Why does everyone hate me? Why am I unable to find someone?

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Esther
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13 Feb 2011, 12:38 pm

Aspocrat is a reincarnation of someone else. I remember who it is and I don't think he is a troll (at least I hope not).

What have the psychologists told you? No advice given by anyone on this board will work if you are not willing to listen and/or try. It sounds like you are acting the way you are based off on some script you're rehearsing in your day-to-day life. Don't wear this, do that, stand up, pull chair out, adjust tie, lay cloth down on ground so she doesn't get shoes muddy, etc.

I'm sorry if you are struggling so much. Personalities are very hard to change. But maybe you can let the little things slip by, walk away from them and that can be the seed of small changes for you. Not everything has to be a fight.

Seriously, I hope you have some sort of breakthrough. You are very young and time is on your side. If you want to change anything, now is it. It gets harder as we get older and stuck in our ways/in a rut.

And I'm going to go into joke mode now... can I be your date on April 29th? I'm looking forward to getting good seats. :wink:



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13 Feb 2011, 12:40 pm

You mean someone else under a new account?
Isn't that not allowed?



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13 Feb 2011, 12:52 pm

Am not sure what the rules are. Just goes to show I didn't read the TOS. Don't kick me off, Alex! :P

But I can imagine to be unhealthily narcissistic (as the OP sounds like) is a real pain (or a royal pain in the OP's case).



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13 Feb 2011, 12:53 pm

I'm pretty sure multiple accounts are against the rules.

But anyway: he'll never find anyone with that attitude.
End of story.



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13 Feb 2011, 12:53 pm

emlion wrote:
You mean someone else under a new account?
Isn't that not allowed?


I'll put it this way... it is a damn good way to get the moderators attention to look closely at the members account and posts! :wink:


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13 Feb 2011, 12:54 pm

TallyMan wrote:
emlion wrote:
You mean someone else under a new account?
Isn't that not allowed?


I'll put it this way... it is a damn good way to get the moderators attention to look closely at the members account and posts! :wink:


Uh ohes. >.<

On another note: I LOVE your picture, it makes me giggle every time I see it.



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13 Feb 2011, 12:55 pm

Esther wrote:
(or a royal pain in the OP's case).

God, I love puns. :D



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13 Feb 2011, 1:12 pm

Jonsi wrote:
IQ means nothing anyway, it's your actions that make you worth dating.

Edit: There's your problem. No human is any better or worse than another. We are all equal.

Logically this is not correct. It is a romantic notion created to please the majority.
In the NT world any such romantic views are deemed true without scientific evidence
to prove otherwise.

Exact equality in nature is very hard to find. Example measure the weight of identical twins.
One of them weighs 73.1205 kilos what is the chance that the other one will weigh the same
equally.

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13 Feb 2011, 1:18 pm

The sweet, slow witted drummer walks onto the WP stage.

I'm proud to be a working class hero. I don't need brains or money to be happy. I also treat people the way that I wish to be treated. Not only that. I consider the people in my life to be my equals, whether their brighter or slower than I am. I'm also willing to talk to anyone and help anyone. As a result, everybody loves me.

You just made me want to buy a vintage brown suit like The Kinks wore in early 1964 and wear it all over town, with my plaid cap. My name isn't CockneyRebel for nothing.


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13 Feb 2011, 1:22 pm

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Logically this is not correct. It is a romantic notion created to please the majority.
In the NT world any such romantic views are deemed true without scientific evidence
to prove otherwise.


Depends if you want to be logically correct or just happy.
I'd take being happy over being on a pedastal any day.



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13 Feb 2011, 1:32 pm

I abandoned logic long ago. Logic limits you to this tiny little box where only probabilities exist. I have more fun and feel a lot happier outside that box. :)



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13 Feb 2011, 1:33 pm

Have you considered joining society. If money is a problem you have enough time to acquire sufficient assets. Birds of
a feather stick together. Many if not most people expect other people to be similar to themselves in order to be treated
with respect, I hope you do not fall into that category. So if you share company with common folk they will expect you
to be like themselves, and do as they do. I may not believe in the notion that everyone is equal but I do believe that our
superiors and lesser folk should be treated with respect. I dog is not equal to a man, would that men it should be tread
like, earm! inappropriately.
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13 Feb 2011, 1:36 pm

Differing opinions is a good thing, without them, debates would be awfully boring. :D

Books would also be quite bland as well.



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13 Feb 2011, 2:01 pm

Jonsi wrote:
I abandoned logic long ago. Logic limits you to this tiny little box where only probabilities exist. I have more fun and feel a lot happier outside that box. :)


Jonsi . Logic is vital element of morality. Without it, you have opposing forces believing that justice is on their side. Reminded me of a lady at work who thought it was immoral to buy books from charity shop to sell on. Her response to me was hostile. Fortunately, many NTs in the office had and understanding of the science of money, her arguments were illogical and dangerous.



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13 Feb 2011, 2:21 pm

This guy sounds like he's from the early 19th century.



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13 Feb 2011, 2:29 pm

I'm curious. If you feel that you are better than 99% of the population, and so much more intelligent, why are you asking us our opinion?

99% of us wouldn't say anything that you would find useful so I'm wondering what your real motivation is in asking this question in the first place.

It must suck to be so superior than most people. Must be very lonely. I wish you luck finding someone of your ilk.