What is with these other AS people

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Basically. Get over yourself.
Being an optimist is a stupid reason to hate someone.
You're not special, you're like everyone else - bad things happen, get over it.
If you wallow in self-pity life will suck. That. Is. Life.
You complain but take NO advice, from anyone.
Enjoy your self pity, because you clearly do.

Once again, I repeat, as long as you think things are hopeless they will be. The only thing keeping things hopeless is your belief that things will not get better.

You two are great for trying, and it says great things about you both that you continue to try in the face of the ugliness that he throws in your direction. But I really do think he feeds on this stuff and the time has probably come to hit that "Stop watching this topic" link down there

Yeah, he attempted to twist my words a bit a couple posts ago, so I'm going to stop trying soon. Depending on his next post, I should say.

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If you don't want to be in this thread then leave. It's not like someone's forcing you to come in here and post.

If you want to wallow in self pity, don't do it here.

Last edited by Jonsi on 14 Jan 2011, 3:59 pm, edited 1 time in total.

I have "tried" with him on several occasions. Was that the post you were waiting for?

No, just what he was going to say next.

I don't understand why he's posting, and I'm trying to. :\

but here's the thing, I think several of us have offered suggestions and help and what we can do in the other thread .(...somewhere else, because I'm too zaniflexed to think of the name or location ) and you just don't seem to be open to the possibility of more. The only one who seems to have given up on you is YOU.

Is it about sympathy or possibility or what?

I won't admit that you're unlovable for the litany of issues you list. You could develop a sense of humor, everyone loves the funny guy.

I used to have a a group of autistic kids (between 12 and 17) for a group thing once a week. Each was different, some were *pretty* some were *ugly*, some had higher IQ's, some had higher functioning than others, some were more wealthy and some had indepth psychiatric issues, but we all made it work and could find something to appreciate in everyone present.

You've got to make your life what you want. Lot's of people get a raw deal and only those that work at it can overcome it.

but I'm repeating myself.

I have a right to be bitter and angry. I'm sick of seeing other people and former friends that treated me badly have a bunch of friends and girlfriends. It isn't fair. Girls that won't so much as look at me are going out with them. All I've done was try to be nice to people and they still treated me like s**t. It's unbelievable I hate this world so much.

I've been bullied, beaten, my parents have divorced, I've been alone, I've been rejected an uncountable amount of times, I've been through three breakups, my original father hates me and has told me so himself and my step father has what is essentially cancer of the blood. I've even been homeless and without food or clean water.

And I'm not bitter. Or angry. I just decided not to let it get to me.

Bring on the drama.

Last edited by Jonsi on 14 Jan 2011, 4:28 pm, edited 1 time in total.

An overindulgence in being a victim of circumstances "out of your control" is a futile and pointless means of pursuing life. Be prepared for disappointment from those who choose not to be victims.

at least you've had friends and girlfriends.

Besides, you're probably way more advanced and more functional than I am, so that's probably why you were able to get through most of that stuff.

I'm weak, pathetic, good for nothing ret*d, so I'm s**t out of luck.

Dude! They treat you like sh** because you do NOTHING but wallow in self pity. If you spend 1/4th the energy on improving your life as you do feeling sorry for yourself you'd have done some pretty cool stuff. No one wants to hear that all the time. A bad day here and there is to be expected, but the non stop "oh poor me" behavior is driving any friends away and would be friends away as well.

I'm an extreme case of aspergers. I'm likely far more socially ret*d than most people here. You know how I got friends? I stopped pitying myself. I stopped telling myself how useless I was. I started trying to love myself and started loving others. Some will reject it due to their own immaturity, but people will get to like you.