Jealous of couples

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this isn't cave times, you can't just take women
and how do you know you're more deserving, anyways?!

I suppose you could get depressed if you see couples and you can't find someone to be in a relationship with though you want one.

QFT

people here are always saying they want a girlfriend more then other people...but why do they feel they are more deserving?!
they don't know these strangers, you can't assume everyone but you is horrid and she deserves better (and saying that, what makes them better)
why do they deserve this? because they try?
everyone has to try, to one degree or another
everyone has hardships in life and its selfish, and stupid to think you are the only one with problems and deserve things handed to you because you are disabled

Logic wins again

I'M A WINNER!! !

The ugliness in this thread is so disheartening (shudder).

It also explains very well why some of the guys here can't find a date or friends .

aww come on, I just pointed out logic...

or did you mean the winner thing?
yeah that was for me, i admit that lol

LOL - I wasn't referring to your comment, of course. I've never seen you expressing the wish to beat and rape someone or implying that hate and anger make you more deserving than others.

Someone should find a fancy a word for this attitude - an equally ugly twin to Schadenfreude.

I am alone because...well I don't really try lol I am not in a relationship mentality right now, I have other things to sort out in my day to day, then worry about that.
People here think women are like a genie, that they will solve all their problems, I mean in the past I have said the only reason I ever wanted a girlfriend was to fit in, but...I don't really care about fitting in anymore-its not gonna happen, girl or not
instead of causing me and her unnecessary problems because we're not compatible, I just learn to enjoy the life I have
using someone to make yourself feel better makes one an ass

I don't know how old you are, but from what I remember you're having some other troubles right now, more painful than being single. And you don't make a fuss about it either. You might come across as a bit rough around the edges, but I for one like your courage.



Sure, the whole logic is flawed, but I try to cut them some slack on that, since I think it comes from immaturity and lack of experience. What I can't understand is such seething hate and wishing ill on people they know nothing about - who they are, what are their struggles, what efforts or sacrifices they made to get and keep what they have. They're so dismissive of everybody else's problems and suffering and sure that everything others have just fell into their lap out of nowhere. Add the assumption that they are more deserving and comments like this:

and it should be obvious why girls won't want anything to do with them.

Last edited by Sallamandrina on 25 Dec 2010, 9:53 pm, edited 1 time in total.

yes, and if I mention it, I get called a troll or told I have no life lol
(yes I had digestion problems-where I wasn't able to eat much without feeling really sick, had to quit my job, etc) got better and will begin work again in the new year.
I never try and say I am all great, I have my problems and understand 100% if someone would be put off by my strangeness, its not their fault
its just how they feel, you can't force someone to like you, just because you think you deserve it
I admit to being unkind sometimes but seeing some of the crap I do here...its as good as I can get, really,

I'm glad you're feeling better, Kilroy

Happymusic made a very good point on a different thread:

I think, they feel since they have AS-the world is harder for them, so should be compensated by the forces that be (that most regularly belittle) to simply give them what they feel they deserve and in their own diluted minds, they will be happy

I don't even know where to begin with.
Who put you in charge of other peoples needs?

And as i can see, you seem to be rather interested only in the sex part....go get a hooker or escort if you want sex that badly.

First off, it's not easy to get a girlfriend. And even harder to keep one. It takes a lot of work on both parts so you need to be ready for that. Second, why don't you actually try and put yourself out there to girls you are interested in? Yes I know it's incredibly hard, and can make you anxious/scared to the point of nausea but girls like it when a guy shows initiative so you kind of just have to force yourself to do it.

And also 3rd, not trying to sound rude but why do you say that you need sex and a relationship more than other people do? I mean it sounds kind of conceited. Just because you have a disability or depression doesn't just automatically mean you should get whatever you want including a girlfriend. Also having a girlfriend doesn't automatically make everything better. Sure it feels great to have one and you might be a lot happier. But it's also a lot of work to keep a good relationship going no matter how well you two click. So you can't just think that having a girlfriend will fix all of life's problems.