CrinklyCrustacean wrote:
ApsieGuy wrote:
I just realized you are like 60. Who looks decent at that age? Yes, I am actually serious.
You don't mention or specify age in your question. Why is it suddenly relevent? Are you saying that because Claradoon is in her 60's she is somehow disqualified from making such a value judgement? That's silly and illogical. Also, I know a man who looks decent at 82 and a woman who looks decent at 94. They are old but they aren't physically unattractive.
AspieGuy wrote:
Pretty sure most men want sex. Otherwise, why would one get married? Yes there are other reasons.
Saying "Yes there are other reasons" immediately after "Otherwise, why would one get married" doesn't make sense. You are saying that there is only one reason to get married (sex) and then stating that there are other reasons as well. You can't have it both ways.
AspieGuy wrote:
However, if a guy didn't want sex, why wouldn't he just remain friends with a women? What would be the purpose of any sort of relationship at all?
Companionship, mutual respect, romantic affection, and (in some cases) the desire to be a parent.
1.) Most people in their 60s are wrinkly. Beauty is relative. When someone refers to decent looks, they are usually referring to someone in the 20-50 crowd. So, a decent looking 60 year old will be comparatively less attractive than a decent 20 year old.
2.) I should of clarified that. Sex is one reason people get married(even christians). No, it isn't a primary reason. My point was that since it is one reason people get married, I think it's unfair for a women to exlude that from a relationship unless a serious health condition is present.
3.) Again, I guess my logic was failed. I clarified it in 2.
This is just going down a bad road. If you guys had just answered the stupid question
like I asked , we wouldn't be in this situation.
Looking over this thread, only like one or two people came in and just answered the freaking question instead of adding junk along the lines of"personality matters most."
Yes, personality does matter most. However, it is the superficial things that initially attract us to each other.
I was just asking that if you saw these two men basically in a showcase which would you choose.
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