Looking 4 a hillbilly aspie girl.

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The truth is that most guys DO NOT find fat girls attractive, I know fat girls can be beautiful... I've seen tonnes of beautiful girls who are overweight and I'm always thinking to myself "that would be BEAUTIFUL if they just had the balls to lose the weight, she'd easily outclass her friends if she just lost the pounds."

Seriously people who are overweight show negative qualities like low self-esteem and self-neglect. This is why generally men find them unattractive unless you're taking what you can get. For men weight is a health issue, also it's also a SOCIAL STATUS issue.

A guy knows instinctively that when he goes out or is seen in public with a fat girl that LOWERS his status in the eyes of everyone that see's him on an instinctual level he becomes less attractive to beautiful girls that would otherwise sleep with him, because there MUST be some sort of social imbalance that a HOT GUY has to hook up with a FAT GIRL.

Well, I don't know about *you*, but NT girls have always been nice to *me*.

I must say that I find this thread disturbing both as a West Virginian and a fatty. (The two go hand and hand.)

Inner qualities and similar interests supercede looks when it comes to my ideal mate.

As a guy, it is only natural to seek women who are skinny, blond, and have big boobs. But what's the point in that if someone like that wants to spend all your money, get you to do something illegal, and then dump you when she finds someone with a nicer car?

Tim

As a female I am offended by a number of the posts. Laziness is not the sole cause of obesity. There are a number of illnesses and also medications that can cause weight gain. Its really interesting reading a lot of your whining posts how life is so unfair to Aspie guys. But some of you guys are just as bad with your prejudice against non-skinny, non-blondes as you claim NT girls are towards Aspie guys. It's no wonder some of you have never got LAID!

I was just asking "Would you want someone who was good-looking, but was abusive?".

Of course my answer was no.

Yes, I am attracted to people like that, but I am not going to beat myself up if I end up with someone who doesn't meet those characteristice--as long as she is honest, not manipulative, and not abusive.

And now, from a distance of almost 3000 miles, and having never seen her, werbert the psychic will describe Ticker's physical appearance: Not skinny, and not blonde, and not attracted to men.

It is dispiriting to see people denigrated because of their physical appearance. Theoretically, it would be great to have a hot girlfriend, but, unless you have the name of a good plastic surgeon, looks fade, leaving only the personality to love.

I've had a similar experience as well, even quite attractive girls are often nice and friendly to me.

In fact, there *is* an NT woman in my area who is interested in me, and she has a few extra pounds, and that doesn't matter to me. She and I have a lot of similar interests.

Unfortunately, a relationship might not work out because I will likely be relocating to go to school.

All I can say is if you want a hot model skinny, blonde Barbie chick you better be a sexy, rippled pecs, washboard ab guy with a nice car and tons of money. Then you will need a good psychiatrist to help you recover once she dumps you.

Actually I find a number of guys attractive or at least male characters. Cosmo Kramer, John Locke, Jean Luc Picard... now those are real men. There's a guy at work that's pretty hot. Oh I should say he weighs probably 350-400lbs but there's just something about him. He's so funny I laugh till my sides hurt, he is uninhibited and will break out singing and dancing in front of everyone. He has really cool hair and dresses nice. I don't think there is anyone that dislikes him. Incidently he's married.

This looks like a great thread to just sit back, eat some popcorn, and watch. Couldn't help but notice everything went off point from the first reply and has pretty much managed to stay well out in left field (no diss to anyone but still, kinda feel bad for Sam).

Well okay then sorry. I'm a Hillbilly Aspie woman but highly offended and not interested. Thanks.

I don't think I like fat girls.

I hate the lazy part of me that refuses to get fit, seeing other people who are even lazier and even weaker than me annoys me.

I'm going running tomorrow, honest.

Well, then again neither you nor I knew what he really intended - from the looks I don't know why he would have written this post unless he was legit and if anything the rest of what he said was spoken from experience and probably not intended as disrespect (probably just spoke his mind a bit too uninhibited). Still though, by all means, if your gut reaction is to be offended then don't let that stop you - be offended (not being sarcastic, just I realize he did phrase it pretty badly and especially if you are in that position I wouldn't expect you not to be - its human nature).

Pun intended?



Speak for yourself. Only guys with low self esteem are like that. Also Ticker has a point, some of you are pathetic. You'd think for people that desperate you'd be a bit nicer about overweight females.

Some people got offended at the principle of the original poster saying he didn't want fat girls. I personally get offended when I get told that fat people don't have a choice in their size. I've been a few stone overweight when I was a stoner(16 stone), but I grew up skinny and the extra weight actually sickened me. It was a lot of hard work to change my ways, but I'm glad to say that I worked it off and I'm back to normal now.

The thing about overweight people though, they try the diets and excercise, but after 2 weeks they get bored because there hasn't been a drastic change in their appearance. Overweight people talk about other reasons for being overweight, but come on, we're aspies, you can't lie to me and you can't lie to yourself. Every attempt to lose weight has been half assed and you know it.