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24 Dec 2010, 4:27 pm

you were blaming her for breaking up with you, for something you fully admit was a crazy thing to believe
you brought all of this on yourself and you freely admitted it

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24 Dec 2010, 4:32 pm

You seem to have all the facts, don't you?

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24 Dec 2010, 4:33 pm

why yes, yes I do

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25 Dec 2010, 12:47 am

Beauty_pact wrote:

[namely that your naked body is only to be seen by your true love, and vice versa.

I feel this is way, too. Sad that that's seen as "ultra-conservative", but...I don't see that a doctor or medical health professional seeing it is remotely analogous.

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25 Dec 2010, 1:34 am

Yeah you deserved to be dumped. Merry Christmas

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25 Dec 2010, 9:52 am

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Yeah you deserved to be dumped. Merry Christmas

I deserved it, only because I wanted her to *understand* my view? *Understand* it? I did really try to explain what I meant to her, as well, and it didn't go through... so I guess I shouldn't expect any better, here.

I won't be replying to this, anymore, so go ahead and post whatever you feel like.

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25 Dec 2010, 12:31 pm

Perhaps she would've understood your view better if she hadn't also known that you have really bizarre sex-related interests?

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26 Dec 2010, 11:42 pm

Beauty_pact wrote:

Better yet, check my single blog entry, too... that should be somewhat telling.

I'm going to pretend I never read that

Maybe she broke up with you because she didn't like your views?

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27 Dec 2010, 3:23 am

If you just wanted her to know your view as you say, there was nothing wrong with that you did, though your view is a bit outdated in the opinion of the society we're in now (but f**k what they think, as I always say).

If, however, you did try to force your view on her (and we don't know whether or not you did that), then she was right to break up with you.

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27 Dec 2010, 8:21 am

I have to reply to these two things, after all...

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I didn't force anything. I asked for a sort of compromise, but for some reason she took it as attempting to stir up trouble and cause drama, despite how clear I tried to be on it, and since she didn't want any more drama in the future, it apparently had to immediately end with no turning back, ever. She did say she'd likely start hating me in the future, at a time before, though... I guess she just decided to start hating me at random, instead, since it was going to happen, with time, anyway.

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Beauty_pact wrote:

Better yet, check my single blog entry, too... that should be somewhat telling.

I'm going to pretend I never read that

Maybe she broke up with you because she didn't like your views?

No, those views of mine are why she contacted me, to begin with (although my interest in manga and anime and such, as well, also helped, though). As did others before her, that it didn't work out with, either. There are people out there who in fact yearn to take part in the things I describe, there... in the world of some people, the things I talk about sound very beautiful.

Why can't humans be more like penguins? When penguins find a mate, they stay with the same little penguin for the rest of their lives... I kind of envy the penguins. :/

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27 Dec 2010, 10:58 am

I personally think the master/slave thing is hot - but when it starts to interfere with practical things it's a problem.

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27 Dec 2010, 1:15 pm

Beauty_pact wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

dude thats messed, you can't tell someone not to go to the doctor and get a physical examination (something everyone does, or should do) because...you think its bad?
you brought it on yourself, you were wrong, not her

Yeah, it's messed, I'm messed up, I'm a fùcking lunatic. Read some other of my messed up posts and you will see how fùcking crazy I am.

EDIT: Better yet, check my single blog entry, too... that should be somewhat telling.

Um....er....no comment...

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27 Dec 2010, 1:24 pm

emlion wrote:

I personally think the master/slave thing is hot - but when it starts to interfere with practical things it's a problem.

I personally never "got" the appeal of that, but I'd say to each his/her own....whatev, dude, if it weren't for some of the...um...er...other stuff in there.

Also, it's not so crazy if you don't want all sorts of other guys looking at your partner's body but a MEDICAL EXAM? I've had "female" exams and the last thing anyone is thinking about is sex. It's cold, there's a nurse or assistant there, it's uncomfortable, if you have sensory issues like me it's double uncomfortable, and I've also been on the other end of the exam table and shoot, it's anything but a sexy situation. :roll:

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27 Dec 2010, 3:33 pm

The medical exam thing, was pretty dumb on your part. It is necessary for a woman to have those exams. It is why even when people make these agreements, medical stuff is almost always exempt. She broke up with you for good reason, no boyfriend is worth her own health.

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27 Dec 2010, 3:35 pm

yep exactly.
definitely can't let it get in the way of actually real-life important stuff.

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27 Dec 2010, 4:03 pm

emlion wrote:

yep exactly.
definitely can't let it get in the way of actually real-life important stuff.

Who says it is more important?

There are several views on this, and I know for a fact that there are others who agree with me. Of course, people of my sort maybe shouldn't have ended up like humans, since humanity is such a flawed species. Then again, that may also be why my sort tends to embrace death... see it as something positive... why keep living all that long like a flawed human?

Not that it even was about anything physically dangerous, and I did try to get a compromise, but why compromise with someone you wouldn't work with, anyway? Might as well find someone else.

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