Conservative Party at the power and they not for that
Your reasons aren't the only issue here. You hate all women because some have treated you badly. You are attracted to fascism for other "reasons". What fascism has in common with sexism is this - it blames an entire group for the actions or supposed crimes of a few. But people are individuals. No matter how many Canadians I might have been mistreated by, that does not mean you are guilty for what they have done.
Once you learn to understand, to recognise that people are individuals and need to be treated as such, you will have a much better chance of finding a woman who might consider having sex with you. And, much as I sympathise with your loneliness, you have to find someone. It is unreasonable to expect just any random woman to have sex with you, just because you want it. Do you offer to grant people anything they want from you, even if it isn't something you want? If not, how can you expect that of any woman?
So you will need to seek out a woman who can appreciate you as an individual, just like we all have to do. There are women interested in computers, even if you don't know any of them. But if you treat them as generic "women" who have already rejected you, of course you never will get to know them. It all comes back to learning to see and treat people as individuals. If you aren't willing to do that, then you probably are doomed to a life of loneliness - by your own choice. Hatred, or a chance at eventual happiness. You aren't likely to be able to have both.
Because of many peoples(some womens too but more man) i'm full of hate. Many people ridiculize me at primary school. I'm human and i deserved to be respected like others human. At place i was so badly injured mentally. Some women contributed. At least if i have 1 close friend i will be more happy. If only they have a way to get legal sex to pay. Like i said higher Ottawa should have sex therapy with a sex surrogate but only a psychiatrist for supervise the treatment
i don't think it's cruel that you don't get sex. you don't like women, so why would they have sex with you? i don't think the kind of sex therapy you are talking about would help you at all. the point of therapy is to improve yourself, not to get laid.
_________________
on a break, so if you need assistance please contact another moderator from this list:
viewtopic.php?t=391105
By my mother side they are more women than man. they take the decision. and it's a closed clique like in many family in Quebec.(I would be italian)Newborn baby is quasi exclusive girls. And when my older sister came to home and talk together i cant barely place a word. I'm ignored(same if i said something in link with what they talk). I have impression she prefer my younger sister. never she will do something or propose me something. never! She said me it's maternal love. I think she have a minor preference for her
She might have a minor preference for her, but all women are not your mother, or your sister.
My brother has three sisters and did not have these problems you have. He was always equally included in everything, and actually I'd say my mom favored him a little more than us in some respects
I mean cruel in the sense all human being need that and someone without can developed mental issue..like me..that why i hate women. Reverse roles and they will do same. They will hate men because of reject and they don't want her...all human have his need. therapy like i said earlier is for my intimacy problem.
By my mother side they are more women than man. they take the decision. and it's a closed clique like in many family in Quebec.(I would be italian)Newborn baby is quasi exclusive girls. And when my older sister came to home and talk together i cant barely place a word. I'm ignored(same if i said something in link with what they talk). I have impression she prefer my younger sister. never she will do something or propose me something. never! She said me it's maternal love. I think she have a minor preference for her
She might have a minor preference for her, but all women are not your mother, or your sister.
My brother has three sisters and did not have these problems you have. He was always equally included in everything, and actually I'd say my mom favored him a little more than us in some respects
he lucky
Maybe you mean a different word than "hate" because I don't think it reasonable at all to expect any man or woman to give a chance person who hates them for their sex, religion, race, or any reason.[/quote]
Let's be clear here:
Hate = La haine
This is NOT TRUE. To be honest with you, I don't know a single woman who is into the very muscular gym types, and most women I know find men with that much muscle gross. You do not need a fancy car either. An average car is fine. Even an older car as long as it's clean inside. And cash...eh, depends. I don't know what women in Quebec are like but even in a city as shallow as Los Angeles, most of the guys have girlfriends, or at least manage to get with women.
Many people here were bullied in school. I agree it can be quite damaging but you are not in school anymore and need to learn to move beyond that.