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25 Dec 2010, 4:39 pm

Aspieguy, you're not asking, you're telling. You're going to keep challenging our answers until we come up with something you agree with.



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25 Dec 2010, 4:58 pm

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Aspieguy, you're not asking, you're telling. You're going to keep challenging our answers until we come up with something you agree with.



I am finding the flaw of logic in your answers. I see nothing wrong with that.



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25 Dec 2010, 5:57 pm

Personal taste has nothing to do with logic.

I think what you are trying to ask is "What personality traits do girls value the most?" but it's very narrowed down, since there are only two choices. Most girls I've met value consistency (matching the things he says with the things he does) and laid back (letting her do her own thinking) over everything else. There is no secret to getting every girl. All girls are different, and all guys are different.



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25 Dec 2010, 6:00 pm

You don't mention logic in the question. We're not mind-readers!



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25 Dec 2010, 6:00 pm

Probably B unless he is weedy or fat.

I don't go for money and position. Or high levels of changeability.


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25 Dec 2010, 8:14 pm

Claradoon wrote:
You don't mention logic in the question. We're not mind-readers!



No, I am clarifying how some of what you say doesn't make sense.....get it?


I just realized you are like 60. Who looks decent at that age? Yes, I am actually serious.


No offense....



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25 Dec 2010, 8:30 pm

man c rarely exists
certainly isn't any here



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25 Dec 2010, 9:06 pm

ApsieGuy wrote:
I just realized you are like 60. Who looks decent at that age? Yes, I am actually serious.

You don't mention or specify age in your question. Why is it suddenly relevent? Are you saying that because Claradoon is in her 60's she is somehow disqualified from making such a value judgement? That's silly and illogical. Also, I know a man who looks decent at 82 and a woman who looks decent at 94. They are old but they aren't physically unattractive.
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Pretty sure most men want sex. Otherwise, why would one get married? Yes there are other reasons.

Saying "Yes there are other reasons" immediately after "Otherwise, why would one get married" doesn't make sense. You are saying that there is only one reason to get married (sex) and then stating that there are other reasons as well. You can't have it both ways.
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However, if a guy didn't want sex, why wouldn't he just remain friends with a women? What would be the purpose of any sort of relationship at all?

Companionship, mutual respect, romantic affection, and (in some cases) the desire to be a parent.



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25 Dec 2010, 10:10 pm

CrinklyCrustacean wrote:
ApsieGuy wrote:
I just realized you are like 60. Who looks decent at that age? Yes, I am actually serious.

You don't mention or specify age in your question. Why is it suddenly relevent? Are you saying that because Claradoon is in her 60's she is somehow disqualified from making such a value judgement? That's silly and illogical. Also, I know a man who looks decent at 82 and a woman who looks decent at 94. They are old but they aren't physically unattractive.
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Pretty sure most men want sex. Otherwise, why would one get married? Yes there are other reasons.

Saying "Yes there are other reasons" immediately after "Otherwise, why would one get married" doesn't make sense. You are saying that there is only one reason to get married (sex) and then stating that there are other reasons as well. You can't have it both ways.
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However, if a guy didn't want sex, why wouldn't he just remain friends with a women? What would be the purpose of any sort of relationship at all?

Companionship, mutual respect, romantic affection, and (in some cases) the desire to be a parent.






1.) Most people in their 60s are wrinkly. Beauty is relative. When someone refers to decent looks, they are usually referring to someone in the 20-50 crowd. So, a decent looking 60 year old will be comparatively less attractive than a decent 20 year old.


2.) I should of clarified that. Sex is one reason people get married(even christians). No, it isn't a primary reason. My point was that since it is one reason people get married, I think it's unfair for a women to exlude that from a relationship unless a serious health condition is present.

3.) Again, I guess my logic was failed. I clarified it in 2.









This is just going down a bad road. If you guys had just answered the stupid question like I asked , we wouldn't be in this situation.

Looking over this thread, only like one or two people came in and just answered the freaking question instead of adding junk along the lines of"personality matters most." Yes, personality does matter most. However, it is the superficial things that initially attract us to each other.


I was just asking that if you saw these two men basically in a showcase which would you choose.




Moderators. Please lock this thread.



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25 Dec 2010, 10:28 pm

dude you fail, and insulted quite a few people



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25 Dec 2010, 10:40 pm

Kilroy wrote:
dude you fail, and insulted quite a few people


Quite aware that I insulted quite a few people.


I think my logic is decent though.



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25 Dec 2010, 10:42 pm

you sure about that?



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25 Dec 2010, 11:11 pm

Kilroy wrote:
you sure about that?


Pretty sure. Except for the reply to answer number 1 which is just insulting.



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25 Dec 2010, 11:14 pm

well so many people here like to feel their sexist flawed logic is sound, but its not
and I hardly think yours is either



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25 Dec 2010, 11:22 pm

Kilroy wrote:
well so many people here like to feel their sexist flawed logic is sound, but its not
and I hardly think yours is either


Well your opinion of who is logical is better than everyone else's as it's based soley on a third part perspective logic

Of course, everyone here has aspergers. Hence, we are more logic oriented anyway.....



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25 Dec 2010, 11:24 pm

not true at all
another AS myth
like how AS people "can't lie"