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30 Oct 2010, 8:15 pm

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What does "Get Privated" mean?

i think he means to suffer privation (be rejected). french --> english translation


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30 Oct 2010, 8:16 pm

I'm not sure what you're saying - by "privated" do you mean "deprived"?

Sexual frustration can be relieved by masturbation and sex toys - it's not as satisfactory but it's better than letting it drive you mad like that. Or, if it's legal where you live, you could see a professional escort.

Women can smell hate from a mile and are taught young to avoid such men as they can be very dangerous.


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30 Oct 2010, 8:17 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
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What does "Get Privated" mean?

i think he means to suffer privation (be rejected). french --> english translation


LOL Hyper - I was still writing when you posted


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30 Oct 2010, 8:19 pm

Sallamandrina wrote:
I'm not sure what you're saying - by "privated" do you mean "deprived"?

Sexual frustration can be relieved by masturbation and sex toys - it's not as satisfactory but it's better than letting it drive you mad like that. Or, if it's legal where you live, you could see a professional escort.

Women can smell hate from a mile and are taught young to avoid such men as they can be very dangerous.


escort is illegal! Women cant's smell my insatisfaction..so i'm comdamned to finish alone with regret,loneliness and the unknow of love. Anyway i always know that



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30 Oct 2010, 8:20 pm

Sallamandrina wrote:
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What does "Get Privated" mean?

i think he means to suffer privation (be rejected). french --> english translation


LOL Hyper - I was still writing when you posted

hahaha! tag-team translation.


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30 Oct 2010, 8:27 pm

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I'm not sure what you're saying - by "privated" do you mean "deprived"?

Sexual frustration can be relieved by masturbation and sex toys - it's not as satisfactory but it's better than letting it drive you mad like that. Or, if it's legal where you live, you could see a professional escort.

Women can smell hate from a mile and are taught young to avoid such men as they can be very dangerous.


escort is illegal! Women cant's smell my insatisfaction..so i'm comdamned to finish alone with regret,loneliness and the unknow of love. Anyway i always know that


Do you think i should forget a love life and mourn it and go forward?



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30 Oct 2010, 8:31 pm

I think you should try to chill - go to a therapist to help you with your anger, find some outlets for your sexual frustration, focus on your studies and hobbies - it will help you both with your future and with feeling better about yourself.

If you sort yourself out first and become more content and balanced, others will also start appreciating you.


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30 Oct 2010, 8:34 pm

I remember a reason of my hate of women...i explain:

By my mother side they are more women than man. they take the decision. and it's a closed clique like in many family in Quebec.(I would be italian)Newborn baby is quasi exclusive girls. And when my older sister came to home and talk together i cant barely place a word. I'm ignored(same if i said something in link with what they talk). I have impression she prefer my younger sister. never she will do something or propose me something. never! She said me it's maternal love. I think she have a minor preference for her



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30 Oct 2010, 9:43 pm

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I remember a reason of my hate of women...i explain:


Your reasons aren't the only issue here. You hate all women because some have treated you badly. You are attracted to fascism for other "reasons". What fascism has in common with sexism is this - it blames an entire group for the actions or supposed crimes of a few. But people are individuals. No matter how many Canadians I might have been mistreated by, that does not mean you are guilty for what they have done.

Once you learn to understand, to recognise that people are individuals and need to be treated as such, you will have a much better chance of finding a woman who might consider having sex with you. And, much as I sympathise with your loneliness, you have to find someone. It is unreasonable to expect just any random woman to have sex with you, just because you want it. Do you offer to grant people anything they want from you, even if it isn't something you want? If not, how can you expect that of any woman?

So you will need to seek out a woman who can appreciate you as an individual, just like we all have to do. There are women interested in computers, even if you don't know any of them. But if you treat them as generic "women" who have already rejected you, of course you never will get to know them. It all comes back to learning to see and treat people as individuals. If you aren't willing to do that, then you probably are doomed to a life of loneliness - by your own choice. Hatred, or a chance at eventual happiness. You aren't likely to be able to have both.


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30 Oct 2010, 9:46 pm

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I remember a reason of my hate of women...i explain:

By my mother side they are more women than man. they take the decision. and it's a closed clique like in many family in Quebec.(I would be italian)Newborn baby is quasi exclusive girls. And when my older sister came to home and talk together i cant barely place a word. I'm ignored(same if i said something in link with what they talk). I have impression she prefer my younger sister. never she will do something or propose me something. never! She said me it's maternal love. I think she have a minor preference for her

so, you can clearly see that your anger and hatred is misplaced. therapy can help with that. lots and lots of therapy.


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30 Oct 2010, 10:14 pm

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I don't think i have a chance with dating being a fachist(strongly motived by xenophobia caused by repeted psychological agression by strangers in my school years over years).. I heard low income have no chance too. God i'm low income so i have no chance?I have also they need...stupid women. That tell me that my sexism is founded. It's become stronger each day i see women accomplishment and success. I'm a bit jealous of couple i see on street for exemple. I wish demonstrating affection on public place was forbidden by law. Now i'm a greedy and jealous and full of hate aspie who resent female and people in general. I have my needs in love and sexuality same if an aspie and and intentionally deprive me is cruel and unhuman. I hate being in that state but i have 1 friend only and i see him 3-4 time a year he remains too far(Eastern Borough of Montreal). I don't go outside my house often i'm affraid of exterior. Montreal is urban jungle with nearly 2 millions inhabitants. I'm too nervous to approach girl because i don't know if she alrealdy engaged or will push me back. Now i don't how to express my sexuality other than masturbation. Other side to hate opposite gender i want to have one experience with girl. Close my favorite hentai site and i'm in dispair. By chance it's a paying site then they have something to keep it up. I think if a girl want to give me a chance to prove myself my sexism will disappear.. im just disgusting by the women behavior...forget that i have 0 social skill for that. The best for me would meet someone on this forum from Montreal,Quebec with same interest. In that case the girl will be the lucky one to have the mail of awesome man...and it's not a joke. Anyway i'm not a jerk so i have zero chance. I'm kind the most time with women. I would appreciate to talk to someone with near or same way of thinking. It's sucks to have nobody to socialize regularly


Well at least you are honest.

I'm curious how you reconcile your sexism with the fact that you simultaneously acknowledge your problems are due to your own social issues and not actually some inherent trait of women themselves?

And for the record, I might date a low income guy but I certainly wouldn't date a guy who hates me simply because I'm a woman.



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30 Oct 2010, 10:33 pm

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I don't think i have a chance with dating being a fachist(strongly motived by xenophobia caused by repeted psychological agression by strangers in my school years over years).. I heard low income have no chance too. God i'm low income so i have no chance?I have also they need...stupid women. That tell me that my sexism is founded. It's become stronger each day i see women accomplishment and success. I'm a bit jealous of couple i see on street for exemple. I wish demonstrating affection on public place was forbidden by law. Now i'm a greedy and jealous and full of hate aspie who resent female and people in general. I have my needs in love and sexuality same if an aspie and and intentionally deprive me is cruel and unhuman. I hate being in that state but i have 1 friend only and i see him 3-4 time a year he remains too far(Eastern Borough of Montreal). I don't go outside my house often i'm affraid of exterior. Montreal is urban jungle with nearly 2 millions inhabitants. I'm too nervous to approach girl because i don't know if she alrealdy engaged or will push me back. Now i don't how to express my sexuality other than masturbation. Other side to hate opposite gender i want to have one experience with girl. Close my favorite hentai site and i'm in dispair. By chance it's a paying site then they have something to keep it up. I think if a girl want to give me a chance to prove myself my sexism will disappear.. im just disgusting by the women behavior...forget that i have 0 social skill for that. The best for me would meet someone on this forum from Montreal,Quebec with same interest. In that case the girl will be the lucky one to have the mail of awesome man...and it's not a joke. Anyway i'm not a jerk so i have zero chance. I'm kind the most time with women. I would appreciate to talk to someone with near or same way of thinking. It's sucks to have nobody to socialize regularly


Well at least you are honest.

I'm curious how you reconcile your sexism with the fact that you simultaneously acknowledge your problems are due to your own social issues and not actually some inherent trait of women themselves?

And for the record, I might date a low income guy but I certainly wouldn't date a guy who hates me simply because I'm a woman.


It's your affair but the hatred guy can be a gold heart if you let him a chance. For be attractive for women you need to be a stupid gym guy with a ton of muscle after use of steroid(small dick) with a big car and cash. My problem is caused in school period i can't sue for damage caused and interest... stupid system

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J-P wrote:
I remember a reason of my hate of women...i explain:

By my mother side they are more women than man. they take the decision. and it's a closed clique like in many family in Quebec.(I would be italian)Newborn baby is quasi exclusive girls. And when my older sister came to home and talk together i cant barely place a word. I'm ignored(same if i said something in link with what they talk). I have impression she prefer my younger sister. never she will do something or propose me something. never! She said me it's maternal love. I think she have a minor preference for her

so, you can clearly see that your anger and hatred is misplaced. therapy can help with that. lots and lots of therapy.




decriminalized and regularized sex therapy with a psychiatrist for supervise will be better. some like me need to use they full sexual potential otherwise is cruel and unhuman but here this the Conservative Party at the power and they not for that


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J-P wrote:
I remember a reason of my hate of women...i explain:


Your reasons aren't the only issue here. You hate all women because some have treated you badly. You are attracted to fascism for other "reasons". What fascism has in common with sexism is this - it blames an entire group for the actions or supposed crimes of a few. But people are individuals. No matter how many Canadians I might have been mistreated by, that does not mean you are guilty for what they have done.

Once you learn to understand, to recognise that people are individuals and need to be treated as such, you will have a much better chance of finding a woman who might consider having sex with you. And, much as I sympathise with your loneliness, you have to find someone. It is unreasonable to expect just any random woman to have sex with you, just because you want it. Do you offer to grant people anything they want from you, even if it isn't something you want? If not, how can you expect that of any woman?

So you will need to seek out a woman who can appreciate you as an individual, just like we all have to do. There are women interested in computers, even if you don't know any of them. But if you treat them as generic "women" who have already rejected you, of course you never will get to know them. It all comes back to learning to see and treat people as individuals. If you aren't willing to do that, then you probably are doomed to a life of loneliness - by your own choice. Hatred, or a chance at eventual happiness. You aren't likely to be able to have both.


Because of many peoples(some womens too but more man) i'm full of hate. Many people ridiculize me at primary school. I'm human and i deserved to be respected like others human. At place i was so badly injured mentally. Some women contributed. At least if i have 1 close friend i will be more happy. If only they have a way to get legal sex to pay. Like i said higher Ottawa should have sex therapy with a sex surrogate but only a psychiatrist for supervise the treatment



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30 Oct 2010, 10:42 pm

i don't think it's cruel that you don't get sex. you don't like women, so why would they have sex with you? i don't think the kind of sex therapy you are talking about would help you at all. the point of therapy is to improve yourself, not to get laid.


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30 Oct 2010, 10:46 pm

J-P wrote:
I remember a reason of my hate of women...i explain:

By my mother side they are more women than man. they take the decision. and it's a closed clique like in many family in Quebec.(I would be italian)Newborn baby is quasi exclusive girls. And when my older sister came to home and talk together i cant barely place a word. I'm ignored(same if i said something in link with what they talk). I have impression she prefer my younger sister. never she will do something or propose me something. never! She said me it's maternal love. I think she have a minor preference for her


She might have a minor preference for her, but all women are not your mother, or your sister.

My brother has three sisters and did not have these problems you have. He was always equally included in everything, and actually I'd say my mom favored him a little more than us in some respects



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30 Oct 2010, 10:49 pm

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i don't think it's cruel that you don't get sex. you don't like women, so why would they have sex with you? i don't think the kind of sex therapy you are talking about would help you at all. the point of therapy is to improve yourself, not to get laid.


I mean cruel in the sense all human being need that and someone without can developed mental issue..like me..that why i hate women. Reverse roles and they will do same. They will hate men because of reject and they don't want her...all human have his need. therapy like i said earlier is for my intimacy problem.

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I remember a reason of my hate of women...i explain:

By my mother side they are more women than man. they take the decision. and it's a closed clique like in many family in Quebec.(I would be italian)Newborn baby is quasi exclusive girls. And when my older sister came to home and talk together i cant barely place a word. I'm ignored(same if i said something in link with what they talk). I have impression she prefer my younger sister. never she will do something or propose me something. never! She said me it's maternal love. I think she have a minor preference for her



She might have a minor preference for her, but all women are not your mother, or your sister.

My brother has three sisters and did not have these problems you have. He was always equally included in everything, and actually I'd say my mom favored him a little more than us in some respects


he lucky



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30 Oct 2010, 11:01 pm

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It's your affair but the hatred guy can be a gold heart if you let him a chance.


Maybe you mean a different word than "hate" because I don't think it reasonable at all to expect any man or woman to give a chance person who hates them for their sex, religion, race, or any reason.[/quote]

Let's be clear here:
Hate = La haine

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For be attractive for women you need to be a stupid gym guy with a ton of muscle after use of steroid(small dick) with a big car and cash.


This is NOT TRUE. To be honest with you, I don't know a single woman who is into the very muscular gym types, and most women I know find men with that much muscle gross. You do not need a fancy car either. An average car is fine. Even an older car as long as it's clean inside. And cash...eh, depends. I don't know what women in Quebec are like but even in a city as shallow as Los Angeles, most of the guys have girlfriends, or at least manage to get with women.

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My problem is caused in school period i can't sue for damage caused and interest... stupid system


Many people here were bullied in school. I agree it can be quite damaging but you are not in school anymore and need to learn to move beyond that.