Any guys feel like they act creepy around girls they like?

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My friends dad got me a pizza delivery job
It was mainly highschoolers
(I am 4 years older than her)
She knew my little brother
I was awkward and quiet
She used to mess with me
Being an Aspie
I just stayed quiet
She thought I wasnt bothered
She got fired and told her friend
(My roommate now)
To have me call her
Her friend also met her boyfriend there
He is the 4th roommate now
I had recently been doing alot of drugs
I had sex
I thought this would just mean sex again
Yippy
She is an only child and real determined to have her way
Her way was marriage
I didnt want a fight
I am married against my beliefs
Because I cant stand up for myself
I miss her when shes gone sometimes
But mainly I feel like I use her
As mommy number 2
She takes care of everything
This pisses her off
She tells me it feels like we are just roommates
Because my idea of personal attention is sitting in a room with someone
Thats an honor
Now that I am discovering Aspergers
I have been stuck on AS for a few months
And my side of this shared life has stopped
Hers is still going
She doesnt understand that
And like any rational(used loosely as shes a girly girl) person
She got mad and attempted to punish me
I moved to my parents house
Its a lot less crazy now
I am in the process of getting an official diagnosis
So I can at least seek the right therapy
And maybe share in my part of this life

I never wanted kids
Now I kinda do
But only in a way that maybe it would be cool to play with
I just wouldnt want me as a child
Though I know thats the way of things
And with girls
I wouldnt be able to raise her
I would feel so uneasy

Last time I really liked a guy in person, I was pretty much a creep. Following him around, constantly calling and texting him, showing up at his room a lot. Ive done that to a lot of people in the past but most of them were just friends. It was until recently that, this behavior is considered "creepy". I dont know why anybodies called me a creep? But they probably all thought I was

But I officially put my creepy ways behind, and I currently like a guy and Im trying so hard not to be a creep. And I try to ask my friends, oh I did this, is that creepy? Its hard not to be creepy, I just want to show up at his room.

Thats me right there
Showin up at her front door whenever
Her best friend who I was also crushing on
I would just come in her backyard and knock on the window

Has anyone ever heard of playing onsides
Its in a book called Stumbling naked in the dark
http://www.amazon.com/Stumbling-Naked-D ... 1412012155
On a scale of one to ten
1 being happiest 10 being angriest
If anyone is say a 6 you have to be a 7
And its been a long time since I read about it
But you are always one notch up
Never be more enthusiastic

I just found this dating cheat sheet
http://www.scribd.com/doc/95390/Dating- ... ley-Fenton
Remember it applies to all relationships
Not just dating

For me I'm not even creepy, more like non-existent. I act like I don't have any interest in the person and when I see them, I walk by them and don't say anything and like an idiot out of habit, I try to look away if I happen to pass them which really is a bad impression. In front of my crush I have a very hard time showing her I am interested because I'm afraid I might irritate or annoy her.

I find that in my avoidance of people
And being creepy
I end up getting more attention

A good quote I like:

I might be paraphrasing

He who speaks does not know
He who knows does not speak

A man walks into a bar
Sits down and orders a drink
The man sitting next to him starts talking to him
He sits and listens not saying a word
The other man talks and talks
Going on and on about nothing
And after about half an hour
He gets up and leaves
The quiet man having said no words

I got to the end and forgot the rest but you can see where Im getting to
Being quiet has always brought me negative attention
I guess those who are different
And want to be left alone will always be bothered
Those who seek attention push people away
Like short people will forever be picked up by there drunk friends
Because everyone wants to exploit your differences
They dont consider you
They see a quiet person
They are seeing a vacant set of ears
A small person can be picked up so they will
You also cant tell people no
They will always say yes
You have to make people think it was their idea
Reverse psychology should be psychology in a logical world
But that wasnt logical at all
Neither is the world
I guess what Im saying is whatever it is you want
Act opposedly
But dont act like you are acting opposedly
A naive person might take it as what you want


My brain wont stop debating itself

Is it weird that I actually like that?

Girls have definitely put me on the 'creep-o meter.'

Wish I knew how to get off of that! I suppose, if I did, I'd have friends in general.

*sigh* Oh well...at least I have myself!

I act creepy around most people not just girls I like but it's worse around em. I've been a creep my whole life; it's who I am