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TheMinnesotaIceman
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17 Nov 2010, 2:11 am

RocketScientist wrote:
Thanks for the advice so far guys. When I call, should I just say "Hi, I'm (my name), the guy you met in the coffee shop the other day." [She says hi] "Would you like to meet me for coffee or a light lunch sometime?" Or should I wait a little longer into the conversation, eg, make some small talk for a few minutes first? Only thing is, on the phone there is nothing obvious to talk about, not like in the coffee shop where I could ask her how she liked the book she was reading, which I had read. There is no obvious conversation starter.

I was going to call her today, but put it off until tomorrow. I'm nervous about it, but I need to convince myself to call her tomorrow. I have probably already waited longer than I should have.

Thanks guys!
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Make small talk for a few minutes, first.



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17 Nov 2010, 2:11 am

Call her in the morning. If you get voicemail, keep your message short, casual and welcoming.

Just keep in mind if she doesn't call back, you may call back in a few days but if she doesn't write her off. That's what happened to me at a bar a few nights ago.