What are the advantages of dating Aspie girls?

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the chase is the best part!
maybe i just like guys chasing me.
i've never had to chase - yet anyway.

well see that's the thing, you've only seen it from one end
you're biased
(I might have been "chased" but I didn't like them so it didn't progress)

yeah definitely.
i don't think i'd like to be the chaser.
seems like it could be very frustrating.

it is, especially for weirdo's with AS, well men with AS

Imagine being the action hero in a movie, chasing the bad guy into a steel mill. That's how I feel chasing a girl. There is no thrill of the chase for me; how do I know where the chase will lead? Last time I tried the thrill of the chase, I ended up with a girl trying to visit me from Guatemala. I mentioned that on here once. That's the first and last time I'm ever going to be thrilled to chase anyone. The way I see it, if I'm walking towards her, and she is running away, I'm not chasing after her. Besides, I don't need a girlfriend. I've seen what it has to offer...and it seems like a stupid thing NTs do, which is why dating sucks, because they invented the rules.

Bottom line for me is, if a girl NEEDS to be chased after, she is probably way too insecure for my liking anyway. Liking it is one thing, needing it is quite another.

Legos are more fun than dating.

Dating is a waste of money and time.

I can have more fun playing in the
garden.

I built a snowasaurus rex last week
it was great, try having that kind of
fun of "dating".

I'd have to disapoint them, they'd
expect stuff from me I am not
going to give them.

Ask me for a diamond and they
will get a handful of snow, or mudm
or --- A BOOGER!! !

No dating for me thanks, unless
the rules suddenly switch over
and then I find myself being asked
to have a burping contest, or to come
out and play in the rain, or go looking
for toads and/or tadpoles in the river,
now That's Dating in Tiggerville.

Boy gives girl a toad, Girl gives
boy some bugs like cicadas or
lightning bugs, and its a date!

doubt that, I am sure there is someone here from there
tis a big place

Of course I would LOVE to find an Aspie girl, but it is functionally impossible.

I confess that I've tried PM-ing women at WP but it has been uniformly disastrous.

This is simply NOT an option for Aspie guys because of simple demographics, it's NT or nothing...

Ummm...
Based on what my boyfriend tells me:
1. I am very smart.
2. Very loyal.
3. Don't play many relationship games.
4. Rarely lie.
5. Incredible memory

I can go on. But truth be told every girl is different. We are hard to meet and most of us who are interested in boys and relationships (many are not) are in relationships. My boyfriend is AD(H)D (inattentive) and its a pretty good match for me.

Alright, so going on that note. How do I find out what towns WP members live in??
Or am I looking in the wrong place?