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31 Oct 2010, 2:52 pm

Guys are such as*holes. Sorry, he chickened out on you. Why don't you go see a movie or something instead? Something scary for Halloween or if you have one of those Rocky Horror party and a movie at your school, go to it . Just have some fun.



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31 Oct 2010, 2:58 pm

sluice wrote:
Guys are such as*holes. Sorry, he chickened out on you. Why don't you go see a movie or something instead? Something scary for Halloween or if you have those Rocky Horror party-movie at your school, go to it . Just have some fun.


I missed the Rocky Horror Picture viewing party because I had rehearsal. It was on the 21st of all days. Why not have it actually on Halloween? Geeze. Seriously, there's nothing going on. All the good stuff happened already. Also, the movie theatre nearby only shows 2 movies and it isn't any good. I don't want to spend money unless I'm with people. Mom already is upset with me about my credit card balance, even though she was the one who put $800 on it back in June. I don't even want to get into costume now because what's the point? It's not like I'm doing anything. :(



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31 Oct 2010, 3:18 pm

Sorry. If you are on a campus, can you go crash a house party or do something university-affliated if you are not a drinker? My old campus would have dances or movies for people that were dry as an alternative to going out and drinking during the big party holidays. I know you were looking forward to your date, I wouldn't feel bad about yourself. You did nothing wrong. He is the one that isn't secure in himself to put himself out there.



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31 Oct 2010, 3:20 pm

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Sorry. If you are on a campus, can you go crash a house party or do something university-affliated if you are not a drinker? My old campus would have dances or movies for people that were dry as an alternative to going out and drinking during the big party holidays. I know you were looking forward to your date, I wouldn't feel bad about yourself. You did nothing wrong. He is the one that isn't secure in himself to put himself out there.


Um...all the university affiliated events are over. They don't care on the weekends. So the only option is to drink. :/

He just messaged me asking if it isn't too late to meet for a little bit. I said we could meet for dinner if he wanted. I have yet to receive a response. *shrug* I dunno. I'll have to redo my makeup again though but why not? Not like I have anything else going on. I could do more homework but I'm not in the mood. :P



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31 Oct 2010, 3:23 pm

Well sorry I have been gone for the weekend and unable to give advice (not that I had much to give since this is the same situation as before...) but yeah better luck next time.


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31 Oct 2010, 3:24 pm

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Well sorry I have been gone for the weekend and unable to give advice (not that I had much to give since this is the same situation as before...) but yeah better luck next time.


It's okay dude. I can't rely on you all the time. XD



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31 Oct 2010, 3:27 pm

Boo. Sorry to hear this!

I have nothing to do tonight either.
Still nursing a hangover. x)



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31 Oct 2010, 3:30 pm

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Boo. Sorry to hear this!

I have nothing to do tonight either.
Still nursing a hangover. x)


Lol. We're trying to decide when we're going to meet up for dinner tonight. He apologized for canceling too soon and asked if there was some way for us to meet up for a little bit tonight. We might end up going to a restaurant in costume. He'll be a ninja and I'll be a busty wench. Oh lol. :P



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31 Oct 2010, 3:31 pm

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Boo. Sorry to hear this!

I have nothing to do tonight either.
Still nursing a hangover. x)


Lol. We're trying to decide when we're going to meet up for dinner tonight. He apologized for canceling too soon and asked if there was some way for us to meet up for a little bit tonight. We might end up going to a restaurant in costume. He'll be a ninja and I'll be a busty wench. Oh lol. :P


That sounds awesome! Doing things in costume is super-fun. :D
I hope you have a good time. You deserve some fun!



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31 Oct 2010, 3:32 pm

Yeah, mine was out in the sticks, and the school didn't want people killing themselves by driving back and forth to the city after drinking.

Sounds, like he trying to muster up some courage. :P



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31 Oct 2010, 3:32 pm

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It's okay dude. I can't rely on you all the time. XD


You can some of the time though? :lol:


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31 Oct 2010, 3:35 pm

It sounds like that's what he might be doing. He lives 45 minutes away, so when we decide a time I need to get ready fast. Getting into a cincher is tough work. I love how he suggested that we get into costume when he was opposed to it before. Change of heart? Oh lol. XD



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31 Oct 2010, 3:40 pm

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Erisad wrote:
It's okay dude. I can't rely on you all the time. XD


You can some of the time though? :lol:


Oh shush, you know what I meant. :P



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31 Oct 2010, 8:20 pm

emlion wrote:
That sounds awesome! Doing things in costume is super-fun. :D
I hope you have a good time. You deserve some fun!


And that's what happened. :P

We met up, walked to the local diner, had food. I offered to pay for myself but he insisted that he covered it. Afterwards he pops a piece of gum in his mouth and asks me if I want some. I take a piece, walk us to the fountain on the resident side of campus and well...we weren't sitting on that bench for long before things got a little intimate. :heart: We didn't go past first base, obviously. We were outside and it was cold. :lol: Seriously though, I'm glad that I let him have another chance and take me out to dinner. Sadly, his mom called and said she was in the parking lot, cutting our date a little bit short. 2.5 hours isn't bad (especially since only 1 of those hours were spent at the diner. Meow.)

He does drive but since his mom had errands to run in the area, it was better to have her drop him off to save gas. I understand that. In the future, he says he'll drive down to meet with me. I'm still cold from being outside for awhile in a wench outfit but I'm so happy right now. Yaaaaaaaay! ^_^



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31 Oct 2010, 8:32 pm

Nice.


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31 Oct 2010, 8:34 pm

Pistonhead wrote:
Nice.


Thanks dude. I feel like I'm floating a little, not heads over heels though. It's weird but I like it. ^_^