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Lene
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16 Dec 2010, 5:35 pm

MidlifeAspie wrote:
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This niece doesn't just want to date him, she wants to marry him.


Not only that but she has picked out a timeframe for marriage (in three years) and he doesn't seem to even be interested in her. The topic of the post is asking how to "win his heart". I am surprised that nobody else has picked up on how odd it is that a 19 year old girl has picked out a random future husband who is not even interested in her, and this has led to family discussions as to whether or not he is the right choice. Unless this is an arranged marriage of some type, it seems that she may have some pretty serious emotional problems that her family is feeding.


This kinda struck me as odd too. I mean, after 5 years of friendship, why the hell does she need her uncle to ask a bunch of strangers on the internet what to do?

She's got the marriage all planned out, and he's totally oblivious that she even likes him.... this sounds like it's going to be one huge uphill struggle.



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16 Dec 2010, 5:53 pm

The biggest way to get me interested in a female is her coming forward.

If I know someone is interested in me, I will do everything to make sure something happens.



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16 Dec 2010, 6:59 pm

MidlifeAspie wrote:
... he doesn't seem to even be interested in her. The topic of the post is asking how to "win his heart". I am surprised that nobody else has picked up on how odd it is that a 19 year old girl has picked out a random future husband who is not even interested in her ...

We do not know that. We only know she has her heart set on someone who is an Aspie ...

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She's head over heels in love with her friend for 5 years now and wants it to progress to a romance instead of a friendship.


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16 Dec 2010, 7:01 pm

Lene wrote:
... why the hell does she need her uncle to ask a bunch of strangers on the internet what to do?

Who has said she needs that?


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