"Do You Feel Sexy?"

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Yeah.. I don't think I ever look sexy, at least I don't feel as though I look sexy, but there are times when I have felt sexy.. but they only occur with one person - I never have the confidence to feel sexy with anyone but them, nor act as I do with anyone but them.. I've never felt comfortable enough to feel sexy at any other time. Hmm.. looking sexy is most definately different to feeling sexy, because looking sexy is based on someone elses opinion and feeling sexy is based on how you feel, not someone else.

I feel sexy when I'm dancing. Not at any other time. And the only reason for that is that people think I'm sexy when I'm dancing. It is strange because people who see me dance think assume I'm a very sexual person, at least until they meet me in person.

Rarely ever at night, because then my zits become quite obvious. In certain lighting I feel very un-sexy. But sometimes when I step out of the shower I feel kinda sexy-ishy.

Since I work out I feel much sexier than I use to feel. But sex appeal has something more to do with a positve attitude. Though a smaller butt and some muscles helps too. If you are happy about yourself and what you are, people will notice that. To me that is sex appeal. Character and personality are more important.
I use to work out at a gym. Most people there just care about appearence and how they look. They had no appeal at all. To me being attractive means having the right state of mind in combination with a nice but. That makes sex appeal very paradigmatic. Anyway, who needs someone who has a nice butt, but acts like an arse.